

The Healing Trauma Podcast
Monique Koven
Everyone deserves to be seen, soothed, and understood. This podcast is here to light your path on the healing journey, offering empathy and hope along the way. Through conversations with trauma experts, w'ell share insights and practical support to help you heal and move forward.Disclaimer: This podcast is for information purposes only and should not be considered as legal advice.This podcast is not intended to replace professional medical and mental health advice. Guest view's do not necessarily reflect that of the host or podcast.
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Jan 13, 2023 • 32min
Losing Someone You Love To Suicide
Trigger Warning: The following episode contains conversations touching on suicide of a partner. On today's episode I am joined with Alexandra Wyman. Alexandra is an Amazon best-selling author of The Suicide Club: What To Do When Someone You Love Chooses Death, a guide to navigate the grief process after loss by suicide. Alexandra was plunged into grief and shock when her husband died by suicide. The sudden loss of the love of her life left her reeling with so many unanswered questions. One of the reasons she decided to write the book was to provide others with the kind of guidance and support she needed and could not find. You can find her book here:The Suicide Club: What to Do When Someone You Love Chooses Death https://a.co/6PdT3Gv Her Website: www.forwardtojoy.comThank you Scribe Media for sponsoring this episode.Buy Me A Coffee and Support the showFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Jan 3, 2023 • 37min
The Wisdom Of Your Body with Dr. Hillary McBride
In today’s conversation, psychologist and author Dr. Hillary McBride joins Monique to talk about trauma healing and embodiment. She is the author of the book, The Wisdom of the Body: Finding Healing, Wholeness, and Connection through Embodied Living.You can find Hillary :https://hillarylmcbride.com/Instagram @hillaryliannamcbrideThank you to our sponsor Tyndale House Publishers Company. Dr. Daniel G. Amen newest book Change Your Brain Everyday is available for preorder www.tyndale.com/p/change-your-brain-every-day/9781496454577 Trauma Recovery Coaching and Resources www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/Support the showFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Dec 22, 2022 • 37min
Try Softer With Aundi Kolber
On today's episode I am re-releasing a favorite episode of mine from last year. Aundi Kolber is trauma therapist & author of the book Try Softer, Aundi Kolber. In the episode, Monique and Aundi talk about the impact of Complex- Trauma on the body, mind and heart. Aundi shares how her own experience as a survivor & therapist helped to shape the book into a source of hope and comfort for others on their healing journey. Find Aundi Here:https://aundikolber.comThank you to our sponsor Tyndale House Publishers CompanyDr. Daniel G. Amen newest book Change Your Brain Everyday is available for preorder www.tyndale.com/p/change-your-brain-every-day/9781496454577Find a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Dec 9, 2022 • 43min
Chandra's Journey Of Remembering
*Trigger WarningSensitive Content related to childhood sexual abuse. The impact of recovering memories that have been completely repressed for years or even decades can be a devastating process. On today’s episode, Chandra Moyer shares her personal experience of becoming aware of childhood sexual abuse after more than thirty years of dissociative amnesia. She talks about the impact it had on her and on those around her. She also talks about the support that was helpful for her journey.Chandra Moyer is a sought-after speaker, author, life coach and veteran army officer. For three decades, she has empowered women through conferences, healing retreats, and workshops. Chandra is the recipient of the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award for her child trafficking prevention work. Visit Chandra’s website Thank you to our sponsor Tyndale House Publishers Company Dr. Daniel G. Amen newest book Change Your Brain Everyday is available for preorder https://www.tyndale.com/p/change-your-brain-every-day/9781496454577Buy Me a Coffee Support the showFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Nov 24, 2022 • 26min
Anxiety from a Somatic Lens With Ilene Smith
On today's episode I am joined with therapist, coach and author Ilene Smith. We have often thought of anxiety as being in our "head" anxiety is a somatic ( in the body) experience. We talk about the body, mind and how you can begin to move through anxiety.Ilene is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) whose work is rooted in the principles of attachment theory and eastern philosophies. She integrates several modalities into her practice, including talking, touch-work, and movement, to help clients develop deeper and safer relationships within and increased capacities for resilience and joy. She is the author of Moving Beyond Trauma: The Roadmap to Healing from Your Past and Living with Ease and Vitality (Lioncrest, 2020), an Amazon Bestseller that shows readers how to bring the body into the trauma healing process Find Ilene here:https://ilenesmith.comBuy Me A Coffee Support the showFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Nov 11, 2022 • 41min
The Regulated Classroom with Emily Read Daniels
