Settled

We're diving deep into the art of asking, seeking, and knocking—yes, it's not just a catchy phrase; it's a lifeline for hearing God in our lives! In this episode, we explore how persistence in our prayers and desires not only aligns us with God but also reflects our inner longings and truths. We'll unpack the importance of using our words, our eyes, and our bodies in this process, illustrating how each action plays a vital role in our relationship with God. Together, we’ll reaffirm that this journey is about discovering ourselves in Christ, recognizing that the knocking isn't just about us inviting Him in; it’s about Him inviting us to see who we truly are. So grab your metaphorical door knocker, and let’s get ready to explore how to engage more fully with the One who is always knocking at our hearts!Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: Hearing God involves asking, seeking, and knocking persistently, not just once. Our approach to God should be about relationship, not obligation or striving to earn favor. Understanding our true identity in Christ is crucial for effective communication with God. Persistence in prayer reflects our genuine desire for connection with God and self-discovery. We can hear God through various senses; it's not limited to just what we hear. Asking God about our identity can transform our understanding of what we truly need.

Today, we’re diving deep into the concept of attunement and how it relates to hearing God. We’re exploring the idea that genuine connection with others—and with God—hinges on being seen, heard, and understood. Through some relatable stories, like a mom's response to her daughter’s mishap with a new pair of jeans, we’ll illustrate how attunement can transform our relationships and interactions. We’ll also unpack how God is perpetually attuned to us, inviting us to mirror that same understanding and connection in our own lives. So whether you’re feeling frustrated, joyful, or anything in between, this episode is about recognizing that you are not alone in your emotions, and that there’s a loving presence ready to meet you right where you are.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: We learned that humor can be a powerful tool in communication and connection. It's essential to embrace vulnerability in our conversations to foster deeper relationships. Our experiences shape our perspectives, and sharing those can help others feel less alone. We discussed the importance of active listening and how it can transform dialogues. Finding common ground can lead to more meaningful discussions, even in disagreement. We emphasized that laughter is a universal language that can bridge gaps between people.

Explore the intriguing idea that you don’t need faith to hear God. The hosts emphasize that listening is an inherent ability, not something to be forced. Engage in a practical exercise to relax and tune in to the divine. Discover insights from scripture that challenge traditional beliefs about faith and hearing. The shepherd-and-sheep metaphor highlights God’s constant guidance. Finally, learn how receiving His voice fosters trust and strength, inviting you to rest in the relationship without pressure.

Today, we dive into the profound topic of hearing God, a conversation that challenges the notion that only the spiritual elite can tap into divine communication. We explore the idea that the language of God is not just a set of words but the very fabric of reality itself. In our discussion, we share personal experiences that illustrate how God speaks to us through peace, intuition, and even our emotions, emphasizing that hearing Him can take many forms beyond the traditional understanding. We reflect on how our upbringing and societal influences shape our perceptions of God and reality, inviting listeners to consider surrendering their limited views for a broader, divine perspective. Join us as we embrace the journey of discovering how God communicates in our lives, offering tools to help us tune into His voice in a way that feels personal and tangible.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: In this episode, we discuss the importance of hearing God and how our perception can shape our reality, emphasizing that God speaks in the language of reality. We explore the concept that hearing God is not just about words, but also involves intuition, emotions, and the embodied experience of our relationship with Him. Understanding that God is love, hope, and peace means recognizing that these virtues are not merely gifts, but are intrinsically part of His nature and reality. The podcast encourages listeners to surrender their perceived realities to God's ultimate reality, which is essential for personal transformation and growth. We highlight the significance of perspective in understanding our lives and the people around us, suggesting that God often invites us to see things differently. Lastly, we emphasize that our experiences, emotions, and even our imaginations can be valid ways to hear God, challenging the notion that divine communication is strictly verbal.

Today, we’re unpacking the profound topic of original design and what it means to be found in Christ before the very foundations of the earth were laid. It's a refreshing perspective that shifts the narrative away from original sin and towards the beautiful truth of our original innocence in Him. We dive deep into how our identity isn’t defined by our mistakes but rather by our inherent value as individuals chosen by God. With humor and heartfelt honesty, we explore the idea of seeing ourselves through the lens of grace rather than guilt, inviting a transformative perspective that can change how we live and interact with the world. Join us as we navigate these themes and encourage each other to embrace the reality of being found in Christ, discovering the impact of this truth on our everyday lives.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: The discussion centers around our origin in Christ, emphasizing that we were chosen in Him before the foundation of the world, not defined by sin. C.S. Lewis's view on time is highlighted, explaining how God transcends our linear understanding, seeing all time as one continuous moment. The podcast encourages listeners to embrace their original innocence, moving beyond the narrative of original sin to understand their identity in Christ. A significant focus is placed on the idea of partnership with God, exploring the concept of 'usness' in our relationship with Him and how we can interact with His will in our lives. Listeners are reminded that God is never far from us, confronting the lie of separation and inviting us to recognize His closeness in every aspect of our lives. Ultimately, the conversation invites a perspective shift, encouraging us to see ourselves as reconciled beings in Christ, moving towards spiritual maturity and the true essence of our identity.

We're diving into a pivotal discussion about our original design, focusing on the theme of being "naked and unashamed." This episode tackles the concept of shame and how it impacts our lives, encouraging us to identify the areas where we feel exposed and the voices that have influenced our self-perception. We reflect on the Genesis narrative, emphasizing that before the fall, humanity was created to live in openness and vulnerability, fully embraced by God's presence. Through personal stories and insights, we explore the transformative journey of relinquishing shame and occupying our true identities in Christ. Ultimately, we aim to illuminate the path toward healing and authenticity, inviting listeners to engage with their own narratives and discover the freedom that comes from living without shame.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: In this episode, we explore the concept of being naked and unashamed, which dives deep into our original design as humans created in the image of God. We discuss how shame can manifest in our lives, often leading us to cover up our true selves with metaphorical fig leaves, and the importance of identifying these areas. The conversation highlights the significance of asking ourselves 'who told you that?' to understand the lies we believe and where they come from. We emphasize that God invites us into a safe space where we can explore our shame and find healing through His truth and love. As we reflect on the Genesis narrative, we recognize that our identity in Christ is rooted in being unashamed, reminding us of our worth and value. The episode encourages us to live out our true selves without fear of judgment, embracing vulnerability as a pathway to authentic community and connection. Links referenced in this episode:bibleproject.com

Today, we’re diving into a fascinating exploration of our original design as we unpack the significance of the two trees in the Garden of Eden. The central theme revolves around understanding the choice between the Tree of Life and the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, and how this choice impacts our spiritual journey. We’ll help you discern which tree you might be drawing from in your own life, and share insights from years of personal and ministry experiences that have transformed countless lives. Our goal is to empower you to live from the Tree of Life, embracing a source of life that leads to true fulfillment rather than the confusion of self-sourcing that often leads to insecurity and striving. Join us as we navigate these profound concepts and invite you to reflect on where you’re finding your sustenance in life.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: In today's episode, we explored the profound narrative of the two trees in the Garden of Eden, emphasizing how they symbolize our choices between life and death. We discussed the importance of discerning whether we are sourcing our lives from the Tree of Life or the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. After years of ministry and personal growth, we've witnessed countless transformations by encouraging individuals to choose life over knowledge that leads to insecurity. It's essential to understand that while knowledge can be good, it should never become our primary source of identity or fulfillment, as it can lead us away from true life.

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of living from the image of God and how the impressions we allow from people and situations can distort our true identity. We explore the idea that many of us carry images shaped by past experiences, whether they be traumatic or simply misleading, which can leave us feeling devalued. Using the playful metaphor of Silly Putty, we discuss how these impressions can stick to our hearts and influence our perceptions of self-worth. Together, we reflect on the importance of recognizing these false images and returning to the truth of who we are as image bearers of God. Join us as we unpack this journey of peeling away the misleading layers and embracing our true selves in Christ.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways: We need to be cautious of the images we allow others to impress upon us, as they can distort our true identity in God. Our childhood experiences shape our beliefs about ourselves, often leading to feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness that aren't rooted in truth. Understanding our worth as bearers of God's image allows us to reject lies and reclaim our identity in Christ, reminding us of our inherent value. As we navigate life, it's essential to discern the voices that shape our perceptions, seeking God's truth to redefine our self-image and purpose.

