Ready to step into 2025 with purpose and intention? It's the holiday season, the end of year and THE perfect time (in my opinion) - to plan for your future!This week, I’m diving into the power of using the end-of-year break to reflect, plan, and take control of your future. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a corporate go-getter, or someone with a big vision, this episode will inspire you to turn your downtime into an opportunity for transformation.Let’s talk about how to close out 2024 intentionally, set the stage for your best year yet, and ensure you're not repeating the same patterns in 2025. It’s not about doing more or hustling harder—it’s about aligning your time and energy with what matters most to you.This episode is a wake-up call to take charge of your life, create space for your dreams, and set yourself up for an unstoppable year ahead.What You'll Hear in This Episode:The power of intentional breaks:Why your holiday downtime is the perfect moment to reflect and plan.How to avoid falling into the "burnout, break, repeat" cycle.Reflection as a tool for growth:Why reviewing 2024 is essential for creating meaningful goals for 2025.What lessons, wins, and challenges taught you this year—and how to use them.Intentional planning for 2025:Tips on setting aside time to map out your big ideas and vision.How to turn downtime into creative, innovative, and purposeful action.Stepping into alignment:How to avoid repeating the same mistakes and create a life that truly fulfils you.Why taking ownership of your time and energy is critical to success.Timestamps for Quick Navigation:[0:00] Intro and a recap of recent episodes.[3:15] Why the end of the year is a critical time for planning your future.[7:45] How to reflect on 2024 and learn from the highs and lows.[14:30] Turning your holiday downtime into creative momentum.[20:00] Aligning your time and energy with your big vision.[25:45] Avoiding the cycle of burnout and repetition in 2025.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:The Goals & Intentions Workbook for 2025 - A free, game-changing guide to reflect, align, and plan for your best year yet. Stay tuned for its release in the next episode!👉🏽 Grab it here: https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/2025-goalsLove the Episode? Let’s Connect:Share your reflections and plans for 2025! Tag me on Instagram @thequeenofconfidence and use the hashtag #TheConfidenceChronicles.If this episode resonated, please leave a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts—it helps more people find the show.Subscribe & Never Miss an Episode:Join me every week for more no-fluff insights, real talk, and tools to live your best life. Let’s make 2025 your most aligned and impactful year yet!

It's that time of the year again where your boundaries will be tested.How serious are you about your boundaries? If you feel like they need work, this episode is for you!Originally recorded December 2021, this episode was too good not to share again (in case you missed it.)I can't tell you how many people do things they dont want to do around the holidays.Go to parties they don't want to be at.Go to family functions they don't want to be at.Buy things and spend money on things they don't truly care about.Enough is enough my friend, this episode is your invitation to give yourself PERMISSION. It's your life, and you get to do as you please with your time, especially this time of the year (and really anytime of the years.) I hope this episode serves you. and Happy holidays to you and yours!Previous episode mentioned: How to not go cray cray this holiday seasonConfidently Dealing with ConflictFinding your courageous voice - with Fleasy MalayBe Kind Say No 

Dive into the inspiring world of goal-setting and personal growth as the hosts share their reflections on 2024 and how they plan for an unstoppable 2025. Discover the power of aligning your goals with your values, the importance of gratitude, and the balance between ambition and enjoyment. Learn practical tips for achieving personal development while parenting, and explore the significance of family support. Plus, grab a free workbook to help streamline your intentions and foster deeper connections in the year ahead!

👉🏽 Listen, this month on the podcast I have been hitting you hard, I know. BUT I want to see you win.I want to be honest with you about the things you "say" you want versus what you're willing to DO in order to create and attract them.I love you big time Queen. I hope you hear this and most importantly I hope it serves you.This episode isn’t just a wake-up call—it’s the loving ass-kicking you didn’t ask for (and you didn't know you needed.)How badly do you want the life you say you dream about? Whether it’s building a successful business, becoming a thought leader, or living out your big vision, the truth is most people won’t achieve their goals. Why? Because they don’t back their words with action.In this episode, I’m challenging you to take a hard look at what you say you want and ask yourself if your actions match your dreams. If they don’t, this is your chance to get clear, get honest, and start moving like your vision depends on it—because it does.In This Episode, We’ll uncover:Why most people won’t achieve their dream life: The hard truth about what it takes to turn your vision into reality.The mismatch between big dreams and small actions: How playing small sabotages your goals.How to tap into your “why”: The driving force behind your dreams and the fuel for your mission.Why proximity is power: Surrounding yourself with people who have the knowledge, results, and drive you need to level up.The truth about sacrifice and risk: Why extraordinary results require extraordinary action.As always if this episode landed for you, drop me a comment on spotify or tag me in your stories, I love to see it.Want to claim your seat at The Queens Table? Apply here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/

