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Become a monthly subscriber for just $1.99 per month and receive an additional two to three episodes per week!https://app.redcircle.com/shows/9472af5c-8580-45e1-b0dd-ff211db08a90/exclusive-contentIn this episode of The A to Z English Podcast, Xochitl and Jack talk about their recurring dreams.Transcript:00:00:00JackHey A-Z listeners, this is Jack here.00:00:03JackAnd if you would like to become a an exclusive subscriber to the show, you can hit the link in the description and that will take you to our Red Circle page, where for $1.99 a month you will get access to an extra two or three episodes each week.00:00:23JackAnd be careful, don't hit that donation button if you want to become an exclusive subscriber because the donation button is just a one time donation. However, the exclusive subscriber button will give you access to the extra two or three episodes.00:00:42JackEach week.00:00:44JackSo make sure you hit that exclusive subscriber button if you want access to the extra episodes.00:00:52JackNow let's get on with the show.00:00:56JackWelcome to the 80s English podcast. My name is Jack and I'm here with my co-host social. And today we're doing a topic talk episode and social. The topic is recurring dreams and.00:01:08XochitlI like this one interesting good.00:01:09JackYeah, yeah. Do you have one or do you want me?00:01:12JackTo go first.00:01:13XochitlI have a couple you can do you want.00:01:15XochitlMe to start or?00:01:16JackYeah, yeah, you go ahead and start. Yeah.00:01:18XochitlI one of them that I have is when I was younger I used to have this recurring dream where there were these like little they look like mini M&M's. They're like these bunch of little colored like round things and they're these like witches, cartoon witches and blue capes.00:01:39XochitlThat would like.00:01:40XochitlZAP them or something and that happened a few different times, like I had that dream a few different times. It was weird.00:01:48XochitlAnd and another one that's only been prevalent since I was a kid all the way through adulthood. Still, if I'm really stressed, I get a dream that I have a tooth in my hand and I have to, like, cut it open and get the tooth out like there's a.00:02:03JackWhoa, that's crazy.00:02:05XochitlIt's weird.00:02:07XochitlYeah, it's really, really weird and this is happened every time since I was a kid all the way in.00:02:14XochitlSo now.00:02:15JackOur listeners out there do some research and let us know what that means. A tooth embedded in your hand that you have to take it.00:02:23XochitlIt's like inside. It's like it's like it's like there's a. It's almost like it grew inside my hand and it's like I can X-ray, see through it or something. And I have to cut it up and pull it out and like, it looks like a mouth and guns inside or something. I don't know. It's freaking weird. Like, yeah, it is very weird and very vivid. I have super, super vivid dreams.00:02:36JackWow.00:02:43XochitlI always have since I was a kid, so it's like very strange.00:02:46JackDo you remember your dream?00:02:48XochitlYeah, I remember a lot of dreams. So it's good. Yeah.00:02:51JackOK.00:02:54JackLike, do you?00:02:54JackIs there some sort of strategy that you use to remember them, or is it just something that happens naturally?00:03:00XochitlWell, it happens naturally sometimes. I wish I didn't. I'll like I get sometimes I get tons of crazy dreams in one night and they're like, they're like home movie plots and a lot of times they're like horror movie plots. And they're, like, really intense in detail. And I and I like, wake up and I'll go back to sleep and I'll have another dream like that. And it just keeps going.00:03:18XochitlI'll have like four or five at night.00:03:20XochitlAnd I'm straight. They're like a movie, like a full movie with characters and everything. It's like real.00:03:25XochitlWeird.00:03:26JackAre you always the star of the dream?00:03:29XochitlNo, no, no, no. So I, a lot of times I'm not even in the dream. I'm just watching it like a movie.00:03:34JackOhh so there's like characters. There's like story developments. There's ohh.00:03:38XochitlYeah, it's a whole plot that has nothing to do with me. It's like, imagine that you're watching a movie, but like, I don't see myself watching it. It's like, literally you're seeing it through your eyes and like, you're just observing. You're just an observer to this movie that's unfolding. That's exactly what I am. I'm just observing these characters. And like, their life and stuff. And it doesn't have anything to do with.00:03:59JackWow, that's really interesting because I don't think I've ever had a dream where I'm not. You know, the main character like, it's not. It's. Yeah, it's just me.00:04:05XochitlThere it is.00:04:07XochitlOhh.00:04:08JackYou know, it might be like a a story in a in a movie type thing, but I'm always the main character of my own dreams.00:04:16JackI wonder.00:04:16XochitlThat's so weird.00:04:18XochitlI also have a recurring dream where I would like try to read in the dream, and then I'd be like, wait a minute. I can't read. This is a dream. Like, that's the closest I've ever been to lucid dreaming is like I would try to write or read, but I've I I've only listed dreamt once where I was like. I don't like the plot of this. So I just changed.00:04:28JackYeah.00:04:36XochitlBit because I was bored with my dream, so I like lucid, lucid dreaming for listeners who don't know, we'll do an episode on it another time because I think it's very interesting, but it's like the person can control their dream and do whatever they want inside and they're aware.00:04:49XochitlThat they're dreaming.00:04:53XochitlAnd I was, I think I've only really had it happen. Super, super like.00:04:59XochitlI know 100% that I lose a dream does only happen.00:05:02XochitlLike once for me.00:05:03JackYeah, well, you have a strange dream life. I mean, the fact that you're that you remember your dreams, that you have long form stories and plots and things like that. The fact that you're not the star of of all your dreams like the main.00:05:04발표자Yeah.00:05:19JackYou're.00:05:20XochitlYeah, I'm ******* not.00:05:21발표자You're. I think you're you're.00:05:22JackYeah. You're kind of outside the norm. I think when it comes to dreamlife.00:05:26XochitlAh, interesting. I didn't know that. I'm curious to hear from our listeners. Are you guys like me? Have you had dreams where you're not the star, which especially recently has been a lot of my dreams? Do you have dreams like you don't know any of the characters or people or plot involved like me? And do you remember your dreams?00:05:47XochitlAre you a vivid dreamer? Do you lose a dream? I'm really curious to hear from our listeners about this. Nothing.00:05:53JackYeah, I am too, because.00:05:56JackI I just think that like UM.00:05:59JackI I thought, but you know, maybe it's just because that's the way it is for me. But I thought most people.00:06:06JackKind of it like, I'm not always myself in my dream. I might be a different person, but I'm still controlling the actions of the person or whatever. You know, I'm like I'm.00:06:18JackThe IT I see it through that the lens of of that person, but it's it might not be me exactly, but usually it it it always feels what we say in English like first person, you know, like it's me. I'm doing something and I'm moving around and so.00:06:33XochitlRight.00:06:38JackBut I for me, I forget my dreams almost immediately.00:06:44JackNow if I write it down, I might be able to remember it, but I'm too lazy to, you know, wake up in the morning and take a sketch pad and and write down notes about my dreams, which is actually one of the strategies for lucid dreaming. If you want to practice lucid dreaming.00:07:01발표자OK.00:07:04JackYou've got to keep a dream journal.00:07:06JackThat's like a really important thing, yeah.00:07:08XochitlThat's interesting. I'm actually curious to to, like, make a dream journal and see if I can make a plot out of the movies that I like. See cause I think I could. Honestly, if they're so cool, like I could just if I could make a movie out of the movies that I see in my dreams, I think they.00:07:26XochitlWould be really popular in the horror genre because they're very weird.00:07:31XochitlI remember my used to tell my room. My roommate used to in college used to.00:07:37XochitlBe very excited to hear my dreams the next day.00:07:39XochitlBecause.00:07:40XochitlThat's a movie I would watch. Just watch this. She she'd be like I didn't have a weird dream. She was always curious about about that.00:07:43JackThank you.00:07:49JackThis is the total. This is a total aside, but I you know, Elon Musk is developing something called neurolink. You know where they you can kind of put a computer chip in the brain of a of a human being. That's like one of his ambitions.00:07:49XochitlBut what about?00:07:52발표자Yeah.00:08:04XochitlAlright.00:08:04JackAnd I was always. I always thought, like in the future, instead of film makers.00:08:12JackThey'll figure out a way to record dreams like a movie, you know, through a person's brain. And then there will be professional dreamers like you. You would be a good candidate for a professional dreamer.00:08:16XochitlYou're right.00:08:25XochitlHaven't have you seen that movie? There's a movie based on that. It's called it's like the green dealers or some sleep dealer or something. I'll, I'll. I'll tell. I'll send you a message and Jack and I can leave it in the description or something for our listeners are curious, but it's about like.00:08:28JackOh, is it really? I've never.00:08:42XochitlIt's weird, I I saw it when I was really young. It came out and my dad had me watch it. But it's like a movie based between Mexico and the US and I think.00:08:50XochitlThey have like.00:08:53XochitlIt's like a side hustle or something and they do exactly what you're saying. Like, they record these dreams and they, like, sell them or something weird. I don't know. So there was some. It's something like that, but.00:09:01JackYeah, yeah.00:09:04JackWell, people that people that dream in in like story form that has like a whole, you know, uh, a kind of cinematic movie like arc to the story.00:09:16JackIf you could, if you could do that in your dreams, you could. You know, you could become like a essentially a director, like a film, like a filmmaker. So yeah, maybe in the future that will be a technology that will be available.00:09:26XochitlYeah, for sure.00:09:31XochitlThe thinking was, do you have recurring dream, Jack, do you have recurring dreams? I forgot what?00:09:35JackYes, I do have recurring recurring dream and this one is really common among a lot of people. But what what it is basically is that I.00:09:51JackI have registered for a course. It could be a high school or a college course or something. And let's say I sign up for five classes.00:10:01JackAnd then I forget to go to 1.00:10:04JackOr I can't find the classroom on the whole semester. I spend my time walking through this like labyrinth like a A. A very.00:10:15JackA large building with lots of rooms and a kid just can't find my room and I've already paid for the class and the course and everything. And then when I finally find the classroom, I've missed, like almost all of the lessons. And then it's time for the test and I'm totally unprepared for it. And I'm sure there's a meaning to this dream.00:10:33XochitlTerrible.00:10:37JackLike there has to be some kind of meaning to it.00:10:41JackBut I I don't know what it is exactly.00:10:43XochitlI think it's.00:10:43XochitlJust a stress dream. I mean, I I remember when we studied dreams in psychology, there was like two types of content and one is like what you visualized in the dream and the other content is what you feel in the dream. So the feeling is what really what you see in your dream is supposed to be random neural firings or something. And what you feel in the dream.00:11:04XochitlIs supposed to be related to your real life. So I think that level of stress is like what it is supposedly on some level. But but if you think dreams have meanings, which I also sometimes.00:11:13XochitlWith. Yeah, I think that's relevant, I definitely.00:11:18XochitlHave dreamt that once before at least, and I remember being so devastated when I woke up, I was like, thank God that was the dream I was so worried I had, like, failed this math course because I just skipped through it.00:11:29JackYeah, is I wake up with I I feel.00:11:33JackIntense anxiety. And then I wake up and I just have like, this huge sigh of relief because it's like, ohh, I didn't just destroy my life, you know, I didn't just waste all this money on a class and then never show up and fail.00:11:46XochitlYes.00:11:49JackThat, but it's a it's an awful feeling. It really is an awful feeling.00:11:54XochitlBad. Yeah, I get those kind of stress dreams. I I've only had like one or or two. Like school type dreams since I left school. Well, at least in the last five years. No, wait. I only graduated like, three years ago. Well, it feels like I graduated five years ago. So, yeah, I I think I.00:12:11발표자Right.00:12:15XochitlI don't really get those dreams much anymore, but I I get what you mean and and I remember one of my professors in college saying even her mom was like in her 60s. I had a dream like that and she was like it just shows.00:12:26XochitlYou.00:12:26XochitlHow traumatic school is because the learning task isn't so like anxiety inducing that we still dream about it years later, you know.00:12:29JackYeah.00:12:36XochitlIt's like really weird.00:12:38JackI I I.00:12:38XochitlYeah.00:12:39JackDo a lot of things like I have a lot of we say in English irons in the fire like I have. I do a lot of projects a lot.00:12:46JackOf things going.00:12:47JackOn I think maybe it's just the anxiety of.00:12:51JackForgetting to do something that I need to do when you have a lot a long list of of of things that you need to take care of and when they start to pile up and you start to fall behind, that's when I get those dreams is that I'm. I'm I'm. I'm not doing something that I'm supposed to be doing and I or I forgot something important.00:12:59XochitlYeah.00:13:04XochitlYeah.00:13:11JackAnd yeah, that's a real a really terrible feeling. So yeah, that's my recurring dream.00:13:19XochitlThat's crazy, listeners. I'm really curious to hear what your recurring dreams are, or if you have recurring dreams. I think we'll do a couple of different podcasts just on dreams, cause this is such a fascinating subject to me, but I'm. I'm so curious to hear about your guys's experiences and just what your dream life looks like.00:13:30JackYeah.00:13:38XochitlBecause Jack and I have have different ones, I I've even gotten to the point where sometimes I don't know if something is a memory or a dream because my dreams are.00:13:45XochitlSo vivid.00:13:46JackRight, right.00:13:48XochitlYeah, it's it's really, I'm really curious to hear how you guys experienced dreams. So let us know in a comment down below at AZ englishpodcast.com shoot us an e-mail. We love reading you guys listener.00:13:58XochitlEmails at A-Z, englishpodcast@gmail.com and join the WeChat and also groups to talk to.00:14:03XochitlJack and I.00:14:03XochitlDirectly and if you guys feel so inclined, then you have $1.99 to spare. Please make sure that you join our exclusive episode podcast.00:14:12XochitlBecause that helps us create more content and make new source content for you guys. See you guys next time. Bye bye.00:14:20JackBye.Podcast Website:https://atozenglishpodcast.com/topic-talk-recurring-dreams/Social Media:WeChat: atozenglishpodcastFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/671098974684413/Tik Tok: @atozenglish1Instagram: @atozenglish22Twitter: @atozenglish22A to Z Facebook Page:https://www.facebook.com/theatozenglishpodcastCheck out our You Tube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCds7JR-5dbarBfas4Ve4h8ABecome a member of Podchaser and leave a positive review!https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/the-a-to-z-english-podcast-4779670Join our Whatsapp group: https://forms.gle/zKCS8y1t9jwv2KTn7Intro/Outro Music: Daybird by Broke for Freehttps://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Directionless_EP/Broke_For_Free_-_Directionless_EP_-_03_Day_Bird/https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/legalcodeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-a-to-z-english-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Become a monthly subscriber for just $1.99 per month and receive an additional two to three episodes per week!https://app.redcircle.com/shows/9472af5c-8580-45e1-b0dd-ff211db08a90/exclusive-contentIn this episode of The A to Z English Podcast, Xochitl and Jack talk about aspects of their cultures that they strongly dislike. Transcript: 00:00:00JackHey A-Z listeners, this is Jack here.00:00:03JackAnd if you would like to become a an exclusive subscriber to the show, you can hit the link in the description and that will take you to our Red Circle page, where for $1.99 a month you will get access to an extra two or three episodes each week.00:00:23JackAnd be careful, don't hit that donation button if you want to become an exclusive subscriber because the donation button is just a one time donation. However, the exclusive subscriber button will give you access to the extra two or three episodes.00:00:42JackEach week.00:00:44JackSo make sure you hit that exclusive subscriber button if you want access to the extra episodes.00:00:52JackNow let's get on with the show.00:00:56JackWelcome to the A-Z English podcast. My name is Jack and I'm here with my co-host, Social and social. I thought today we could read the names of a couple of our our patrons.00:01:09발표자Hmm.00:01:09JackAnd so.00:01:12JackThe first one that I want to read is Isabel Isabel from.00:01:17JackIreland. She's actually.00:01:19XochitlThank you, Isabel.00:01:20JackYeah. Thank you, Isabel. She's not from Ireland, but she lives in Ireland and uh, it's very exciting to have her as a patron for the show. Another one of our patrons is Johnny from China.00:01:37XochitlThank you, Johnny.00:01:38JackYeah. Thank you, Johnny. Johnny's been on the show. Actually. I interviewed him. And so he's. Yeah, he was on the podcast, and he's amazing. His If you talk to him, he sounds like he's got an American accent. Yeah, it's amazing. Just perfect.00:01:41XochitlOh, it's great.00:01:50XochitlOh wow.00:01:55JackNext up, we've got may from Malaysia.00:01:58JackYeah.00:01:59XochitlThank you. Day.00:02:00JackYeah. And Salima from Iran.00:02:04XochitlThank you, Selina.00:02:05JackYeah. And Leila from Saudi Arabia.00:02:09XochitlOhh, thank you, Layla. I love Layla.00:02:11JackYeah, yeah, yeah.00:02:12XochitlWell, that has a very nice voice if anyone's ever heard her voice to the chat.00:02:17JackYes.00:02:17XochitlI I test with labels boys.00:02:20JackYeah, she's a very, very sweet voice. Very soft spoken, but yeah, very soothing. Yeah.00:02:23XochitlYou have a soothing kind of.00:02:24XochitlA.00:02:26XochitlCalming voice I really enjoy.00:02:27JackGood, good, good podcasting voice, I think.00:02:29XochitlYeah, I think she would, too, for