

Pirate Monk Podcast
Nate Larkin
A (mostly) weekly podcast produced by members of the Samson Society
Episodes
Mentioned books

Jan 1, 2026 • 32min
| 494 | Helping College Men Recover | Jordan Castille
On this episode: Aarons voice sounds a little deeper and more radio like. Wait just a minute, that’s Nate and Ken, not Aaron. Ken talks about the t-shirt that Jesus autographed. This week, Nate and Jordan Castill have a talk. Jordan is from College Station, TX. He is a husband, father and C-SAT counselor with a bunch of additional credentials. Jordan shares how he was first exposed to porn at age 10 and became addicted in college. His journey includes gay porn, gymnastics, male cheerleader, Texas football, and unfortunately multiple types of abuse. He helps men in sex addiction, couples counseling, disclosures, group counseling, working in-person and virtual sessions. Listen in as Jordan shares his story, experiences, and victory. Links:
Castille Coaching
Email JordanNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson Summit
Send mail to:
Pirate Monk Podcast
PO BOX 1656
Columbia, TN 38472If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Castille Coaching Christian Porn Addiction Counselling
Christian Porn and Sex Addiction Help | Castille Coaching
Explore how you can break free from porn and sex addiction through effective Christian counseling. Book a free consultation today at CastilleCoaching.com.
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

Dec 25, 2025 • 47min
| 493 | Lasting Freedom | Drew Boa
On this episode: Nate and Aaron record the last episode (of 2025). Do you mourn and weep for yourself or others on Christmas? Is this Christmas different? Also, Christmas mafia and underground crimes rings.This week, Nate and Aaron interview returning guest Drew Boa. Drew has written a new book entitled: Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Mans Guide To Healing. Drew is sharing the cure to porn, that also comes with maintenance. Discussion includes disagreement with 12-step thinking and purity culture. Drew suggests looking at maturity instead of purity, helping the inner child grow and heal. Other topics include studying our stories and selves, relationships with parents, and the “C” words.Links:
Drew Boa
Book:
Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Mans Guide To Healing, by Drew BoaNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson Summit
Send mail to:
Pirate Monk Podcast
PO BOX 1656
Columbia, TN 38472
If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
drewboa.com
Drew Boa - Outgrow Porn
I'm an author and coach helping Christian men find lasting freedom from porn without fighting an exhausting battle.
https://www.drewboa.com/
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

Dec 18, 2025 • 1h 1min
492 | Should you do what you love for work | Josh Bales
On this episode: Nate and Aaron are like Johnny Carson and Ed McMahon. Nate looks forward to these. Aaron updates on the app.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Josh Bales. Josh is a Chattanooga, TN native living in Orlando, FL. He is a husband, father, musician, priest, therapist and an ADHDer. There is music and other arts. There is discussion probing “how do you play”? Should you do what you love for work? Other topics include: cleaning up behind elephants at the circus, duty, empathy, responsibility, and learning and honoring your art.Links:
Josh Bales
Incarnation OviedoNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson Summit
If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Josh Bales
Josh Bales Singer-Songwriter, Counselor, Anglican/Episcopal Priest
The official website of Josh Bales: singer-songwriter and recording artist, mental health counselor, and Anglican/Episcopal Priest in Orlando, Florida.
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub

Dec 11, 2025 • 44min
491 | The Secret to Recovery Success | Troy Snyder
On this episode: Aaron has a tall bed and drinks water at night. Nate appreciates easy night pees. And what is a “pirate pastry”? This week, Nate and Aaron interview Troy Snyder. Troy is an LPC with 25+ years experience, specializing in sex addiction, anger management, men's issues, and also the president of the C-CSAS where he equips the next generation. He shares his story of being “dumb as a box of rocks” as part of his restoration and growth. Troy integrates the Bible and Psychology, encouraging conversation instead of battles. What is a specific or general revelation? And how do you pray specifically in healing? Links:
Troy at Restoration Counseling AtlantaNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson Summit If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Restoration Counseling of Atlanta
Troy Snyder, LPC, CCSAS, CPCS - Christian Sex Addiction Counseling
Troy uses Christian counseling to help men manage sexual struggle, improve purity, and rebuild relational health. He also helps with anger management.
Written by
Betsyadmin
Est. reading time
3 minutes
Feb 25th, 2018
https://restorationcounselingatl.com/troy-snyder-ms-lpc-ccsas-cpcs/
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

Dec 4, 2025 • 1h 4min
490 | Hardwired for Intimacy | Erin Minoz
On this episode: Aaron talks about decimation, how the church kills its own, and the need to have a clear path to restoration. Nate gives examples of grace, healing, and forgiveness. Sharing how grace triumphs over judgement. The NEW Samson App is out (see links below)! This week, Nate and Aaron interview Erin Moniz. Erin is from Waco, TX, a deacon, associate chaplain at Baylor University and many other roles. She shares how vulnerability is the currency of intimacy. They discuss how transparency and vulnerability are not the same things, transparency keeps people at arms length. How close should your spouse be? Tips on making new friends at any stage of life, maybe join a cult? Also, how a Silas is like learning to be a freaking friend. All this and more! Book:
Knowing and Being Known: Hope for All Our Intimate Relationships, by: Erin MonizNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson Summit If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community. (48 kB)
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub (42 kB)
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

Nov 27, 2025 • 51min
489 | God’s Empathy for You | Bill and Kristi Gaultiere
On this episode: Aaron makes a sports joke! Nate talks to his first sponsor. They also discuss funny t-shirts, stickers, and Kevin-Kevin! The NEW Samson App is out (see links below)!This week, Nate and Aaron interview Bill and Kristi Gaultiere. Bill is a psychologist and ordained pastor and Kristi is a psychotherapist and both are published authors. They co-found Soul Shepherding in Irvine, California. They discuss deeper ways to connect with God as they understand themselves at a deeper level. Bill and Kristi help us learn to be empathetic towards ourselves, so that we can give it to others. Is empathy nature or nurture? Do you have self shame that prevents you from receiving love, grace, and care? What is empathy fatigue? And also the topic of HSP - Highly sensitive person, which includes 20% of humans! All this, and more!Links:
Soul Shepherding
Retreats
Soul Talks Podcast
Book:
Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God’s Great Empathy for You, by: Bill and Kristi GaultiereNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson SummitIf you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Soul Shepherding - Following Jesus for deeper life and greater influence.
Soul Shepherding - Soul Shepherding
Get Healthy, Lead Healthy Go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving leadership Start Now Jesus-centered psychology Safe relationships Practical tools Imagine how your life and ministry would feel if you could get help for... Stress overload Discouragement Relational conflict Spiritual dryness Compassion fatigue Feeling alone as a leader Hitting a wall The health of
Sep 13th, 2023 (2 kB)
https://www.soulshepherding.org/
Soul Shepherding - Following Jesus for deeper life and greater influence.
Soul Shepherding Institute - Soul Shepherding
Come on Retreat https://www.youtube.com/embed/VkeKDXYSw-gYou can go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving relationships on an immersive retreat.Typical Christian activities and trying hard to "believe and do what’s right" are not enough to overcome your challenges and develop healthy rhythms in your life, relationships, and work. To develop a flourishing life you need training.
Est. reading time
15 minutes
Dec 13th, 2019 (2 kB)
https://www.soulshepherding.org/institute/?clicktype=headerbutton&clickname=institute
Soul Shepherding - Following Jesus for deeper life and greater influence.
podcasts - Soul Shepherding (2 kB)
https://www.soulshepherding.org/podcast/
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community. (48 kB)
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