2024!Dam, what a year hey? Wether this was 'your best year yet' or the worst year ever, you have to admit - 2024 was different.In todays episode we're digging into the many feelings of 2024, how this year was for you, what it came to teach you and how you can start to intentionally close the year as 2025 looms around the corner.Look out for our annual 2025 Goals and Intentions Podcast + workbook thats coming soon!xx E

*Update only 4 spots remain for the Queens Table 2025 (link below) OKAY ARE YOU READY!!!??? Get your bullet-proof best on, cause this episode is HARD HITTING.This week, I’m bringing you a hard truth: if you want to achieve extraordinary things, you can’t keep showing up in ordinary ways. I’m calling out the mismatch between dreaming big and playing small—and how that incongruence can absolutely sabotage your goals and visions.In this episode, I dive deep into why it’s not enough to simply want extraordinary results. You have to match that energy with bold action, resilience, and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone. Whether it’s in your career, personal growth, or your impact on the world, the journey requires you to act in ways that align with your dreams—not just think about them.We’ll cover:Why big dreams demand big actionHow fear, comfort, and “playing it safe” keep you stuck in ordinary resultsThe importance of investing in yourself and backing your vision wholeheartedlyHow to start embodying the person who already has what they desireWhat it really means to step into the extraordinary and leave ordinary behindThis episode is your loving (and direct!) reminder to stop waiting for someone or something to save you. You have the power to create the life, career, and impact you desire—if you’re ready to show up boldly for it.Key TakeawaysBig dreams require big action: You can’t create extraordinary results by acting in small, ordinary ways.Comfort is the enemy of progress: Staying safe and stagnant won’t move you closer to your goals.Your greatest investment is in yourself: When you level up your skills, mindset, and actions, the ROI is limitless.Be bold, take risks: Extraordinary achievements come from taking leaps of faith and betting on yourself.Stop waiting for a “golden ticket”: You are the key to your success, not external circumstances or opportunities.Timestamps00:00 – Gratitude for your incredible support and updates on my journey03:30 – Why so many people dream big but act small07:45 – The trap of comfort and why it keeps you stuck13:20 – How to embody the person who already has what they want18:15 – My own experiences stepping into extraordinary action25:00 – Practical steps to align your actions with your dreamsContinue the ConversationLet’s connect! Join me on Instagram to share your biggest takeaways from this episode. I love hearing your insights and seeing how you’re taking action in your own life.♟️ Want to learn more about the Queens Table - Click here to learn more and apply: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/P.S. Don’t Miss This!My new book, Becoming Magnetic, is available for pre-order! 🎉 Discover how to tap into your magnetism and claim the joy, abundance, and impact you’re destined for. Plus, pre-ordering unlocks exclusive bonuses like a private podcast and my Magnetism Playbook.👉 Pre-order now and start your journey to becoming magnetic today!

If you’re waiting for January 1st to make a change or go after what you want, here’s a reminder: you don’t need a new year to start. You can decide right now that you’re ready to go for it.In today’s episode, I dive into the importance of not waiting for a perfect date or fresh year to take action. Many of us tend to feel like the end of the year means it’s “too late,” or we assume we’ll get another shot at our dreams in the next calendar year. But the reality? Life doesn’t wait, and we don’t know how much time we have. If there’s a dream, a goal, or a spark in your heart, now is the time to start.We’ll explore:Why you don’t need a new year, new week, or even a new day to beginHow giving up on the end of the year can waste precious time and momentumWhy every day is an opportunity to get closer to your goalsThe power of deciding now to step into your joy, abundance, happiness, and impactIf you’re ready to stop delaying your dreams, this episode is here to remind you of your power to start today.Key TakeawaysDon’t wait for the perfect moment: You can start creating change today, no matter what the calendar says.Time isn’t promised: We often think we have endless time, but the truth is we don’t know how much we have.Your dreams deserve action: Every goal, big or small, is worthy of your time and commitment now—not later.End-of-year momentum: Finishing the year strong builds powerful energy going into the next.This episode is all about claiming your dreams and stepping into action now. Stop waiting for the right time—because the right time is whenever you decide. Listen, get inspired, and take the leap.P.S. 🎉 If you haven't already you can pre-order my new book Becoming Magnetic. Learn how to step into your magnetism and claim your exclusive bonuses (like a private podcast and magnetism playbook) that comes with it. Head to https://thequeenofconfidence.com/becomingmagneticbook/ to pre-order and get access!

♟️ READY TO BECOME THE QUEEN B OF YOUR INDUSTRY?APPLY FOR THE QUEENS TABLE : https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/Today's episode is 🔥:If you’re in business, leading a team, or building a personal brand, here’s a tough truth: nobody cares about what you’re selling until they know you care about them. In this unapologetic episode, I dive into what really makes people want to connect with—and buy from—you.When it comes to building a brand, it’s not about pushing products or services; it’s about letting people see the real you. I unpack why sharing your authentic self—the raw, vulnerable, and unpolished parts—is the key to building lasting relationships with your clients and community. People don’t buy programs, services, or events—they buy you. I explore how to foster this connection and let go of the ‘sales-first’ mentality.Whether you're sharing the highs and lows, quirks, passions, or beliefs that make you who you are, embracing full transparency makes you magnetic. And when you build this kind of realness, you’re not just gaining clients—you’re creating lifetime fans who resonate with you and want to be part of your world.Key Takeaways:People Buy People: They care more about who you are than what you’re selling. Letting them see the real you builds connection and trust.Vulnerability as a Strength: Opening up about the unfiltered parts of your journey—your challenges, beliefs, even your quirks—draws people in.Create Real Relationships: Move beyond sales pitches. Be genuinely interested in others, and when it’s your turn, share your story authentically.Show Up Fully: Be yourself on all platforms. People who resonate with your true self will naturally be drawn to your brand, creating a genuine following.Connection Over Perfection: Perfection can be alienating. Embrace and share your imperfections—they’re what make you human and relatable.🎧 GET ACCESS TO MY PRIVATE PODCAST - BECOMING MAGNETIC BY PRE-ORDERING HERE: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/becomingmagneticbook/

In this episode, I dive deep into the often-neglected emotion of sadness and why it's crucial to give ourselves permission to feel it fully. Sometimes, we think we have to be happy, that we have to push through and keep a smile on, but the truth is—you’re allowed to feel sad. You’re allowed to grieve. You’re allowed to release the emotions that weigh on you, without judgment, and without needing a reason.I remind you that sadness is not something to run from. In fact, embracing sadness can be healing. I explore how grief, sadness, and allowing yourself time to cry can release the emotional burdens that, when bottled up, turn into a heavy armor around your heart. This armor may protect you from being hurt again, but it also blocks love, connection, and joy from coming in.I share my own process of making space for sadness—whether it's crying in the car, screaming into a pillow, or sitting in stillness with my feelings. The act of releasing these emotions brings clarity, lightness, and a renewed sense of freedom. Sadness is here to serve you, not to define you. It’s just a moment. And after this moment of sadness, you’ll laugh again, feel joy again, and continue to move through life lighter and clearer.Key Takeaways:It’s okay to be sad—don’t feel guilty for taking the time to grieve or feel your emotions.Sadness creates emotional clarity and releases the burdens we carry inside.Crying or releasing emotions helps prevent emotional constipation—bottling up feelings only leads to emotional outbursts at inappropriate times.Sadness doesn’t make you a sad or depressed person—it’s simply one of many emotions we feel.Giving yourself space to process sadness leads to lightness, clarity, and emotional healing.Embrace sadness without judgment, and understand that it’s part of the journey toward happiness, joy, and freedom.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Why sadness is an essential emotion to embrace01:16 – Releasing emotions: Giving yourself permission to grieve and be sad02:50 – Crying as healing: Why releasing tears is essential for your well-being04:04 – Grieving for yourself: Making space for emotional release05:45 – Embracing sadness: How this emotion helps create more room for joy and love07:30 – The importance of emotional release: Avoiding emotional constipation and bottling up feelings10:00 – Final thoughts: Making space in your calendar to release your emotions without judgment

Today’s episode is a little different, and I’m diving deep into a personal story that taught me some serious life lessons about intuition, self-worth, and protecting your energy. I’m taking you back to a time when I almost got wrapped up in Puff Daddy’s world. Yep, you heard that right—P. Diddy.But this isn’t just a story about a near-miss with fame. It’s a much bigger conversation about the way women are treated in the entertainment industry, the pressures we face to fit in, and the importance of listening to that inner voice that always knows what’s best for us. In this episode, I share the moment I chose to walk away from what could have been a dangerous situation and how trusting my gut literally saved me from making a huge mistake.I want to highlight the societal pressures that push women to compromise their dignity and safety for opportunities that seem too good to pass up. We’ve all been there—feeling like we need to go along with things just to get ahead or be accepted. But this episode is a reminder that your self-worth is non-negotiable. You don’t owe anyone anything, and no amount of fame or validation is worth sacrificing your safety or your values.Throughout this episode, I get real about my experiences and why it’s so important for women to trust their intuition and stand firm in who they are. I’m here to remind you that you deserve to navigate your life with confidence, knowing your worth and setting boundaries that protect your energy.Key Takeaways:Trusting your intuition can protect you from dangerous situations and unwanted advances.Self-worth and confidence are essential for navigating challenges and making empowered choices.It’s important to listen to your gut when faced with discomfort, especially in high-pressure environments.Women often face societal pressures that undermine their self-respect and boundaries.Building resilience from past experiences can strengthen your intuition and decision-making.Having clear personal boundaries is crucial, especially in the modeling and entertainment industries.Connect with me:Follow Erika on Instagram @thequeenofconfidenceAND If you want to get the private podcast you can pre-order my book here and get your bonuses https://thequeenofconfidence.com/becomingmagneticbook/