sure. Anyway, thank you so much to our patrons who are supporting our exclusive content. It really, really allows Jack and I to make more content and higher quality content. So we really, really appreciate it. And thank you so much. Hopefully we will get some more supporters here. And thanks to those who have already begun to support us.00:02:31JackYou know.00:02:51JackYeah. So today's topic is things that you hate about your culture and uh, I'm not going to.00:02:58JackTalk about Korean culture. I'm going to stay away from that because it is not my place or my position to critique Korean culture. I've lived here for 30 or 20 years. But you know, when it comes to critiquing culture, I think you have to do it from your own culture. You know you have to because you're critiquing yourself too.00:03:20JackAnd.00:03:21JackThe things about American culture, probably the number one problem that I have with American culture, is that we're very individualistic.00:03:31JackMy problems are my problems. Your problems are your problems. Don't put your problems on me, you know, and I understand that attitude because in some ways I do hate when someone is.00:03:46JackIn a in a interpersonal relationship where one person is always leaning on another person for help all the time and never able to like you know, support themselves. Yeah, yeah, I think that is negative, but I think I I think looking at the the.00:03:57XochitlReciprocate.00:04:05JackCountry as a whole and saying and seeing it all is just individuals, not as a as a group. You know, working together to try to make the society better and more equitable and fair for all of the people that live there. I think that's a bad thing. So.00:04:24JackSo I think it it kind of shows up in like certain aspects of the culture. For example, our obsession with guns, you know?00:04:37JackStay off my property. Get off my, get off my yard. Get out of my yard. Yeah, or or I'll shoot you. You know, this, this idea that we need to, you know, I need to have a gun and multiple guns in my house to protect all my stuff from, you know.00:04:57JackMy neighbor who's going to try to steal my stuff and.00:05:00JackAnd I I don't know. I just feel like that we're, we're hyper obsessed. We're very obsessed with ourselves and.00:05:11JackI I think we're also obsessed with consuming things. You know, consumerism. That's another one that I think we should, I should mention, is that we're always.00:05:22JackWe can't wait to buy the next thing that's going to make our lives perfect, you know, finally, if I just buy this one more thing, I'm going to be.00:05:31JackHappy.00:05:32JackNope. I just got buy this one more thing. One more thing. One more thing, you know, and it really has nothing to do with making ourselves happy. A lot of times, buying things is about showing other people.00:05:42JackOhh.00:05:43JackSuccessful we are, you know, look what I got. You know, I have this, but you don't have this. And so I think consumerism and individualism and obsession with guns is are are issues that I really have a problem with. But that just scratches the surface. You know, there's a lot more.00:05:45XochitlRight, yeah.00:06:03JackI could go into, but I'm not going to. I'll I'll jump to you and I'll kick it to you and let you share yours.00:06:12XochitlJack, I think.00:06:12XochitlYou pretty much covered things I really dislike about the US, especially our gun culture is another aspect that I really dislike about the US we have a problem with gun culture. We endanger the lives of children every single day. It's uncontrolled and it really just.00:06:32XochitlExists for no other purpose than for gun nuts to boost their egos.00:06:39XochitlI'm thinking they could start a militia that could rival the US military, which would never happen.00:06:45XochitlAnd.00:06:46XochitlIt it it's just.00:06:49XochitlIt's ridiculous, honestly, and it's unfortunate because our inability as a culture to condemn these rampant unsafe gun culture leads to so many tragedies, both on a personal and a cultural.00:07:08XochitlWell, and so it's something that I really, really dislike about US culture, another another culture that I'm a part of is Mexican culture. And I have a couple of critiques for Mexican culture as well.00:07:22XochitlOne is that older generations will push around and demand things from the younger generation and the amount of control that they're comfortable having over.00:07:31XochitlYounger generations just feel so inappropriate from a western lens, and because I was raised in both cultures, it it can be hard for me to swallow at times. And it's interesting to me because, for example, my mom or other older people will often boss me around or expect a lot to for me to do a lot for them.00:07:41JackYeah.00:07:52XochitlLike a servant almost.00:07:54XochitlAnd.00:07:56XochitlI just saw, you know, people.00:07:58XochitlOlder than my mom and my aunt who were also family, treat my mom and my aunt the same way and they really didn't like it. They had kind of forgotten that staple of Mexican culture in a way, and they had remembered to do it to me, but they had kind of forgotten what it was like for it to be done to them. And so it I think it's an aspect of culture that you see.00:08:18XochitlIn a lot of cultures I know that this is a staple in some East Asian cultures. I know that this can happen. African cultures as well.00:08:23JackYeah, there is like that.00:08:26XochitlUM, but it's definitely a difficult.00:08:31XochitlUh, aspect of the culture to grapple with, and it's something that makes me uncomfortable. I really hope when I'm older that I don't push you around or boss around the younger generation or feel that I'm superior just because I have more experience. There is benefits to having more experience. I think that there's since we can respect from someone who is older than us and has more experience.00:08:51XochitlBut I do believe in mutual respect and mutual appreciation, appreciating things those people do for you, appreciating things that them and them appreciating things you do for them as well.00:09:03JackIt's like you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. It's like if you treat treat them and lovingly and and they they'll want to take care of you. It's not instead of just saying like you will take care of me. I'm, you know, bossing you around, telling you what to do. You could do it in a much nicer way. It's it's