

Parenting with Impact
Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster
The Parenting with Impact Podcast with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster, co-creators of ImpactParents.com, inspires parents and professionals guiding complex kids, teens and young adults all over the world to become capable, independent adults. ImpactParents.com is an online community, award-winning blog, and direct service provider for parents and professionals. Elaine and Diane are certified professional coaches with their own lived experience raising children with complex challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, gender identity issues, and more. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, they teach and inspire parents and professionals to raise and empower complex kids with confidence and calm. Scroll down for links and to download a free parenting guide. The Parenting with Impact Podcast will:Feature leading experts, bringing you cutting edge information to address your child’s challengesTeach you real-life, practical strategies for creating lasting changeDemonstrate how a coach-approach can improve all of your communications, one conversation at a time For the essentials of ImpactParent's coach-approach to parenting, download a free parenting guide at: ImpactParents.com/Podcast Find out about Sanity School®, a program for Parents, at: https://impactparents.com/programs-offerings/parent-training-sanity-school/ For information about professional continuing education: https://impactparents.com/for-professionals/ Visit Impact Parents at: https://impactparents.com/
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Jun 22, 2022 • 30min
Ep 063: What To Teach Kids & Teens About Money Management
Richard Webster is the CEO of Rena-Fi, an online program to develop financial wellness. Using his nearly four decades navigating the field as a real estate entrepreneur, bringing him a wealth of knowledge to impart to his clients.He has grown to understand that success must be values-driven. How we handle business and money has its roots in our often-subconscious feelings and drives. It’s critical to know the mechanics of handling money, but without the context of one’s values, and without an awareness of the emotional underpinnings of behaviors, success can be elusive.In his capacity as CEO of Rena-Fi, Rick brings perspective, vision, and passion to an area of life he considers foundational—personal money management.Listen to this beneficial Parenting With Impact episode with Rick Webster about teaching our kids financial wellness, so they have skills that set them up for life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show:61% of individuals with ADHD have significant and severe financial difficultiesFundamentals: learn how credit works, balancing checkbooks, and budgetingTeach financial awareness early on; habits learned now will impact the future Links Mentioned: https://rena-fi.com/ Connect with Rick:YouTube https://www.youtube.com/renafiincInstagram https://www.instagram.com/renafiinc/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/renafiinc LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/renafiinc/ 12 Tips for Parenting a Complex TeenFrom the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 17, 2022 • 19min
Bonus Archive Ep 3: Parenting Advice for Kids with ADHD: Cultivating Resilience
Alan R. Graham, Ph.D., PCC, MCAC is Dean of ADHD Coach Training for Mentor coach. He coaches executives with business and organizational challenges AND adults, teens, children and parents impacted by ADHD. Alan has helped many individuals benefit from Cogmed Working Memory Training. Author of The Guide to ADHD Coaching: How to Find an ADHD Coach and What To Do When You Get One Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Alan Graham about cultivating resilience in your kidsHere is what was covered on this special archival episode:Resilience is what will get your kid thought touch timesParents have the power to help kids develop resiliencyThe stories we tell ourselves have a direct impact on our capability for resilienceConnect with Alan:https://www.addvisor.com/Get a copy of The Guide to ADHD Coaching: How to Find an ADHD Coach and What to do When You Get OneLinks to Related Articles:A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?How to Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: The Four Roles of the Parent Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 15, 2022 • 27min
Ep 062: Preventing Stimulus Misuse and Diversion with Kevin Antshel
Kevin Antshel, PhD, is Professor of Psychology, Director of the Clinical Psychology doctoral program and Director of the ADHD Lifespan, Treatment Education and Research (ALTER) program at Syracuse University. He is also an Adjunct Associate Professor of Psychiatry at SUNY-Upstate Medical University in Syracuse, NY. His research interests focus on understanding the heterogeneity of ADHD, especially ADHD in the context of medical disorders such as 22q11.2 deletion syndrome and phenylketonuria. Clinically, Dr. Antshel has focused on developing and testing innovative psychosocial treatments for adolescents and young adults with ADHD and associated conditions. More recently, Dr. Antshel has focused on issues related to college students with ADHD including how best to reduce stimulant misuse on college campuses. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Kevin Antshel about Stimulant misuse and management in college students. Stimulant use can be prevalent on campus for students who don’t have a prescription, not understanding the risks.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Kevin’s prevention and intervention education for college freshmanThe importance of parental monitoring of these medications at home- counting pillsUnderstanding diversion- requests to buy your student’s legitimate prescriptionLinks Mentioned:Brooke Molina http://yfrp.pitt.edu/people/brooke-molina-phd https://chadd.org/Connect with Kevin:http://thecollege.syr.edu/people/faculty/pages/psy/antshel-kevin.htmlhttps://alterlab.syr.edu/ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-antshel-46407826/ Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 10, 2022 • 21min
Bonus Archive Ep 2: From The Archive Episode 2 From Strongwilled to Willpower: Productivity Hacks
An executive and entrepreneur, Alan is the creative genius behind the ADD Crusher, a video series designed for adults with ADHD. Undiagnosed until well into adulthood, Alan's untreated ADHD manifested itself in underachievement, failed relationships, substance abuse, etc. Upon diagnosis, finding it difficult to learn coping strategies from books, Alan developed his own strategies ('10 Ways to Crush Your ADHD') are featured in Videos I and II), while building a successful advertising career. Alan has been a featured presenter at the 2012 ACO Conference, the Succeed With ADHD Telesummit, the 5th Annual Virtual ADHD Conference, and is a co-author of 365+1 Ways to Succeed with ADHD. Listen to this impactful Parenting With Impact episode with Alan Brown about helping your child develop and execute willpower and improve productivity.Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:Think of willpower as a fuel tank- it is a finite resource. How do you refuel?Productivity hacks can create a shortcut to building willpower.Turn challenging strong wills into productive strong wills. Suggested Articles: Look for the Positive Traits to Find the Fabulous in Complex KidsHow Can Systems Help Your Kid’s ADHD Brain? Shifting and Sustaining Focus for KidsSimplifying Routines and RitualsActivate the BrainHelp Your ADD/ADHD Child: Change Your PerspectiveConnect with Alan:https://addcrusher.com/ Twitter https://twitter.com/ADDCrusher YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ADDCrusherFacebook https://www.facebook.com/ADDCrusher/ Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 8, 2022 • 29min
Ep 061: Don’t Watch And Wait: When Do You Need A Specialist?
Dr. Bertin is a developmental pediatrician and author of How Children Thrive and Mindful Parenting for ADHD and Mindfulness and Self-Compassion for Teen ADHD, which integrate mindfulness into pediatric care, and a contributing author for Teaching Mindfulness Skills to Kids and Teens. Dr. Bertin is on faculty at NY Medical College and the Windward Teacher Training Institute, on the board of directors for APSARD, the American Professional Society of ADHD and Related Disorders, and on the advisory boards of Common Sense Media and Reach Out and Read. His blog can be found through Mindful.org and Psychology Today, and through his website www.developmentaldoctor.com. Listen to this beneficial Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Mark when and how to seek an evaluation for diagnosis of a problem, and how to best maximize your time and relationship with your pediatrician.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Taking the pressure off the parent by seeking out help and not waiting and worrying.Establishing trust with your pediatrician to help them understand your child & family.Facilitate good communication by writing down questions and histories before your visit.Links Mentioned:https://developmentaldoctor.com/https://insighttimer.com/markbertinConnect with Dr. Mark:Twitter @MarkBertinMDFacebook https://www.facebook.com/Mark-Bertin-MD-Developmental-Pediatrics-89528066987/LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/markbertin/ Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-SheetSo -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 3, 2022 • 26min
Bonus Archive Ep 1: What I Wish My Mom Knew When I Was a Kid with ADHD
Jessica McCabe, host of "How To ADHD" on YouTube, has some insights on this topic. You see, Jessica is now a grown-up, and she teaches people (of all ages) how to manage their ADHD. It took her a while to figure things out, but now she’s sharing it with others -- and doing an amazing job!In this interview, she takes a few minutes out of her busy podcast schedule to talk with Elaine about what she wishes her mom had known when she was young. In a nutshell, she wants parents to know that while you are trying your hardest to untangle the best path for your kids, your kids are trying to figure things out, too!Listen to this bonus episode from the archives if ImpactParents with Jessica McCabe about what she wishes her mom knew about ADHD when she was a kid Here is what was covered on this special archival episode:The basics that every mom needs to know about ADHD"Support me, but don’t do it for me" Striking the balance between supporting and enabling Giving kind words of validation and managing attention in multi-kid households Related Blogs:Make Life Easier When Your Kid has ADHDA Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological?Failing Forward: Make Every Mistake a New OneHow To Help (Without Enabling) Your Kid: The Four Roles of the Parent Helping Siblings in a Family with ADHDAre Your In Threat Mode? 6 Tools to Stop the YellingConnect with Jessica McCabe:Website: https://howtoadhd.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-nPM1_kSZf91ZGkcgy_95QFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/howtoadhdTwitter: https://twitter.com/howtoadhdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/howtoadhd/ Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their Tracks In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 1, 2022 • 26min
Ep 060: School Refusal
In the past few years with children being out of school, school refusal seems to have been exacerbated. How do we as parents manage children who refuse or resist going to school, when the very paradigm of being in school has shifted?Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss School Refusal.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Be calm about the situation and get clear about where you are in the processGet curious about what is going on and use your relationship and communication skillsRinse and Repeat- continue doing the work and focus on transferring ownership Connect with Elaine and Diane:’www.impactparents.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparents 10 Parenting Tips for School Success with Complex KidsThere are only 10 tips in this FREE parent’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents -- and they’re the only ones you need to give you the foundation to help your kids find school success! Used by parents all over the world, you learn quick steps to lighten the load and help smart kids feel good about school again.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 25, 2022 • 27min
Ep 059: The Family System with Complex Kids
Karen Bridbord, Ph.D. is a licensed psychologist, Certified Gottman Therapist and workplace consultant who uniquely combines the expertise of clinical psychology, organizational behavior and counseling. She works on a personal level with couples and individuals as a therapist and on an organizational level to help corporations with her firm Karen Bridbord & Associates and the Founders Foundry.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Karen Bridbord about the dynamics of the family system when there is a complex child involved.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The stress of raising a complex child can affect the entire family dynamicTriggers and the response of fight, flight, or freeze- finding ways to self-regulateWhat if your co-parent or spouse isn't on board Links Mentioned:https://www.karenbridbord.com/https://thefoundersfoundry.com/Connect with Karen:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drbridbord/?hl=enLinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/drbridbord/ Parenting is LeadershipParenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 18, 2022 • 24min
Ep 058: The Emotional Impact of ADHD
Tamara Rosier, PhD., President of ADHD Coaches Organization, has been a college administrator, a professor, a leadership consultant, a high school teacher, a national public speaker, and an ADHD coach. She received her Ph.D. in Teaching, Learning and Leadership. As founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, she leads a team that works with individuals as they enhance interpersonal effectiveness, increase social intelligence, capitalize strengths, and bridge performance gaps.She applies her experience in higher education and coaching to her position the ACO board. As president, she has three main goals: 1. To support business and professional growth of ACO; 2. To create greater awareness of ADHD coaching professional in the public arena; 3. To continue to support high professionalism of ADHD Coaches.Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Tamara Rosier as they discuss when smart kids feel stupid and difficulties in navigating school and life.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:ADHD and a high IQ CAN coexist, and the emotional journey that accompanies itDifferent coping mechanisms between boys and girls when they think they’re “dumb”Addressing WHAT makes your kid feel dumb, and problem solving around itLinks Mentioned:https://www.tamararosier.com/https://www.adhdcoaches.org/Get your copy of Your Brain’s Not BrokenConnect with Tamara:www.acornleadership.comhttps://adhdcenterofwestmichigan.com/Twitter https://twitter.com/adhd_centerInstagram https://www.instagram.com/brain_not_broken/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/adhdcentermichigan/Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their TracksIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 11, 2022 • 25min
Ep 057: Helping Kids Make Sense of How Their Brains Work
Brittany Brousseau is an ADHD life coach and founder of her own coaching business Discovering Me and ADHD. She is an enthusiastic neurodiverse woman who has a passion for working with children, teens and young adults. In addition to her private coaching practice, she also offers ADHD support and education classes on the online marketplace, Outschool. It is her mission to help all young ADHD minds learn about their brains and develop a positive relationship with their ADHD. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Brittany Brousseau about teaching kids to be involved in and take ownership of managing their ADHD.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:The benefits of “naming your brain”- get your kid interested in the way their brain worksNeurodiverse kids have rights and responsibilities when fitting into a neurotypical worldThe “emotion volcano” regulating myriad emotions by engaging in self-awarenessLinks Mentioned:https://www.discoveringmeandadhd.com/https://outschool.com/teachers/Brittany-BrousseauConnect with Brittany:Instagram @discoveringmeandadhd Motivation GuideIn this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices