The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Do you live in the past, present, or future?Joining again for another episode of the UNcivilized Podcast, today's guest is GS Youngblood. He is here to present his new book, The Art of Embodiment for Men, where he talks about how an embodiment practice can change our lives and help us build our masculine core to become more powerful and relational men. We will hear how these practices can lead us to have more loving, respectful relationships, with less fighting and more sex. In addition, we will learn about the differences between the practice of embodiment and meditation.⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.ABOUT GS YOUNGBLOODGS coaches men in relationships on how to live, love, and lead from their Masculine core. He specializes in "nice guys" who are with strong women. His teachings combine deep embodiment work with the framework of the Masculine blueprint from his book "The Masculine in Relationship."His writings are filtered through the laboratory of his and his clients' real-world, long term relationships (including the successes and spectacular failures) to see what actually works and what doesn't. Through this lens of Masculine leadership, he also pulls in principles from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.In his past life, GS was a high tech executive in Sales and Marketing for 16 years, including founding and selling a company. The leadership practices of Silicon Valley, based on clarity and inspiration rather than control, are a major influence on the model of Masculine leadership he shares with his clients.CONNECT WITH GS YoungbloodBuy GS’ book on https://www.amazon.com/Art-Embodiment-Men-Framework-Tendencies/dp/B09XYWJD5GInstagram: @GSYOUNGBLOODMIRWHAT YOU WILL HEAR[6:28] What is the embodiment practice?[11:48] Difference between embodiment and meditation.[14:38] What is your daily practice missing, and how to start one.[20:44] How does our energy influence our relationships?[24:56] Feel your partner's pain, not their blame.[37:52] Connect your voice with your heart.[44:39] The importance of feeling our body.[48:32] Learn to split your attention.[52:40] How efficient is the embodiment practice?[55:10] Intention versus attention.If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehmGet a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this solo episode, I share a quick story of an initiation experience I got to be a part of years ago as my buddy’s son turned 13. It was powerful and will help spark ideas for anyone who has a young man in his or her life. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  Click here for dates and early signup for Summer Men's UNcivilized Initiation in Jefferson, Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

Should social media have warning ads like cigarette packs? We all know the bright side of social networks where we share memes, tell stories, upload photos, memories, and help us grow professionally, but not everything is sunshine and rainbows. Social media have become an unstoppable monster where criticism, abuse, and the discharge of hate have increased more and more, hiding in anonymity on many occasions. In this episode, I had a conversation with Seerut Chawla. She defends the importance of talking with responsibilities on social networks and using it to deliver messages of conscience intelligently. After living the culture of cancellation on both sides, today, she tries to warn others of its consequences. We will talk about how the use of social media affects us individually and collectively, the main character syndrome, responsibility, and trauma. In addition, we will discuss the differences between trauma, wounding, and pain. You who are reading me from the internet, don't miss this episode! ABOUT SEERUT CHAWLA She works using an integrative model (which means incorporating different therapeutic styles) depending on the client and the circumstances. Her main modality is psychodynamic psychotherapy which is derivative of the psychoanalytic tradition.That can sound a little intimidating, but the basic premise of this work is helping people to understand what has happened so that they can better understand what is happening in the here and now, and then make meaningful change in their lives. CONNECT WITH SEERUT Website: https://www.seerutkchawla.com WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [4:23] Seerut's story. [8:32] Living both sides of the cancellation culture. [13:48] What's behind canceling someone? [21:58] How does it feel to be canceled? [30:00] Who are these people, and how do they operate? [34:28] The negative aspects of social networks. [37:29] Is there a way to be healthy on social media? [43:19] From a psychotherapeutic point of view, what will happen to the new generations that use social networks? [47:14] How do social networks affect our traumas? [55:54] Difference between trauma, wounding, and pain. [57:53] Main character syndrome. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

In this episode I’m throwing my hat in the ring of the Will Smith, Chris Rock Oscar’s incident and challenging you all to investigate your own values. Dive into this episode as I dissect some of the public ideas around what it means to be a man and a protector. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

How can a person with no criminal record become a mass murderer, killing seventy-seven people and injuring hundreds more? This story captured the attention of today's guest Unni Turrettini. The lawyer decided to investigate a little further the murder committed by Anders Behring Breivik and found the factor that led this now 43-year-old man to commit this terrorist attack; loneliness. In today's episode, we meet up with Unni to discuss the mind of Breivik and what it means to be a lone wolf in today's society. Was this mass murder preventable? Unni has the answer for us. ABOUT UNNI TURRETINI Unni Turrettini was born in northern Norway and grew up in Drammen, a city near Oslo, approximately twenty minutes from where Breivik was raised. As a foreign exchange student, she graduated from high school in Kansas City, Kansas, and she has law degrees from Norway, France, and the United States. She currently lives with her family in Geneva, Switzerland, and is at work on a second book, a behind-the-scenes examination of the Nobel Peace Prize. CONNECT WITH UNNI Website: www.unniturrettini.com Instagram: @unnitur WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [4:18] Looking for answers. [10:07] What drives a person to murder? [12:40] How to reach a lonely person? [17:28] From self-isolation to studying other people's isolation. [20:33] Is Unni now the serial killer lady? [21:43] How to distinguish between loneliness and isolation? [26:51] Discover your value as a person and self-love. [34:29] How does social media play a role in loneliness? [43:22] Using a magic wand to make people value themselves. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