like it's.00:09:07XochitlYes, yes.00:09:13XochitlRight.00:09:17발표자Right.00:09:23JackIt's it's it's kind of an interesting thing because I think in Korea, maybe they they have the same situation.00:09:28JackWhere when you're younger, you get abused, you know, by the older people. But then once you're the older people, then you get to abuse younger people. It's like somebody needs to stop this cycle of abuse, you know, like, let's just cut the, you know, cut it off and just be nice to each other, you know? But it's just it's not.00:09:37XochitlFew.00:09:38XochitlYeah.00:09:41XochitlRight.00:09:49JackIt's very hard to change culture. Culture is.00:09:53JackIt's it's it's it's like a bullet train, you know, like it's got so much, uh, weight and and power behind it. It's very hard to stop it and.00:09:54XochitlVery instilled.00:10:02JackSlow it down, you know.00:10:05XochitlAnother thing that I dislike about Mexican culture is that I feel that we can be really xenophobic. And it's strange because we have. We're a multicultural country, we have Jewish people, we have people of African descent that came across on the slave ships. We have people of East Asian descent. We have people of Southeast Asian.00:10:26XochitlDesigned of of South Asian to.00:10:28XochitlAnd of course, we are a nation of Native Americans, and we have.00:10:35XochitlEuropean ancestry as well due to colonization, but.00:10:42XochitlWe sometimes in Mexican culture take a hostile attitude towards.00:10:47XochitlPeople who are from different cultures, that there's there's a lot of hostility sometimes towards.00:10:55XochitlImmigrants in a way. Uh and.00:10:59XochitlIt's weird. It's kind of weird behavior. It reminds me a little bit of of how uh, Korea isn't my culture, so I'm not trying to get docs here, but I do remember when I went there there was a completely different treatment, how I was treated versus how my black coworker was treated.00:11:18JackHmm.00:11:19XochitlAnd.00:11:20XochitlIt was painful to watch her, like, go to the bank and then get rejected versus I basically got VIP treatment. When I walked into the bank and it's just I feel that sometimes we're somewhere in Mexico. There's a huge aspect of colorism that comes from the colonial hierarchy, because, of course, the Spanish were white, were at the.00:11:40XochitlTop.00:11:40XochitlIndigenous people were kind of in the mid range and then black people were at the bottom of the cultural hierarchy and then there was a.00:11:48XochitlHierarchy for every single different mix and a name for every single different mix that you could get from any of those.00:11:55XochitlSo I think unfortunately.00:11:59XochitlThat caste system does bleed through in colorism that we see in modern day Mexico and in how we think and perceive learners. And I also think another part that's similar with Korean culture as well is that we were colonized nation. So sometimes we.00:12:18XochitlWe value the preservation of our culture very strongly, but that can come out in the wrong way too. And it's a beautiful thing. But it's something that.00:12:32XochitlWe need to recognize our influences from other cultures in every aspect of any culture in the world.00:12:37JackYeah, too much patriotism can be a little bit. Yeah. I don't know what you would call it. Ethnocentrism or something like that.00:12:43XochitlYeah.00:12:46XochitlYeah, like ethnocentrism. And it's kind of invented because.00:12:51XochitlUh, you can hear African beats in traditional Mexican music. You can hear hear the tacos that we eat. Some of them are fashioned after Middle Eastern immigrants do.00:12:56JackSure.00:13:07XochitlChinese immigrants made a lot of cultural impact. They were the second biggest immigrant immigrant group after the Spanish to Mexico, and so.00:13:15JackHmm.00:13:18XochitlYeah, I think we need to appreciate all of that diversity in a respectful way.00:13:25JackYeah. Yeah, it's interesting to hear you talk like that because you know, as an American, we we, you know, have have obviously recently in the news heard about.00:13:37JackThe immigrants coming across the Mexican border into America being treated really, really poorly.00:13:45XochitlYeah.00:13:46JackAnd and and and judged and and considered lower class citizens. And all this sort of stuff. Right and.00:13:55XochitlThanks.00:13:57JackAnd to hear that that same thing occurs in Mexico as well, it's kind of it's kind of surprising, you know, because you think like ohh, if you're the victim of it, then you'll never be the perpetrator of the same behavior. But it's that's not true you.00:14:03XochitlYeah.00:14:13JackNo. Yeah, I think. And also I mean, for being honest, like a lot of gun violence in Mexico is a symptom of all the guns that we make in America and and, you know, and the.00:14:25발표자OK.00:14:30XochitlYep, Yep.00:14:34JackAnd the if you're talking about cartel money or things like that, a lot of that money comes from drugs they sell in America because Americans have an insatiable.00:14:45JackNeed and and lust for drugs. So it's like, you know, it's a very toxic relationship, you know, between the two countries. And so those are the aspects of the the culture that I really I I I agree with you 100% I I wish that we could somehow solve these problems you know.00:14:48XochitlYes.00:15:04XochitlYeah. All right, listen as well, if you have something that you would like to share that you hate about your own culture or strongly dislike.00:15:11XochitlMake sure to leave a comment down below at A-Z englishpodcast.com shoot us an e-mail at at ozenglishpodcast@gmail.com. We love to read, listen our emails. We can read them on the podcast without mentioning your name. Is that something that you would like or you would be interested in? So don't be shy about sending emails. We really do enjoy.00:15:31XochitlReading them here on the pod and reading listener.00:15:34XochitlJoin the WeChat and WhatsApp groups to join the conversation and we will see you guys next.00:15:38XochitlTime. Bye bye.00:15:39JackBye.Podcast Website:https://atozenglishpodcast.com/topic-talk-spoon-theory/Social Media:WeChat: atozenglishpodcastFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/671098974684413/Tik Tok: @atozenglish1Instagram: @atozenglish22Twitter: @atozenglish22A to Z Facebook Page:https://www.facebook.com/theatozenglishpodcastCheck out our You Tube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCds7JR-5dbarBfas4Ve4h8ABecome