The INFJ Whisperer
Boom Shikha
I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-like, just like you.Let me help you, through this podcast, and my YouTube channel, to help you gain a better understanding of yourself, and to become the best version of yourself as much as possible. I'm Boom Shikha on YouTube, and there are hundreds of INFJ videos on there, that are waiting for your conscious understanding. Much love! See you on the other side, lovely INFJs.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Apr 13, 2019 • 13min
INFJs Go Into Analysis-Paralysis Mode When Spending Money
INFJs get absolutely paralyzed when it comes down to spending money. It’s not even like the amount has to be really big. It can be a teeny-tiny amount of money, and we will still analyze our decision to death.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 12, 2019 • 10min
If You've Met One INFJ, You've Met One INFJ Only
This is a phrase that I stole from a psychologist friend of mine who goes to a lot of autism conferences, where a particular speaker says this quite often. “If you’ve met one Aspy, you’ve met one Aspy.” Reminds me of our situation as INFJs. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 11, 2019 • 14min
Why I Think INFJs Are Poor At Setting Boundaries As Adults
This is one of the reasons why an INFJ has such poor boundaries as an adult. We don’t know what’s normal and what’s not, with regards to crossed boundaries, because we had our boundaries crossed repeatedly when we were children. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 10, 2019 • 11min
INFJs Only Have Two Speeds - Stop Completely Or Go, Go, Go
INFJs have this weird thing where we live at extremes. We have only two speeds that we go at. Either we stop and do nothing at all. Or we overwork ourselves, going at a breakneck speed that no one on this planet could handle.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 9, 2019 • 11min
INFJs And Money - Some Of My Observations On That Relationship
Several INFJs have asked me my thoughts on money and how INFJs deal with money in general. Are we good with it? Do we like to save it? Do we hate it? Are we impulsive with it?Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 8, 2019 • 14min
INFJs Have This Innate Sense Of Unworthiness Within Them
INFJs always, forever and always, feel unworthy. We try very hard to hide it or run away from that feeling. We fluctuate in that feeling, but it's something that stays with us for the better part of our life.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 7, 2019 • 14min
Burnout Is Common Among INFJs, So Here's How To Prevent It
Burnout is one of the commonest ways an INFJ is unable to fulfill its purpose on this planet. We spend so much time being in burnout mode that we don’t have any energy to do anything else. I describe some ways to avoid burnout by building some self-care stuff into your daily routine.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 6, 2019 • 12min
INFJs Are Often Labelled As Ice Kings And Ice Queens
INFJs come across as cold, unemotional, and robotic. We are actually quite warm-hearted, and cozy people. But we only show this warm-hearted side of ours to specific people that we trust. We are afraid to show our true selves to everyone because we have had bad experiences with it in the past. Thus, we are often labeled, ice queens, ice princesses, ice princes, and ice kings. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 5, 2019 • 13min
INFJs, Like All Empaths, Are Filters For Their Environments
INFJs are empaths, major ones. Which means that we are filters for our environments. Like a regular air filter, that filters out the bad by absorbing it or sucking the bad particles into itself, we do the same. We suck in all of the bad, and hold onto it, with our hearts, minds, and souls. And we release only the good back out into the ether.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 4, 2019 • 11min
INFJs Have A Tendency to Shut Ourselves Up If We Are Too Talkative
INFJs are afraid of themselves when they start becoming too talkative. We have this tendency to be afraid of our tongues becoming too loose. Because then all of these secrets spill out, and we can’t do anything to hide ever again. Everyone will know who we are, and that’s our biggest fear.Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2 If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikhaJoin my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/ Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback. Love and light as always,Boom ShikhaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
