Confidently Insecure

Ahhh the construct of VIRGINITY! Its a tale as old as time. But we’re here today joined by @Lily_Marston & MAMA DARRAGH to talk all things hymens, backseats, and buttholes. Virgin Mary? I don’t know her. Follow Lily: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgsgwY1juNJIYGgauQxjTlQhttps://www.instagram.com/lily_marston/?hl=enLINK TO SONG: https://open.spotify.com/album/39tNwVMO4zHA6QJZyuhuVo?si=u9FfV4eJRqm4TvAqOE4mJgSearch “KAP SLAP” on Apple Music WATCH LILY & MEGANS DOC https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-LeEllFP2wFOLLOW US:Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE:Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.comCONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH:https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirtartwork by @backspace.tvphoto by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

we had to do it. I'm not happy about it BUT I COULDN'T NOT TALK ABOUT POLITICS!!! Theres so much fucking shit on my timelines and in my earballs every day about it!! And of course, with all my frustrations I know the only person who wouldn't yell back at me about this was a stoned white guy - my buddy and writing parter Ian Wolterstorff!!!! Who are YOU voting for?DONT FORGET TO VOTE IN THE PRIMARIES! IT HELPS LOTS OF STUFF BESIDES DECIDING WHO IS GONNA BE PREZ! learn everything you need to know about voting here:https://www.vote.org/MERCH:https://store.dftba.com/collections/kelsey-darraghFOLLOW US:Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE:Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.comCONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH:https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirtartwork by @backspace.tvphoto by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

WWEEEOoooOOOO sound the alarms!!!!or...don't? wait...should I be freaking out about whats going on in the world with these outbreaks? Or can I keep on my regular scheduled program of managing MY OWN OUTBREAKS (hi yeast fections!) WHEN CAN I PUT DOWN THE GAS MASKS? Do those masks even help?? What about flying? IS IT SAFE or am I being xenophobic? Kelsey & Kapslap talk all things CARONA and historical pandemics....oh....and about kelsey's foster dog eating cum. great. Learn more about corona virus at:https://www.who.int/ https://www.cdc.gov/ https://promedmail.org/USE CODE “CI“ at betterhelp.com for 10% off your first month of therapy :)FOLLOW US:Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE:Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.comCONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH:https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirtartwork by @backspace.tvphoto by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW -kelsey getting ready for this episode.    Seriously, could a pain flare (the worst of 2 years) have shown up at a better/worse time than during the recording of this podcast episode with LE DJ KAP SLAP JARED LUCASS?! Kelsey talks about being confidently insecure about the current virus spreading across the world, the crazy shit-uation with JAMEELA JALIL and finally, a surprisingly heartfelt convo with her lover about being in a relationship with someone who is constantly in pain?  FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh   DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.com   CONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH: https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirt                 artwork by @backspace.tv   photo by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

TRIGGER WARNING: emotional and physical abuse If you have questions about relationships and emotional or physcial abuse please visit: https://www.loveisrespect.org/ https://www.verywellmind.com/identify-and-cope-with-emotional-abuse-4156673 same sex relationships: https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community   I had to make a choice when recording this podcast. I had to make a choice to put some of the most shameful parts of my life online for people to judge. I also had to accept that there very well could be backlash and or retaliation because of this being published. However, I am one of the lucky ones. I have a platform to speak THE TRUTH OF WHAT HAPPENED TO ME. I have the ability to hire lawyers, afford therapy, seek support from my loved ones and most importantly - amplify this issue that is happening to so many young people across the world who CANNOT speak out about it. If I had nerves doing it, I can only imagine how some of you feel without these resources. This is for you.   Please feel free to get 10% off your first month of therapy at: www.BETTERHELP.com/ci   Thank you to my confidants, everyone on my team, my parents, my sister and mostly my best friend Lacey for being the voice I needed when I couldn't use my own. FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.com CONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH: https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirt artwork by @backspace.tv photo by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

TRIGGER WARNING: talk of kobe and sexual assault  SO LIKE - if we have 7 mins left before the world is about to end who would you call? what would you eat? would you call your mom or your ex? DID YOU KNOW 19 YEAR OLDS HAVE ACCESS TO OUR NUCLEAR WEAPONS????? Chris Reinacher (@chrisreinacher & https://www.youtube.com/user/simpleput) stops by to help us answer all of these questions while he tells us about his new show (GETTING BOMBED out feb 8th #bombsaway) that helps us wake the fuck up to what is happening in our gov't with all those bombs that, like, could end the world?????   -check out WINE & WEED https://wineandweed.libsyn.com/ THANK YOU TO ALL OF OUR CONFIDANTES WHO VENMO'D DONATIONS THIS WEEK! IVF treatment  https://www.bonfire.com/cassie-eriks-ivf-journey/ FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh   DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.com   CONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH: https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirt                 artwork by @backspace.tv   photo by @isergiogarcia  Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

WOW!!! Okay, before you drag me about the audio, know that I had SEVEN GIRLS on at the same time to talk about VAGINAS, pregnancy, freezing your eggs, and all the shit that comes with it SO CAN WE GIVE OLE KELSEY A BREAK?! IM SO THRILLED to bring on this week not only DEVIN LYLE (@devlytle) who is a brilliant producer (LadyLike, BuzzFeed) AND TURNS OUT EGG DONATION RECRUITER, but also 5 of my closest lady friends called the COOTER CLUB. These women are my boss bitch friends who i've known for years who are unafriad, bold, and truly the best pals a gal could ask for! I love them all! ENJOY THIS DOUBLE EPISODE!!!!!   FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh   DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.com   CONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH: https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirt                 artwork by @backspace.tv   photo by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A love story of 2 fuckbois who met and thought they'd never ever EVER do traditional shit like fall in love or god forbid...MOVE IN WITH EACH OTHER!!! Why yes, Kelsey and Jared and both sworn off commitment until they were in their 30's but as the saying goes "it always happens when you least except it especially when it's with your neighbor who has the hottest piece of ass you've ever seen" FOLLOW KAP SLAP:  @Kap Slap  Search "Kap Slap mixes" on SPOTIFY! FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.com CONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH: https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirt         artwork by @backspace.tv photo by @isergiogarciaSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

HAPPY 2020! AND WELCOME TO MONDAY!!!   ANOTHER HOE THROUGHOUT HISTORY YOU SAY?! Why YES, this year we are starting out with a BANG telling the incredible hard to believe hard as fuck story of CHIANG SHIH - the most deadly and notorious pirate you've never heard of!!!!!!! FOLLOW JAZZ:  @JazzmyneJay  FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE: Confidentlyinsecurepodcast@Gmail.com CONFIDENTLY INSECURE MERCH: https://store.dftba.com/products/confidently-insecure-shirt     artwork by @backspace.tv photo by @isergiogarcia articles: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ching_Shih https://historydaily.org/ching-shih-the-pirate-queenSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

JUST A QUICK NOTE TO SAY HAPPY NEW YEAR AND........   THE PODCAST WILL START BEING RELEASED ON MONDAYS!!! We heard you loud and clear - you want to start your week off RIGHT! Get in the car, put it on your phone while you get ready in the AM, GET YA MIND IN THE RIGHT HEADSPACE to conquer the week! 2020 is going to be amazing for you confidants - I can't wait to see whats next!!   FOLLOW US @CONFIDENTLYPOD on insta/twitter   live show in london coming this summer!!   SHOOT US AN EMAIL AT: confidentlyinsecurepodcast@gmail.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy