Zachthinkshare Podcast

Zach Thinkshare
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Jul 12, 2024 • 39min

Ep 67: Connection Codes and Emotional Literacy

Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson interviews Tara Wedges, the CEO of Connection Codes, about the core motion wheel and its impact on relationships. They discuss how the core motion wheel helps in better labeling and understanding emotions, separating emotions from behaviors, and building trust and connection in relationships. They also address common misconceptions about emotions and the importance of recognizing and processing emotions for overall well-being. The conversation highlights the power of the core motion wheel in improving communication and emotional health. https://zwatson--connectioncodes.thrivecart.com/foundations/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:43 Discovering Connection Codes and Becoming a Leader 08:32 Separating Emotions from Behaviors 12:58 Demonstration of the Core Motion Wheel 18:49 The Importance of Validation and Emotional Processing 25:34 The Impact of the Core Motion Wheel on Relationships 34:06 Conclusion and Discount Code
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Jun 18, 2024 • 35min

Ep 66: "Emotional Labor" Author Rose Hackman talks Emotional Labor with me

SummaryIn this conversation, Zach Watson interviews Rose Hackman, author of the book 'Emotional Labor.' They discuss the concept of emotional labor and its importance in various aspects of life, including relationships, work, and society. They highlight the value of empathy and the skills required to practice emotional labor effectively. They also address the gendered dynamics of emotional labor and the need for a more equitable distribution of this labor. The conversation emphasizes the significance of acknowledging and valuing emotional labor and the impact it has on individuals and society as a whole.Keywordsemotional labor, empathy, gender dynamics, value, equitable distributionTakeaways Emotional labor is the editing work of emotions that a person does on themselves to have an effect on the emotions of others. Emotional labor is not inherently about gender; it is about power and can be practiced by anyone. Emotional labor is essential in various contexts, including relationships, work, and building brands. Acknowledging and valuing emotional labor is crucial for creating meaningful connections and relationships. Emotional labor has quantifiable value, and it should be compensated and distributed equitably. The Value and Impact of Emotional Labor The Quantifiable Value of Emotional Labor "Emotional labor is not inherently about gender at all. It's about power." "Emotional labor is everywhere in the marketplace. It's the central component of millions of jobs." "Emotional labor is empathy in action." TitlesSound BitesChapters00:00Introduction and Background00:59Exploring Emotional Labor and Research08:32Emotional Labor in Everyday Life and Power Dynamics21:59The Future of Emotional Labor and Conclusion
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May 14, 2024 • 1h 9min

Ep 65: Eve Rodsky Author of FairPlay Critiques my methods

After coaching from her book and sharing on social media how I've been implementing her method for the past 2 years, I ask her for critiques on how I implement her method! Affiliate link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/shop/realzachthinkshare/list/19NJNPI4570A0?ref_=aipsflist_aipsfrealzachthinkshare Eve on IG: https://www.instagram.com/everodsky/?hl=en
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May 9, 2024 • 49min

Ep 64: May 8th Boring Meeting with Alyssa

Alyssa, a participant in boring meetings, explores effective communication tools like Persist app and connection codes. They discuss emotions, responsibilities, household tasks, cleaning lists, impact of tidiness on productivity, managing child tantrums, and parenting reflections.
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Apr 25, 2024 • 7min

Ep 63: A successful not fun convo | Persist App

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Apr 3, 2024 • 24min

Ep 62: Zach strong arming Alyssa unintentionally

Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson discusses various topics during a board meeting. They talk about financial planning, including budgeting and taxes. They also discuss upcoming events, such as a wedding and a trip. Additionally, they touch on the importance of sharing interests and experiences with each other.
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Mar 18, 2024 • 1h 26min

Ep 61: Professor Neil and Zach talk Masculinity and Parasocial relationships

Summary In this podcast episode, Zach Watson interviews Professor Neil Shyminsky about his work in calling out toxic masculinity and making academic concepts accessible. They discuss the challenges of being a content creator and the importance of addressing misinformation. They also explore the themes of identity and transformation in the movie Barbie and the role of men in society. The conversation touches on the potential market for books on masculinity and the dangers of certain ideologies. In this conversation, Zach Watson and Neil Shyminsky discuss various topics related to content creation, parasocial relationships, and the impact of their work. They explore the reasons why certain messages resonate with young audiences and the importance of confidence in personal interactions. They also discuss the challenges and benefits of being recognized in public and the dynamics of parasocial relationships. Additionally, they touch on the process of creating content and the potential future projects they may pursue.
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Mar 11, 2024 • 12min

Ep 60: Minimum Standard of Care (Solo)

Interested in my programs? Check the avilability on my calendar here for a free consultation call: https://recoveringmanchild.com/relationshipgoalsconsult Affiliate book recommendations link: https://www.amazon.com/shop/realzachthinkshare/list/31VK59SM3UZC1?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfrealzachthinkshare_CSNPB6GF50X49FFBSVE1
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Mar 4, 2024 • 1h 14min

Ep 60: Renee | The Mom Room Talks domestic labor and social media

SummaryIn this conversation, Zach Watson and Renee discuss various topics related to parenting, emotional expression, and shared responsibilities. They explore the challenges of default parenting and the societal expectations placed on women. They also discuss the importance of emotional expression and vulnerability, highlighting the positive impact of emotional masculinity. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication and planning in order to navigate shared responsibilities effectively. Overall, the conversation provides valuable insights into parenting dynamics and the importance of emotional well-being. In this conversation, Renee discusses her education and background in psychology, specializing in attachment, defense mechanisms, and reflective functioning. She also shares her research on the efficacy of psychotherapy for eating disorders, highlighting the challenges and nuances of conducting research in this field. Renee emphasizes the importance of a healthy approach to food and parenting, promoting a balanced and mindful perspective. She also discusses the limitations of clickbait and the need for nuance in understanding research findings. Finally, Renee shares her plans for the future, including live events, in-person interviews, and a second podcast.Takeaways Societal expectations often place a heavier burden of emotional labor on women, leading to challenges in communication and self-expression. Emotional vulnerability and expression are important for both men and women, and should be encouraged and celebrated. Shared responsibilities in parenting and household tasks require open communication and planning to ensure a fair distribution of labor. Modeling healthy emotional expression for children is crucial in fostering their emotional well-being and understanding. Recognizing and addressing default parenting dynamics can lead to more balanced and fulfilling relationships. Education and specialization in psychology can shape one's perspective and approach to various topics. Research on psychotherapy for eating disorders is complex and often limited in its scope. Promoting a healthy relationship with food and avoiding restrictive behaviors can positively impact children's attitudes towards food. Clickbait headlines often oversimplify complex research findings, and it's important to seek nuance and context. Future plans include live events, in-person interviews, and a second podcast.
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Feb 23, 2024 • 1h 3min

Ep 59: Paige aka @sheisapaigeturner talks domestic labor and social media with me

Summary In this conversation, Zach Watson and Paige Connell discuss the mental load and invisible labor that women often bear in relationships and parenting. They explore the impact of childcare on career trajectories and the financial implications of taking time off work. Paige shares her journey of becoming a content creator and the inspiration behind her viral videos. They discuss the challenges of vulnerability and receiving feedback, as well as the importance of consistent effort in sharing personal experiences. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of relationships and the need for open communication and shared responsibilities. In this conversation, Zach Watson and Paige discuss various topics related to gender roles, household chores, social issues, and privilege. They explore the challenges faced by women in managing the mental load and domestic labor, as well as the need for paid paternity leave and affordable childcare. Paige shares her perspective on the child care crisis and the importance of advocating for change. They also discuss the role of privilege in addressing social issues and the importance of acknowledging and learning from it. Overall, the conversation highlights the need for greater awareness and action to create a more equitable society. Takeaways Childcare has a significant impact on a person's career trajectory, and the financial implications should be considered. Sharing personal experiences and connecting with others can be a powerful way to create meaningful content. Vulnerability and receiving feedback are essential for personal growth and creating impactful content. Navigating dangerous advice and complex relationship dynamics requires careful consideration and understanding of individual circumstances. Balancing mental load and domestic labor is crucial for creating a harmonious and equitable partnership. Gender roles often contribute to an unequal distribution of household chores and the mental load, with women shouldering a majority of the responsibilities. Paid paternity leave and affordable childcare are crucial for achieving gender equality and supporting working parents. Addressing social issues requires acknowledging and understanding one's privilege, as well as actively advocating for change. Navigating conversations about social issues from a place of privilege involves listening, learning, and amplifying the voices of marginalized communities. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:26 The Impact of Childcare on Career Trajectory 04:22 Sharing Personal Experiences and Connecting with Others 07:04 Inspiration for Creating Content 09:11 Vulnerability and Receiving Feedback 12:06 Reflecting on Favorite and Vulnerable Posts 13:59 Learning and Growing as Content Creators 16:03 Navigating Dangerous Advice and Complex Relationship Dynamics 19:34 Experiencing Mental Load and Frustration 22:39 Reaching a Breaking Point and Seeking Change 24:48 The Importance of Consistency and Trust 27:28 Dividing Mental Load and Domestic Labor 30:09 Navigating Mom Guilt and Prioritizing Self-Care 32:06 Gendered Expectations and Shared Responsibilities 35:03 Creating Balance and Recognizing Personal Needs 36:51 Gender Roles and Household Chores 46:51 Identifying and Solving Social Issues 55:55 Navigating Privilege in Social Issues 01:02:37 Wrap-up and Conclusion

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