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We dive into our marriage journey, sharing how we met and the unique dynamic that keeps our relationship vibrant and authentic. In this episode, we tackle the stereotypes that often shape marital expectations, emphasizing the importance of being true to ourselves rather than conforming to societal norms. We explore the playful differences in our communication styles—like my tendency to chat about every detail while my partner offers brief, succinct responses. Through humor and heart, we discuss how we navigate these contrasts, learning to appreciate each other's perspectives while fostering a deeper connection. Ultimately, we invite you to embrace your own authenticity in relationships, shedding any roles that don't fit and celebrating the beautiful complexity of who you are.Takeaways:Our marriage story highlights the importance of authenticity and finding your true self.We challenge stereotypes about men and women, emphasizing that everyone is unique and nuanced.The Settled Conference is designed to create a space for healing and personal growth.We share our journey of accepting ourselves and each other through the challenges of marriage.Communication styles can vary greatly, but understanding and acceptance can bridge those gaps.Unity in marriage means embracing our differences while still supporting each other's individuality.

Join us as we dive into the intriguing world of prophecy, a subject that sparks a variety of opinions and conversations. We're unpacking our personal journeys with the prophetic, shedding light on how it can be a powerful tool for encouragement and reconciliation rather than something to fear. We believe that everyone can engage with the prophetic—not just a select few—and through this episode, we aim to demystify what it really means to hear God and share His heart for others. Plus, we’re excited to announce our upcoming conference in Grapevine, Texas, where we’ll create a space for healing and connection, helping you to occupy your true self and hear God in the moment. So grab your headphones, and let's explore how prophecy can transform our lives and relationships!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Book Mentioned: A Beckoning To Wonder by Jen WeaverTakeaways:In this episode, we explore the topic of prophecy and its significance in our spiritual journeys, emphasizing how it can empower us to hear God more clearly.We believe that prophecy should not be seen as a tool for judgment or shame, but rather as a means to encourage and uplift one another in our true identities.The upcoming Settled Conference aims to provide a healing space for individuals to connect with God, explore their identities, and experience community support.A key takeaway is that prophecy is about recognizing and affirming the truth of who we are in Christ rather than merely predicting the future or flattering one another.Our conversation highlights the importance of community in the prophetic process, as gathering together enhances our ability to hear from God more clearly.Ultimately, we want to remind everyone that we need each other in our spiritual journeys, as we often have blind spots that others can help us see clearly.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving deep into who we are at Settled Co, and let me tell you, it's been quite the journey! We're not just a counseling company; we're a community passionate about helping others occupy their true selves in Christ. From our humble beginnings—when I, Jason, launched the company solo after leaving a decade-long church staff role—to now, where Elizabeth has officially joined the adventure, we've been busy creating a space where people can experience healing and growth. We're excited to share the evolution of our offerings, from biblical counseling to consulting and courses, all underpinned by our core message of settled identity. So grab a cocktail—yes, we might just talk about those—and join us for this revealing behind-the-scenes look at Settled Co!Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We started SettledCo after leaving long-term church staff, aiming to help others find their true selves in Christ.Our journey has taken us through various office spaces, but we finally settled into a permanent location.SettledCo focuses on biblical counseling, coaching, and consulting, with a passion for serving individuals and churches alike.We believe that settled identity empowers individuals, couples, and organizations to thrive in their true purpose.Our upcoming conference will be a unique opportunity for community and growth, so mark your calendars for February!We aim to help churches move from creating dependents to developing disciples with emotional and spiritual maturity.Mentioned in this episode:Settled ConferenceYou carry so much—for your team, your family, your calling. But who’s holding space for you to process, release, and connect with God on a deeper level? Click the Link to find out more!Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we dive into the transformative practice of meditation and contemplation, exploring how these moments of silence can help us truly hear God. This episode wraps up our series on connecting with God not through words, but through stillness and presence. We’ll discuss how stepping away from the noise of daily life allows us to be present with ourselves and with God, and help dispel the pressures we feel to constantly be productive. From personal anecdotes about our kids to sharing our favorite contemplation techniques, we aim to make this practice accessible and inviting. So grab a candle or find a quiet spot, and let’s explore how simply being can be an act of worship and a path to deeper connection.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:Meditation and contemplation allow us to hear God by embracing silence and stillness.Practicing presence with both God and ourselves is essential for spiritual growth.Our identity shouldn't be tied solely to productivity; being is just as important as doing.Creating intentional quiet moments can lead to profound experiences of God's presence and love.We often confuse maturity with productivity, missing the value of simply being present.Engaging in practices like lighting a candle can help cultivate a quiet, reflective space for prayer.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of being known as a friend of God. It’s not just about knowing Him; it’s about the incredible reality that He knows us deeply and intimately. We explore different dimensions of knowing God—cognitive, emotional, and even that profound intimacy likened to a marriage. Along the way, we share personal stories about our struggles with anxiety and how vulnerability opened the door to experiencing God’s presence in those moments. Join us as we unpack what it truly means to invite God into our lives and be seen by Him in our rawest, most honest states.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We discussed the importance of being known by God, which goes beyond mere cognitive understanding.The episode explored the idea that vulnerability allows us to experience God's presence intimately.We shared personal stories about panic attacks and how surrendering brought peace and connection with God.The conversation highlighted how knowing God involves emotional and intimate dimensions, not just intellectual knowledge.Friendship with God means engaging in curiosity and asking fun questions about our relationship with Him.We emphasized that God's invitation to be known is essential for experiencing true peace and hope.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled ConferenceYou carry so much—for your team, your family, your calling. But who’s holding space for you to process, release, and connect with God on a deeper level? Click the Link to find out more!Settled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026

Today, we're diving into a conversation about finding a safe place with God, a concept that can transform how we hear Him. We explore the idea that feeling safe is a core human need, and when we don’t feel safe, we tend to hide or put on facades instead of bringing our true selves to the table. With insights drawn from Scripture, we highlight that God serves as our strong tower, providing refuge and safety in His presence. We also discuss how to use the eyes of our heart to discover new truths about ourselves through contemplation and reflection, fostering a more intimate connection with God. Join us as we guide you through exercises to visualize your safe place and invite you to see yourself through the lens of divine love and safety.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we explore the profound concept of finding a safe place with God, emphasizing that safety is a fundamental human need that influences how we engage in relationships and with ourselves.We discuss how our internal judgments can hinder our ability to sit comfortably with ourselves, which is crucial when seeking to hear God more clearly.The idea of practicing the presence of both God and ourselves is highlighted, helping us to feel safe enough to explore our thoughts and emotions without judgment.We encourage listeners to visualize their 'safe place' during meditation, understanding that God knows what we need to feel secure and will guide us there.Throughout the podcast, we share personal anecdotes about how engaging with our imagination in safe spaces can lead to deeper revelations about our identity in Christ.Finally, we emphasize that our ability to hear God can be enhanced when we feel safe, allowing us to present our true selves and receive His guidance more freely.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Discover the transformative power of asking, seeking, and knocking as a way to hear God in daily life. The hosts explore how persistence in prayer reveals our true selves and fosters a genuine relationship with the divine. They emphasize using all senses to connect, not just relying on auditory messages. Listeners are encouraged to discern their desires, choose wisdom over quick fixes, and recognize God's attentive presence in their lives. It's a journey of understanding identity in Christ and transforming spiritual practices from performance to connection.

Today, we’re diving deep into the concept of attunement and how it relates to hearing God. We’re exploring the idea that genuine connection with others—and with God—hinges on being seen, heard, and understood. Through some relatable stories, like a mom's response to her daughter’s mishap with a new pair of jeans, we’ll illustrate how attunement can transform our relationships and interactions. We’ll also unpack how God is perpetually attuned to us, inviting us to mirror that same understanding and connection in our own lives. So whether you’re feeling frustrated, joyful, or anything in between, this episode is about recognizing that you are not alone in your emotions, and that there’s a loving presence ready to meet you right where you are.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:We learned that humor can be a powerful tool in communication and connection.It's essential to embrace vulnerability in our conversations to foster deeper relationships.Our experiences shape our perspectives, and sharing those can help others feel less alone.We discussed the importance of active listening and how it can transform dialogues.Finding common ground can lead to more meaningful discussions, even in disagreement.We emphasized that laughter is a universal language that can bridge gaps between people.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Explore the intriguing idea that you don’t need faith to hear God. The hosts emphasize that listening is an inherent ability, not something to be forced. Engage in a practical exercise to relax and tune in to the divine. Discover insights from scripture that challenge traditional beliefs about faith and hearing. The shepherd-and-sheep metaphor highlights God’s constant guidance. Finally, learn how receiving His voice fosters trust and strength, inviting you to rest in the relationship without pressure.

Today, we dive into the profound topic of hearing God, a conversation that challenges the notion that only the spiritual elite can tap into divine communication. We explore the idea that the language of God is not just a set of words but the very fabric of reality itself. In our discussion, we share personal experiences that illustrate how God speaks to us through peace, intuition, and even our emotions, emphasizing that hearing Him can take many forms beyond the traditional understanding. We reflect on how our upbringing and societal influences shape our perceptions of God and reality, inviting listeners to consider surrendering their limited views for a broader, divine perspective. Join us as we embrace the journey of discovering how God communicates in our lives, offering tools to help us tune into His voice in a way that feels personal and tangible.Resources:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JouneySettled Conference - Feb. 26-27, 2026Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling SessionLinktree - https://linktr.ee/settledcoConnect with us:Website - https://settledco.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/Facebook -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590YouTube -  https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcastLinkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/Takeaways:In this episode, we discuss the importance of hearing God and how our perception can shape our reality, emphasizing that God speaks in the language of reality.We explore the concept that hearing God is not just about words, but also involves intuition, emotions, and the embodied experience of our relationship with Him.Understanding that God is love, hope, and peace means recognizing that these virtues are not merely gifts, but are intrinsically part of His nature and reality.The podcast encourages listeners to surrender their perceived realities to God's ultimate reality, which is essential for personal transformation and growth.We highlight the significance of perspective in understanding our lives and the people around us, suggesting that God often invites us to see things differently.Lastly, we emphasize that our experiences, emotions, and even our imaginations can be valid ways to hear God, challenging the notion that divine communication is strictly verbal.Mentioned in this episode:Reclaim What's Real 5-Day JourneyThis FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney