

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Matt & Abby
“Unplanned” dives into genuine conversations surrounding relationships & family. The show is hosted by high school sweethearts Matt and Abby Howard, who live in Phoenix, AZ with their two boys.
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Aug 13, 2025 • 1h 6min
Breaking up, The Bachelor & growing up billionaire w/ Madi Prewett Troutt
Madi Prewett Troutt and her husband, Grant Troutt, join Matt & Abby to share their whirlwind love story—from meeting on a blind date to their three-month engagement. They address rumours about the cost of their wedding, talk about becoming parents, and reflect on what Grant learned growing up with his father being a billionaire. Madi opens up about their breakup, why she kept her pregnancy a secret at first, and Grant shares why he refuses to watch The Bachelor.
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Chapters:
00:00 - Madi Prewett Troutt
01:03 - Being new parents
11:17 - Taking care of a newborn
16:20 - Why we were shocked when we got pregnant
17:28 - Why I didn't tell my husband I was pregnant
24:14 - When you don't know what a blind date is
29:53 - What my dad learned after becoming a billionaire
40:44 - Addressing misconceptions about my wedding
51:26 - Why I refuse to watch the Bachelor
54:33 - Breaking up with Madi
56:30 - Introducing my ex-boyfriend to my family
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Aug 6, 2025 • 1h 2min
TikTok Couple: Our break up & birth story w/ the Quist Family (Courtney and Alex)
TikTok creators Courtney and Alex (better known as The Quist Family) join Matt & Abby to share the full story behind their relationship. From dating multiple people at once to breaking up before eventually getting married. They also talk through the highs and lows of pregnancy, including Courtney's fear of being induced at 42 weeks, gaining just 8 pounds, and what life looks like now as new parents.
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Chapters:
00:00 - The Quist Family
01:21 - Breaking up with my future husband
03:40 - Dating multiple guys at once
12:54 - What I learned from going through a break up
17:31 - Defining our relationship
21:07 - Getting out of the friend zone
36:33 - Why I was terrified to give birth
40:12 - Getting induced at 42 weeks
47:47 - How I only gained 8 lbs while pregnant
54:05 - Being a father to a newborn
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Jul 30, 2025 • 1h 4min
Parenting hot takes w/ Alex Bennett & Harrison Fugman
Matt & Abby are joined by Alex Bennett and her partner Harrison Fugman to unpack some of the internet’s spiciest parenting hot takes. From baby piercings and gender reveals to iPads at restaurants, swearing, and sleep training—they dive into the debates, share their personal takes, and compare experiences as new parents.
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Jul 23, 2025 • 55min
Am I the problem? *relationship edition*
Matt & Abby are back with more wild Reddit relationship dilemmas—this time, from the “Am I the Problem?” corner of the internet. From in-law drama and awkward divorces to a pre-wedding breakup, they weigh in on the most jaw-dropping stories Reddit has to offer.
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Jul 16, 2025 • 1h 11min
Baby #3, trying for a girl, and getting a hair transplant
In this episode, we share why Matt’s changed his mind about baby number three. We also talk about the Shettles Method, a theory on how to increase your chances of having a girl. Matt opens up about his upcoming hair transplant, we celebrate our sixth wedding anniversary and give some fun life updates.
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Jul 9, 2025 • 1h 18min
Living alone, working a job, and season 4 of Love on the Spectrum with Tanner, Midge (sister) & Nicci (mom)
Tanner Smith, a cheerful reality TV star from *Love on the Spectrum*, joins his sister Midge and mom Nicci for an engaging chat. They discuss living alone and the challenges Tanner faces, including his discomfort with marriage. The trio shares heartfelt stories about sibling protectiveness and the bond of family. Tanner also opens up about his transformative journey at the Clemson Life Program, fostering independence and growth. With humor and nostalgia, they dive into favorite childhood memories and future adventures, including Halloween plans and their shared love for amusement parks.

Jul 2, 2025 • 1h 2min
Abuse On Set, Drake & Josh, and Fatherhood w/ Drake Bell
Drake Bell, best known for his role in Drake & Josh, reflects on his tumultuous journey from child stardom to fatherhood. He candidly discusses his struggles with financial instability, including not receiving residuals from his iconic show. Drake opens up about surviving abuse at 15 and the misconceptions surrounding the entertainment industry, shedding light on the support systems he found essential. He also shares insights on songwriting as a therapeutic outlet during challenging times, blending personal storytelling with his creative process.

Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 1min
Removing my IUD, natural family planning, and getting my period back
Abby opens up about removing her IUD, getting her period back after six years, and switching to natural family planning. Matt & Abby also share parenting moments with two toddlers, period mishaps, and why they’re rethinking screen time.
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Jun 18, 2025 • 1h 5min
Reading Reddit Stories (relationship edition)
Matt & Abby are back with more wild Reddit relationship dilemmas—and these ones really make you think. From fiancés hiding financial struggles to boyfriends following OnlyFans models, they weigh in on love, trust, and dealbreakers in today’s episode.
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Jun 11, 2025 • 1h 5min
Losing my boobs, co-sleeping & throwing a baby shower
Matt & Abby catch up on life lately—from co-sleeping with Griffin to planning a baby shower for Abby’s sisters-in-law. They reflect on parenting decisions, body changes after breastfeeding, and the chaos of raising toddlers (including the unexpected things they say). Plus, Abby’s boobs went viral…
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