In this solo episode I break down the ever present question of, “What the hell is men’s work?” Let’s dive into it, make it simple, and dispel some of the popular misconceptions around the work so many men are now engaging in. Men’s work is the greatest and most necessary path a man can walk in. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Join us NOW in The UNcivilized Nation Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

In this solo episode I want to rewrite the current, inaccurate narrative that no one cares about men. This narrative keeps men stuck, hurting, and leads them to act out in ways that hurt themselves and those who love them. Let’s shift this. Together. Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

I know how interesting it is to hear the typical story of the man who had everything and lost it all due to his vices. However, this story has an unexpected twist. Today's guest is Zark Fatah. A man who, despite having lived a luxurious life, surrounded by vices and excesses, within the world of entertainment and nightlife, his mentality of success made him stay on the sidelines. At the age of 40, he decided to leave everything and move to Costa Rica, where he started a different path to become a transformational expert and coach. Imagine waking up one day and deciding to abandon a life that just a few can enjoy. Would you do it? ABOUT ZARK FATAH Zark is a serial entrepreneur, world traveler, men's coach, retreat leader, psilocybin advocate and philanthropist. He is an ICF certified professional coach, graduating from the Co-Active Training Institute Professional Coach Training certification program. He’s completed several Landmark Education courses including the Introduction Leaders Program as well as the Awakened Leadership training and has completed Level 1 of the Authentic Relating Training. Zark is a highly trained coach with a wide range of knowledge and life experience and offers private one-to-one coaching sessions as well as online courses for those that want to accelerate their growth and development. CONNECT WITH ZARK Website: https://www.thealiveexperience.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/zarkfatah/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [5:28] Meeting Zark. [13:55] "Nightlife led me to create my persona." [22:18] Standing on the sidelines. [27:52] The beginning of a serial entrepreneur. [31:04] Success expectations. [36:05] How to dissolve a partnership? [39:44] What drives Zark now? If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

In this solo episode I dive into the power of creating and disciplining yourself to have a daily practice. When a man has this, his whole life changes. When he doesn’t, he’s left to the whim of the winds. Creating a daily ritual to deepen his relationship to his strength helps everyone around him, mostly himself. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, click here for dates and early signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado. Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.

Imagine the idea of becoming a millionaire overnight. Incredible, right? Now—would you know how to manage all that money? As today's guest, we will have a man who has a pretty healthy relationship with money, we would say. His name is Steven James, and he is the Guru Viking, an expert in human behavior. With a list of top clients (including Grammy winners), Steven is dedicated to teaching people in many different fields, including art. In today's episode, he will be sharing his unique perspective on how men should relate to money. We will listen to his story and what he has to tell us. Don't miss it. ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. ABOUT STEVEN JAMES Steve James travels internationally teaching somatic practices and meditation, as well as leading explorations in contemplative, mystic, and relational realms. In addition to private client work and public workshops, Steve is the host of the Guru Viking Podcast and has released a DVD series of his movement approach called the Movement Koan® Method, a fusion of joint-nourishing movement and body-based mindfulness. Steve’s unique range of experiences and understanding of human behaviour, high performance, spirituality, and interpersonal relationships is highly sought after by leading figures at the highest levels of the arts, entertainment, and business. In his private client practice he specialises in the unique interpersonal and strategic challenges faced by very successful and highly visible individuals. Ongoing clients include Oscar-winning actors, multi Grammy winning musicians, CEO’s, and multi-billion dollar fund managers.CONNECT WITH STEVEN Website: www.guruviking.com Instagram: @guruviking Guru Viking Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/guru-viking-podcast/id1451432089 WHAT YOU'LL HEAR [5:37] Meeting Steve. [7:48] Social media challenges for high-profile people. [17:38] The reading that changed an opinion. [23:33] The rules of money. [29:24] A healthy body does not mean a healthy mind. [33:20] Is money energy? [40:03] How to use your millions wisely. [56:47] To generate income, you must create value. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course.  UNcivilized Men's Initiation on April 20th - 23rd, 2022 is now SOLD OUT, watch for dates for Summer Initiation in Colorado.  Find Traver on Instagram @traverboehm Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey on your way to be the man that the world failed to teach you how to be.