a member of Podchaser and leave a positive review!https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/the-a-to-z-english-podcast-4779670Join our Whatsapp group: https://forms.gle/zKCS8y1t9jwv2KTn7Intro/Outro Music: Daybird by Broke for Freehttps://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Directionless_EP/Broke_For_Free_-_Directionless_EP_-_03_Day_Bird/https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/legalcodeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-a-to-z-english-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Become a monthly subscriber for just $1.99 per month and receive an additional two to three episodes per week!https://app.redcircle.com/shows/9472af5c-8580-45e1-b0dd-ff211db08a90/exclusive-contentIn this episode of The A to Z English Podcast, Xochitl and Jack talk about spoon theory:Spoon Theory: The Spoon Theory is a metaphor used to explain the limited amount of energy and resources that people with chronic illnesses or disabilities have to accomplish daily tasks and activities. It was coined by Christine Miserandino in 2003 in an essay she wrote to explain her experience with lupus to a friend.Transcript:00:00:01JackWelcome to the A-Z English podcast. My name is Jack and I'm here with my co-host social and today social and I are going to talk about something called Spoon theory and I don't really know what this is, to be honest. I am kind of ignorant on this topic, but social is going to explain.00:00:22JackThe meaning of spoon theory and then we are going to complain like a couple of old people about all of our physical ailments that we're dealing with, right? So, OK, awesome. Alright. What is spoon theory? Social.00:00:34XochitlYes.00:00:39XochitlSo spoon theory is a metaphor, and it describes the amount of physical or mental energy that you have available for daily activities. So if you live with chronic pain or chronic illness, whether it's mental or physical or both, you're kind of limited in a way that other people aren't. And so.00:00:59XochitlThe idea is that you have a set amount of spoons. Let's say you have 10 spoons for your day, and then things that other people don't realize take up energy because they have.00:01:09XochitlA more fit body do take up energy for people with chronic pain. So let's say getting up and out of bed, taking a shower, making something to eat.00:01:23XochitlEven getting ready for bed, getting dressed, all those things can put strain on your body and eat up your spoon. So maybe by the time you even get ready to go to work, you're down 5 spoons and someone who doesn't have chronic illness might have just used a spoon or half a spoon of energy to do all those.00:01:44JackYeah. And let's just, uh, quickly, uh, unpack a little bit of the vocabulary. Chronic means, like, always constant. So chronic pain means you're always in pain from the time you wake up to the time you go to bed. You have some kind of pain.00:01:54발표자Yes.00:02:04JackIssue.00:02:05JackAnd and so social was describing like, like the spoons are not literally spoons. We're not talking about real spoons. We're saying, like, they're like metaphors. Like, you got 10 spoons and.00:02:19XochitlThey're like units of energy, basically.00:02:21JackUnits of energy. Right. Exactly. And so.00:02:24XochitlLike hit points on a video game when your character has like a little green.00:02:28XochitlR.00:02:30JackYeah, right. Energy. Your power gets, you know, goes down and down and down, yeah.00:02:30XochitlAnd then yeah it.00:02:35XochitlIf your character is a healthy character, let's say they did all their tests and their bar is still green. But if your character has chronic illness, then by the time they're done with their morning routine, they might be down to yellow. They might be.00:02:47XochitlDown to half points.00:02:49JackRight. And let's say your energy level for the day for a person with chronic pain is 10 spoon.00:02:55발표자And.00:02:56JackLike social said, getting ready in the morning, making breakfast, taking a shower, getting dressed, that might be 5 spoons, which means you only have 5 left for the whole day, so you get the bus, get to work, open your computer. You know, there's three more spoons now. You've got 2 spoons.00:02:56XochitlYes.00:03:17JackLeft, you don't even have enough to get home, you know.00:03:20XochitlRight.00:03:22JackUntil you hit the wall right and you're so exhausted.00:03:22XochitlAnd.00:03:24XochitlRight.00:03:26XochitlAnd a lot of people get through their day-to-day on like a spoon deficit. So you're, but you're the concept basically suggests you're borrowing spoons. You're borrowing energy from your next day, which is how people who have chronic illness might end up pushing through of five day work week and doing 40 hours a week.00:03:46XochitlBut then on the weekend, they're just laying in bed the whole 2 days.00:03:50JackRight. They're just totally wiped.00:03:52JackThat out. OK, I love the idea of spoon theory. I think it's a really good. I'm not sure why they call it spoons. Like use spoons as the as the example, but it could be anything. Yeah.00:04:02XochitlRight. I don't know. I think I think because you run out, you run out. I don't know if this is true or not, but you know when you're doing dishes like you only have a certain amount of spoons and you have to do the dishes again.00:04:13JackOhh yeah, that's right that that's probably it. Yeah. I think that makes sense. Yeah, so.00:04:16XochitlYeah.00:04:20발표자So.00:04:22JackUh, I'll, I'll. I'll start with myself here first. Uh, I've been. I've been dealing with. Uh, a chronic chronic back pain for probably 20 years, I would say.00:04:34JackI had my first.00:04:36JackMy first surgery, my first back surgery for disc.00:04:42JackProblems when I was 27.00:04:45JackAnd and then, uh, probably about 10 years later, maybe 15 years later, I had another back surgery for more disc problems. And now for the last like maybe three weeks. I've been dealing with some serious chronic pain just all the time.00:05:07JackWith my back and my discs again. So what? What I find is when you're in pain all the time.00:05:16JackYou're more tired.00:05:18JackYou can't exercise, so when you eat you get bored. You just sitting around. So. So in for me, I'll eat more to, like comfort myself, which makes me.00:05:30XochitlHave something to do right? Yeah.00:05:32JackGain weight, which makes my back hurt more, which