Nov 13, 2025 • 42min
488 | Loss or Not with Amber Smith | Amber Smith
On this episode: Aaron is not in the mood to be here. Nate feels guilt for his callousness. Both share their struggles with change, loss, and grief. The NEW Samson App is out (see links below)!This week, Nate and Aaron interview Amber Smith. Amber is an unexpected writer/author, speaker, wife, and mom from Texas. She shares on the theology of suffering through her personal experience with the loss of a child. They discuss how to grieve, suffer, and weep amidst responsibilities of taking care of kids, jobs, etc. Other topics include: How to have the courage to cry and grieve as a man, leaning in and sitting with others in suffering, what to say or not to say, its ok not to fix someone, and how to process together in relationship.Links:
Amber Smith
Amber on Instagram
Book:
The Girl on the Bathroom Floor: Held Together When Everything is Falling Apart, by: Amber SmithNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
2026 Samson Summit
If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Arise With Amber
Arise With Amber | Discussion about Life, Love, Joy and Grief
Arise with Amber is a weekly Youtube series where I speak honestly and openly about life, love, joy and grief, through the lens of my relationship with Jesus Christ (108 kB)
https://arisewithamber.com/
amazon.com
The Girl on the Bathroom Floor: Held Together When Everything is Falling Apart
The Girl on the Bathroom Floor: Held Together When Everything is Falling Apart [Smith, Amber Emily] on Amazon.com. FREE shipping on qualifying offers. The Girl on the Bathroom Floor: Held Together When Everything is Falling Apart (382 kB)
https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Bathroom-Floor-Together-Everything/dp/1400347890
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community. (47 kB)
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub (42 kB)
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

Nov 11, 2025 • 50min
487 | Family History Doesn’t Have to be Your Future | Rob Lohman
On this episode: Aaron has free time and is complimented for being calm in the storm. Nate discusses the importance of service in recovery. Also, the NEW Samson App is out (see links below)!This week, Nate and Aaron interview Rob Lohman. Rob is the founder and CEO of Christian Rehab Services, an author, podcaster, and has ADHD. Rob shares his dreams of becoming an addict, coming back to Jesus, and helping others. He talks about his time in alcohol and gambling addiction, and prison. He shares his thoughts on substance and process addiction and the importance of community in overcoming either. Rob helps to make it ok to talk about intrusive thoughts by sharing his experiences. He also shares his favorite inspirational movie and his personal phone number! Links:
Rob’s Free Book
Christian Rehab ServicesNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)
NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)
Nov 7-9, 2025 Samson Summit Virtual Experience If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
recoverwithrob.com
Stop the chaos of addiction: The Addiction Intervention Book: 11 Breakthrough Strategies for Professionals and Families to Help Clients and Loved Ones Discover FREEDOM From Addiction
Stop the cycle of addiction today! Let today be YOUR bottom. Get a FREE copy of the book The Addiction Intervention Book (86 kB)
https://www.recoverwithrob.com/intervention-book-order-1
LFTR Christian Rehab Services
Faith-Based Rehab Colorado - LFTR Christian Rehab Services
Break free from addiction with faith-based recovery. We combine biblical truth and expert care to restore lives through Christ-centered healing.
Written by
hristo
Time to read
2 minutes
App Store
Samson Community App - App Store
Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community. (47 kB)
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016
play.google.com
Samson Society - Apps on Google Play
Brotherhood & recovery hub (42 kB)
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share
Samson House Store
2025 Samson Summit Virtual Experience — Samson House Store
Can’t make it to Glorieta? No problem — the Samson Summit Virtual Experience brings the heart of the weekend straight to you. Join Chris Bruno’s powerful main sessions live via Zoom as he invites men into deeper integrity, brotherhood, and healing. You will also be able to participate in small groups.

Oct 30, 2025 • 54min
486 | Understanding ADHD with Comedian Ron Pearson | Ron Pearson
Ron Pearson, a talented comedian and street performer, shares his journey living with ADHD. He opens up about how ADHD uniquely fuels his creativity and performance skills, including a captivating juggling world record. Ron discusses the impact of youth trauma on addiction and intimacy issues, revealing how humor helped him navigate these challenges. He delves into the importance of emotional expression in relationships, ultimately highlighting how sharing feelings can foster deeper connections with others.

24 snips
Oct 22, 2025 • 49min
485 | Shame vs. Hope in Recovery | Steven Shields
In this engaging discussion, Steven Shields, a therapist and creator of the Unashamed Unafraid recovery curriculum, shares insights on the limitations of mainstream therapy. He emphasizes the importance of purpose-driven therapy and offers advice on choosing the right therapist with clear goals. Steven also highlights the benefits of peer support groups, sharing strategies for effective facilitation while staying true to oneself. With a focus on hope over shame, he advocates for interactive, playful group experiences to foster healing and joy.