Today, we're diving deep into the idea of occupying our true selves in Christ and understanding ourselves as a territory, a land filled with dreams, disappointments, and hopes. We explore how every person is like a universe of experiences, and how the kingdom of God resides within us, waiting to be discovered. Yep, that’s right—just like the tasty meatballs we enjoyed at IKEA, there's a richness inside us that’s both profound and deliciously complex! We'll get into how our internal world can sometimes feel chaotic, and how we often give external forces too much power over our identity. Ultimately, we’re inviting you to engage with God and explore the beautiful reality of who you really are—because the journey of self-discovery is not just about understanding ourselves, but about realizing the treasure that God sees within us. So, grab that cup of coffee, settle in, and let’s uncover the truth together!Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Show Notes:In this engaging episode, we tackle the intricate relationship between our identities and our faith in Christ. After a light-hearted introduction featuring our family's IKEA trip, we find ourselves contemplating the profound nature of the human experience while enjoying those famous meatballs. This seemingly mundane moment sparks a discussion about the deep stories and complexities that each individual embodies. We draw on biblical metaphors, particularly the idea of being a promised land, to illustrate how each of us is called to occupy our true selves. The conversation highlights the importance of the internal kingdom that resides within us, as emphasized by Jesus in Luke 17:21. We explore the concept of dominion, referencing the creation narrative where humanity is given authority over the earth, and how this pertains to our personal lives. Through humor and heartfelt discussion, we address the challenges of maintaining our identities amidst societal pressures and the metaphorical 'squatters' that may inhabit our inner territories. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys, inviting them to engage with God in revealing their true selves, and to embrace the invitation to occupy the beautiful land of who they are in Christ. As we conclude, we leave our audience with a challenge to actively participate in this internal exploration and to reclaim the dominion that God has given them.Takeaways: We discussed how our identities are like territories that we need to occupy fully and embrace. The metaphor of being a promised land helps us understand our spiritual journey of self-discovery and growth in Christ. There’s power in understanding that we are bigger on the inside than we appear externally; our inner reality holds treasures. We have the ability to choose what we agree with, whether it’s truth or lies, impacting our identity and dominion over ourselves.

We're kicking off our Original Design Series. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what it truly means to sit down inside ourselves and operate from our original design in Christ. We’ll unpack how so many of us have been conditioned to focus on what we do rather than who we are, often letting the narrative of humanity's fall overshadow God’s original intent for us. It’s a refreshing perspective that invites us to embrace rest as our starting point, rather than a reward for our efforts. We’ll explore the garden language that illustrates our identity as image bearers and how that plays into our daily lives and relationships. Join us as we challenge the hustle mentality and encourage a posture of trust and rest, allowing ourselves to be filled and overflow into the lives of those around us.Resources:Reclaim What’s Real FREE 5-Day DevotionalRegister Now for the Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Show NotesIn this engaging episode, we are led through a reflective journey about our original design and the significance of resting in our identity as creations of God. Elizabeth and Jason Settle articulate the often-overlooked truth that humanity was created in a state of rest, drawing from the creation narrative in Genesis. They emphasize that our first day as humans was not spent in toil but in enjoying the fullness of what God had created. This foundational understanding invites us to reconsider how we approach our lives, particularly in a culture that prizes busyness and productivity over stillness and being.The discussion transitions into the implications of viewing ourselves through the lens of our original design versus the narrative of original sin. Elizabeth and Jason share personal stories that illustrate how easily we fall into the trap of equating our worth with our performance. By recognizing that we are designed for relationship and rest, we can shift our mindset from one of striving to one of receiving God's grace. They encourage listeners to cultivate a posture of surrender, which allows us to experience true rest and trust in God’s provision.As the episode unfolds, the hosts engage listeners in a guided reflection, inviting them to 'sit down' in their inner selves and connect with God on a deeper level. This practice serves as a powerful reminder that rest is not merely the absence of work but a state of being where we can engage in the fullness of life God intends for us. The conversation beautifully weaves together scriptural insights, personal anecdotes, and practical applications, leaving the audience with a renewed sense of purpose and the understanding that they are invited to live from a place of rest, reflecting the heart of God in their daily lives.Takeaways: In our journey with the Lord, we often focus on original sin rather than our original design in Christ. Living from a place of rest requires us to relinquish control and trust God's plan for us. Our first day as humanity was a day of rest, emphasizing that we were created for relationship, not just work. To truly occupy our true selves, we must learn to sit down inside ourselves and trust in God's presence.