makes me more depressed, which makes me want to eat more, which makes me not exercise more and it's like a a horrible spiral. You know, as I just go down the drain, you know, and things are getting worse and worse, so.00:05:48발표자Right.00:05:50JackSo.00:05:51JackYeah. So I so I I know what the spoon theory thing you're talking about is like there are times where I go to work and I run out of spoons, you know, by the my third class, I'm just like.00:06:04JackI don't. Whatever. You know what, guys? Just take a rest and, you know, draw a picture on your paper or whatever you wanted to, you know, talk with your friend like I'm completely. I'm done. Like I I don't have the the mental capacity.00:06:15XochitlAll right.00:06:23JackOr the physical capacity to do this anymore?00:06:27JackAnd and it's a really, it's a really depressing way to live because living with pain all the time means you're kind of always thinking about the pain. It's always in your mind. And then that leaves a little bit of space for you to think about and deal with other people. So I find that I'm really short tempered.00:06:38XochitlYeah.00:06:47JackWith my wife, I'm like, short with my wife. You know, my wife will ask me a question. Like what? You know, what do you want for dinner? What? You know that. That's my response to something like that. And it's like it's so rude.00:06:59JackAnd so disgusting of a response. But it's not. It's not because I was mad at her or anything to do with her. It's just cuz I was in some pain. I'm just like not able to focus. Like what? What did you say? Like I I can't. I can't even hear what other people are saying to me. And I really hate being like this. Like it. Really.00:06:59XochitlRight.00:07:18JackIt really makes me frustrated and I and I.00:07:21JackCan't get good.00:07:22JackSleep because I can't lie on my side. It hurts if I lie on my back. It hurts if I.00:07:27JackLie on my other side, it hurts.00:07:28JackSo it's really I've I've been dealing with this and and I know that you also have understand what I'm saying, cuz I think you've dealt with some like physical issues as well.00:07:38XochitlYeah.00:07:39XochitlDefinitely, Jack. I I completely understand what you're saying. I was born with.00:07:45XochitlBorderline hip dysplasia and both hips, and that just means my anatomy is wonky, so my bone is like here instead of being here, it's like on the edge of where it's supposed to be. And every time I walk it, like beats up the other bone I.00:08:01XochitlSo it like pinches and it's really bad in one hip specifically, which has become weaker due to the pain, but it's really hard to do physical therapy with it because.00:08:09발표자MHM.00:08:14XochitlI'm in pain, so it's hard to start doing exercises around it because it hurts more and it's more tiring and I have like a very limited.00:08:25XochitlAmount of what I can do in one day.00:08:28XochitlWhich means that I'll if I feel like I have energy to do something, I'll do as much as I can in one day and then I'll end up borrowing spoons for the next day. So I'm totally crashed out the next day. I have no energy and I know what you mean. I can also get really short tempered. Uh, one thing, a lot of people don't realize is that.00:08:47XochitlIt affects your sleep.00:08:49JackRight.00:08:49XochitlSo imagine that you had really poor sleep for like a week straight. At that point, if you're only sleeping.00:09:01XochitlFar less hours a night than you're supposed to be, far less comfortably. You probably start getting confused, agitated, irritable.00:09:12XochitlAnd unfortunately, people around you suffer because.00:09:15XochitlYou can snap at them unexpectedly.00:09:18JackYou're not gonna snap at strangers. You know you're gonna snap it. You're the people that you love because you know that they can't abandon you. You know, it's like.00:09:25XochitlRight. You're comfortable with, you're comfortable around them and you're also interacting with them?00:09:29XochitlMore, yeah.00:09:30XochitlOn a daily basis than you would with any strangers, right. So.00:09:34XochitlIt does. It is really hard. It it's one of the reasons that I have a hard time.00:09:39XochitlFinding a full time job that I can do is because.00:09:45XochitlI only have so many spoons in a day and I really struggled with college when I was in college for the same reason. It's not that the work was too hard.00:09:52XochitlFor.00:09:53XochitlMe. It was that I would just get so burnt out in a day from I didn't. I like. I won't sleep well. I'm not eating well. I feel terrible. I can't walk well. Some days I really have to drag myself around.00:10:08XochitlGet anywhere and I think.00:10:12XochitlIt really puts a strain on what you can do in any given day and a lot of people just don't understand.00:10:17XochitlAnd especially when it's kind of an invisible disability. So like people like Jack and I, we might look fine to people on the outside, but we're suffering internally through all these physical and emotional stressors because it does affect your mental well-being as well.00:10:35JackYeah, chronic pain is is a it. It doesn't just affect your body, it it affects your mind as well it it. It plays games with.00:10:42JackYour.00:10:43JackWith your mind and and changes your personality and and your outlook on life and and everything so.00:10:49JackOhh yeah trying trying to overcome it. If you can find some way of dealing with like physical therapy or some kind of you know if there's a if there's a way out of it. I highly recommend pursuing it if it's possible and staying away from like painkillers and opiates and that sort of stuff.00:11:12JackBecause that stuff is.00:11:13JackJust uh masks the pain for a little while, but then that'll send you down a whole, you know, could send you.00:11:20XochitlOhh, their wormhole, right? Yeah.00:11:21JackYes, exactly, exactly so there. You know, there isn't really necessarily always a good solution to our problems. You know, sometimes they can throw painkillers at it. That's not gonna solve the problem.00:11:33XochitlYeah.00:11:34JackYeah.00:11:35XochitlIt's like seeding the monster temporarily, then it like rears its ugly head again.00:11:40JackYeah, it it gives you, you get a week of, you know, like a kind of uh. But then you're foggy, you know, you you're not yourself, you know, so.00:11:48XochitlAnd you can also get your table like as soon as you're off the pain meds or as soon as anything. Yeah, and