Dr. Emily Jamea is a sex and relationship therapist and she has helped thousands of people create connection and cultivate passion. When she's not seeing clients, Emily researches the relationship between flow and sexual satisfaction. Her expertise has been featured in Oprah Magazine, CNN, USA Today, The BBC, NBC, and more. Emily hosts the popular Love & Libido podcast, writes columns for Healthy Women and Psychology Today, and posts across all the social media channels @dremilyjamea. Her book, Anatomy of Desire (Flatiron), will be released in 2024. Today we talk about flow state- what is it, how to get into it, and how it impacts sexual and relational satisfaction. We also discuss neurotransmitters in sex and relationships, control and its relationship to surrender, and so much more! Ads/ Discounts: OSEA: For a limited time, you can get 10% off with my code SCHOLARS at  https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skincare-sets-1?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=112023_HolidayGift_SLUTSANDSCHOLARS NOCD: Get a free 15 min consultation today at https://www.treatmyocd.com/   Dr. Emily Jamea:  https://emilyjamea.com/ Get 50% off when you use code "halfoff" for Dr. Emily's course Anatomy of Desire    FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

Check out this other awesome show from the Pleasure Podcast Network-DoubleTeamed Podcast! Here is a snippet of Double Teamed Podcast's recent episode "House Boys & Blood Play ft. Colette Pervette" where the twins sit down with a professional Dominatrix and dive into her world of service submissives, blood play, and educational courses for anyone interested in becoming a Domme. Tune into Double Teamed anywhere you listen to podcasts every Thursday, and be sure to check them out on Instagram and TikTok! For more, check out doubleteamedpodcast.com FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

Amy Baldwin was voted 2022’s Sexpert of the Year within the pleasure products industry. She is a Sex and Relationship Coach and co-host of the Shameless Sex Podcast. How to figure out what you want and like during sex, things that can get in the way of experiencing pleasure, nourishment barriers, and Shameless Sex's NEW BOOK!  DISCOUNTS/ ADS: Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands NOCD: Breaking the OCD cycle takes effective treatment. To get started, go to nocd.com to book a free 15-minute call.   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

Deborah Kagan is a Speaker, Author, Mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist with years of practice being a turned-on woman. She supports entrepreneurs, small business owners, consultants, creatives and the career oriented to tap into their innate power and connect with their mojo, which is a source of true self-esteem. We talk about what MOJO is, how to elevate it, power and pleasure centers of the body, and what to do if you are having difficulties orgasming.    Discounts and ads: https://linktr.ee/slutsandscholars   Deborah: https://www.deborah-kagan.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

This episode features Alexis Fawx. Alexis is an award-winning Adult actress, model, Coffee Bean dealer, Cannabis ambassador, podcaster, writer, and producer. Today we talk about what she has learned from her decade plus in the adult industry. We talk about her start in The Air Force and becoming an award winning adult performer. We also cover some of her top sex tips about group sex, DP, communication, testing, and more!    Ads: Green Chef: Go to GreenChef.com/60SANDS and use code 60SANDS to get 60% off plus free shipping.   Iroha: Get 10% off the amazing iroha mai at https://bit.ly/mai-vibrations-ss.  Find the pleasure that resonates with you! Use code“SandS” for 10% off the iroha mai!   Flure App: https://flure.onelink.me/TEKB/j1reb4sc    Alexis Fawx: www.alexisfawxlive.com  www.instagram.com/alexisfawxlive   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

Dr. Hartmann holds two doctorate degrees, including a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality with an emphasis on Clinical Sexology, as well as a Master in Public Health. Her primary focus is forensic sexology, and the preservation of erotic artifacts, including the archiving of sexually explicit films. Her Doctoral work centered on the effects of dark web violent and explicit films. She authored the book “I Love Dead People – Inside the Mind of Death Fetishists” based on her doctoral thesis, and has proposed a new theoretical framework for classifying paraphilias. She is an expert explicit material valuator; she is the current Director of the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas. Today we are talking about the research around necrophilia, death fetishes, and serial killers… and also zombies. Happy Halloween (Samhain), slutty scholars.   Erotic Heritage Museum: https://eroticmuseumvegas.com/ Dr. Hartmann: https://www.youtube.com/@sexnerdpodcast   Ads and discounts:   Iroha: And right now, Iroha is offering our listeners 10% off with promo code, [SandS]. Just go to [sluttyscholars.com] and click on Iroha.   Manscaped: Get 20% off + free shipping with the code [SCHOLARS] at manscaped.com   Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands    FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

This episode features Jessi Kneeland. Jessi Kneeland (they/them) is a body image coach, writer, and speaker dedicated to helping people find personal and collective liberation through body neutrality— a philosophy predicated on the idea that how we look is the least interesting and important thing about us. We talk about body neutrality, how to practice it, and how it can improve your life, including your sex life!   https://www.jessikneeland.com/   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

This week I am joined by Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey. Dr. Bisbey is a psychologist, accredited advanced GSRD therapist, writer, podcast host, sex & intimacy coach, speaker, TV personality who has spent the past 35+ years helping people to create and maintain incredible relationships with sizzling sex and without shame. She is currently touring the UK with a talk called The Psychology of Fetish and Kink and starring in Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on Ch4 in the UK. We talk about: how to tell a partner what you're into (both new and long term partners); core relationship values and how to date with these in mind; desire and relationship style discrepancies; when to leave and when to stay when you and your partner want different things.   Dr. Bisbey: https://drloribethbisbey.com/    FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

We’re excited to introduce you to another show on the Pleasure Podcasts network called, Erotic Stories. If you’re a fan of erotica and looking for a place to indulge in your wildest fantasies, then you need to listen to Erotic Stories. Each week, Mia will tell you a sensual story in a silky-smooth voice that will surely get you in the mood. Check out more Erotic Stories wherever you get your podcasts.   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

This week I am joined By Noa Fleischacker. Noa is the Executive Director of Tight Lipped, a storytelling and advocacy organization by and for people with chronic vulvovaginal and pelvic pain conditions. Tight Lipped was born out of Noa’s personal experience navigating the healthcare system with pelvic floor dysfunction. We talk about types of pelvic pain, what it is like to live with pelvic pain, medical gaslighting, and the struggles with receiving care in our medical system.  Remember, sex should only hurt if you want it to!    Ads and discounts: Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands Green Chef: Go to GreenChef.com/60scholars and use code 60scholars to get 60% off plus free shipping   Past episodes on pelvic pain: -        99 Endometriosis: The Invisible Disease with Dr. Shannon Chavez  -       101 Is a "Tight" Vagina a Thing? Pelvic Pain with Kayna Cassard -      148 The Pelvic Whisperer with Dr. Sherine Aubert, PT, DPT, PRPC -      212 Sexual Functioning with Dr. Lisa Valle   Tight Lipped: Tight Lipped's Resource and Connection Guide for people looking for credible medical information on vulvovaginal and pelvic pain conditions Resources for finding a local medical provider: Find a Provider: ISSWSH Find a Healthcare Professional - IPPS Providers - The National Vulvodynia Association Here’s how listeners can get involved in Tight Lipped! Join Tight Lipped Tight Lipped Podcast Opening Up, the Tight Lipped zine: digital version of the zine (with recordings) Subscribe to our monthly newsletter Follow us on instagram Donate to support Tight Lipped's advocacy work   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.