Today I am joined with Emily Daniels, the author and creator of The Regulated Classroom. The Regulated Classroom is a Trauma informed/Polyvagal-informed approach to cultivating conditions for felt safety in the classroom. Traditional approaches have tended to be seen through the lens of a behavioural paradigm. Without the understanding of the autonomic nervous system from a Polyvagal and Somatic perspective, one may conclude that behaviour or responses are always choice driven. Polyvagal Theory offers an understanding for why we may behave /respond in the way that we do. With this understanding, behaviours make more sense and it opens the space for more compassionate and curiousity.YYou can visit Emily's website here https://regulatedclassroom.com/ You can also follow her on Instagram @theregulatedclassroom Thank you Emily @ The Regulated Classroom for supporting this episode. Buy Me a Coffee Support the showFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Oct 21, 2022 • 48min
Body Aware With Erica Hornthal
On today's episode I am joined with Erica Hornthal. Erica is a dance and movement therapist and licensed clinical professional counselor. She is also known as the "Therapist Who Moves You. "Erica is also the Author of a new book Body Aware, a step-by-step journey how a mindful movement practice can slow down thoughts to lessen anxiety and panic and impact how and what we feel.When we talk about movement, most of us think "exercise". But the way we move our bodies, how we walk, roll, dance, stretch, stretch, connect, and take up space - is about so much more than physical fitness.Erica shares about how our movements impact our mental health and wellbeing and when we change the way we move, we can change the way we experience life. She even shares a little gentle practice with us during the episode.Body aware helps readers to learn and identify where they physically hold their emotions, understand and interpret their body's unique language, explore bodily sensations, identify emotional blockages and upgrade harmful thought cycles to patterns that instead foster resilience, emotional regulation, and productivity. During the episode she even shares a gentle movement practice. Get the book here:- https://www.amazon.com/Body-Aware-Rediscover-Mind-Body-Connection-ebook/dp/B09LH42FSZ Social media accounts: IG- the.therapist.who.moves.youThank you Chicago Dance Therapy for sponsoring this episode.Support the show Buy Me a Coffee Find a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclosure:Today's guest appearance is part of a paid promotional feature. The views and opinions expressed are those of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Healing Trauma Podcast or its hosts. Please consider this episode as sponsored content.”Disclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Oct 3, 2022 • 48min
Believing Me- Healing Complex Trauma with Dr. Ingrid Clayton
Psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton shares her experiences with complex trauma and healing from narcissistic abuse. She discusses her memoir 'Believing Me' and the impact of growing up in a narcissistic family system. The chapter explores navigating trauma, healing, and boundaries, emphasizing the importance of listening to our nervous system and establishing reciprocity in relationships. The hosts express gratitude and provide links to Dr. Clayton's book.

Sep 22, 2022 • 41min
PTSD and First Responders With Dr. Peter Salerno
In this episode I am joined with trauma therapist, Dr Peter Salerno. He is also the author of the book "Fit for Off-Duty:A Manual for firefighters: Healing from Work Related Trauma, Restoring Personal Relationships. and Thriving at Home." We talk about how first responders are repeatedly exposed to overwhelming emergencies and the impact that can have on the body, mind and on relationships. He also shares with us about EMDR and how this trauma healing modality can be very helpful for those with trauma related work experiencesDr. Salerno's books: https://amzn.to/3PkOTzIhttps://amzn.to/3wftpeShttps://www.drpetersalerno.comThank you Peter for sponsoring this episode of the HTP.Work with Monique https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com.Support the show Buy Me A CoffeeFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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Sep 8, 2022 • 36min
Healing And EMDR with Mark Odland
On today's episode I am joined with award -winning artist and poet Mark Odland. Mark is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Certified EMDR therapist. In this episode we talk about some themes around healing Trauma taken from his latest book, EMDR Inspired Art and Poetry, a Meditation on Hope and Pain for Troubled Times. We talk about how scary it can sometimes feel to go for help as well the beauty of what can come from being in a safe and space where you feel seen, heard and validated. Thank you Bilateral Innovations for sponsoring this episode.Mark's website http://bilateralinnovations.com/inspiredMark's bookhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B2TTDCFM/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_iSupport the show Buy Me A CoffeeFind a list of my recommended books, trainings + resources for healing trauma journey. https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/resources/ Watch this episode on youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJy4f23JvtdFuQGadOqy3PADisclaimer: This episode and website contains affiliate links. When you make a purchase, I may receive a small commission at no cost to you.
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