Gay Men Going Deeper

About Today’s Show Are you a control freak? Recovering Perfectionist? Or maybe you feel like you’ve never had any control. Today we dive into the topic of control and how we navigate this illusion that we can control the things and people around us. We share insights on how we learned to let go of the need to control everything around us and how we each embrace the energy of allowing and having faith in the process. Calan also shares a very personal story in today’s episode about where his need to control came from and what he’s been doing to move through it and have more faith that everything is unfolding the way it’s supposed to. Be warned, you may shed a tear or two! Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show In this juicy episode, Michael and his partner have a raw and refreshing chat about gay relationship dynamics including interracial love, monogamy, and conflict.    They’ll share how they overcame their fears and trust issues in a messy yet authentic way.  Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode is full of tips and advice for you. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About This Episode In today's episode, we're talking about how we handle change. A fitting topic for us as we say "goodbye for now" to our co-host, Reno who shows us how to gracefully navigating change. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show In this bonus episode, Matt & Reno unpack the hot topic of racism in the gay community with guests Mav Mehta & Edward Tsang. They share experiences of overt and covert racism, how our preferences can be a way to hide behind attitudes rooted in racism, and how to overcome the conditioning that may be contributing to our preferences. They also openly share their own personal biases when it comes to their own preferences/attractions and provide some solutions on how to start taking responsibility for our unconscious biases. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show Dating in the time of a worldwide pandemic brings a whole new set of challenges to deal with. Bubbles, social distance walks, and Zoom dates have become the norm in 2020 and beyond. This week we're talking about what we've learned about dating in the time of COVID. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show Today we are bringing you our first ever BONUS episode! In today’s episode, Calan has a sitdown interview with Stephen Lovegrove (America’s Life Coach) who has been featured on MTV, NBC, Fox, LA Times, OWN, Inc, CBS and USA Today. They do a deep dive on how he got started as a coach, his religious cult upbringing and how that affected him as a gay man, mistaken and limiting beliefs which are usually the things holding us back in life, and much more. StephenLovegrove.us Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show It's the thing that we all have in common. We ALL know the feeling of being a little "different" than the other boys and eventually coming to that conclusion that yes, "I'm gay," and then eventually coming out. Here are our stories…what’s yours? Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show Self-compassion is a fundamental emotional skill that allows us to navigate the challenges of life with grace and humility. In this episode, we share how we incorporate self-compassion into our own journeys and some of the key lessons we've learned so far. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show A life without challenge is a life without growth. In our final episode of 2020, we reflect back on our highs, lows, and the valuable lessons this tumultuous year has gifted us. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!

About Today’s Show It's easy to believe that the holidays are a time filled with joy, gifts, and loved ones. But we don't often talk about the loneliness, anxiety, and dysfunction that goes with it. In this episode, we're encouraging you to reclaim the holiday season on your own terms. Watch this ep on YouTube --- - Connect with us - Join the private Facebook community Instagram | YouTube | Twitter GayMensBrotherhood.com --- Sign up and get new episodes delivered directly to your inbox!