you get dependent on them. So I think it. Yeah, I I really haven't had much. I did get an injection, A cortisol injection in my hip.00:11:52JackAll right, absolutely, absolutely.00:12:03XochitlThat worked for about two weeks, and then the pain is back, I suppose, to work for average to three to six months. So I'm like, well, totally didn't work. So I burned through that. So we shall see. But yeah, it is. It is a frustrating condition and I think.00:12:11JackYou're like, whoops.00:12:23XochitlFirst world so-called first world countries are just now starting to treat chronic pain as its own condition, not just the underlying cause, but managing it on its own. And we're just now making strides and.00:12:37XochitlMaking accommodations for it in the workplace, and I think we're making big leaps, but yeah, I'm curious to know about your guys's experience as listeners. Do any of you suffer with chronic pain or chronic health conditions? Obviously, only share as much as you're comfortable sharing, but yeah, I'm just curious to know what, what are things like in your country?00:12:56XochitlUM, how does it operate in your country and your culture?00:12:59XochitlThere.00:13:01XochitlYeah, I'm very interested to know. So leave us a comment down below at AZ englishpodcast.com. Shoot us an e-mail at at ozenglishpodcast@gmail.com.00:13:10XochitlAnd make sure to join the we chat and WhatsApp groups to talk to us directly. If you can spare $1.99 Jack and I are making exclusive episodes for subscribers. This really helps us to be able to increase the level and amount of content that we're making. So we really appreciate your support and thank you so much to those of you who have subscribed.00:13:31XochitlReady. And I'll see you the next.00:13:33XochitlTime. Bye bye.00:13:34JackBye bye.Podcast Website:https://atozenglishpodcast.com/topic-talk-spoon-theory/Social Media:WeChat: atozenglishpodcastFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/671098974684413/Tik Tok: @atozenglish1Instagram: @atozenglish22Twitter: @atozenglish22A to Z Facebook Page:https://www.facebook.com/theatozenglishpodcastCheck out our You Tube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCds7JR-5dbarBfas4Ve4h8ABecome a member of Podchaser and leave a positive review!https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/the-a-to-z-english-podcast-4779670Join our Whatsapp group: https://forms.gle/zKCS8y1t9jwv2KTn7Intro/Outro Music: Daybird by Broke for Freehttps://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Directionless_EP/Broke_For_Free_-_Directionless_EP_-_03_Day_Bird/https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/legalcodeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-a-to-z-english-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The podcast discusses overcoming accent anxiety when speaking English in casual conversations, emphasizing the importance of confidence and practice. It also explores the impact of formal English lessons on siblings and encourages listeners to embrace their unique accents and build confidence in expressing themselves authentically.

Become a monthly subscriber for just $1.99 per month and receive an additional two to three episodes per week!https://app.redcircle.com/shows/9472af5c-8580-45e1-b0dd-ff211db08a90/exclusive-contentIn this episode of The A to Z English Podcast, Xochitl and Jack discuss the following three idiomatic expressions:Out of the blue:Definition: Unexpectedly or without warning; something happening suddenly and unexpectedly.Example: "I hadn't spoken to my old friend in years, but then out of the blue, she sent me an email asking how I was doing."Take it with a grain of salt:Definition: To be skeptical about something; not to completely believe or trust something.Example: "The tabloids reported that the celebrity was getting married again, but we should take it with a grain of salt until we hear it from a reliable source."Give it a shot:Definition: To attempt or try something; to give something a try, especially when facing uncertainty or difficulty.Example: "I've never played golf before, but I'm willing to give it a shot and see how it goes."Podcast Website:https://atozenglishpodcast.com/vocabulary-spotlight-out-of-the-blue-take-it-with-a-grain-of-salt-and-give-it-a-shot/Social Media:WeChat: atozenglishpodcastFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/671098974684413/Tik Tok: @atozenglish1Instagram: @atozenglish22Twitter: @atozenglish22A to Z Facebook Page:https://www.facebook.com/theatozenglishpodcastCheck out our You Tube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCds7JR-5dbarBfas4Ve4h8ABecome a member of Podchaser and leave a positive review!https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/the-a-to-z-english-podcast-4779670Join our Whatsapp group: https://forms.gle/zKCS8y1t9jwv2KTn7Intro/Outro Music: Daybird by Broke for Freehttps://freemusicarchive.org/music/Broke_For_Free/Directionless_EP/Broke_For_Free_-_Directionless_EP_-_03_Day_Bird/https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/legalcodeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-a-to-z-english-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Discussing reasons why adults should learn a new language, including benefits of neuroplasticity, advantages of mastering multiple languages, challenges of false cognates, importance of cultural nuances in language learning, and the cultural significance of language in preserving wisdom and heritage.

In this podcast, the hosts discuss common fillers in English conversation like 'Um', 'So', 'You know', and 'Like'. They explore the role of fillers in communication and share personal experiences with different filler phrases. The episode also touches on the misuse of words and the use of fillers to sound more natural in conversation.

In this podcast, Xochitl and Jack discuss phrasal verbs with 'push', including 'push around' meaning being bossy, 'push for' advocating strongly, and 'push through' overcoming obstacles. They explore cultural dynamics, collaboration, and perseverance, emphasizing the importance of self-care.

The hosts dissect idioms and expressions featuring the word 'dead,' explaining phrases like 'dead on' and 'dead to rights.' They also address the racist connotations of 'red-handed' and explore the origins of expressions like 'dead as a doornail,' emphasizing sensitivity to language and historical context.