Soberful

Veronica Valli & Chip Somers
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Apr 9, 2025 • 22min

310: People Pleasing Will Get You Drunk

Veronica discusses the detrimental effects of people pleasing on sobriety and emotional health. She emphasizes that getting sober involves not just abstaining from alcohol but also addressing emotional sobriety, which includes understanding and overcoming people pleasing behaviors. Valli explains how these behaviors often stem from childhood experiences and the belief that one is responsible for others' happiness. She advocates for setting boundaries as a crucial step towards emotional freedom and self-discovery, encouraging listeners to take responsibility for their own emotional experiences rather than trying to please others. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Apr 2, 2025 • 50min

309: Celebrity, Addiction and Redemption With Jonathan Schwartz

In 2016 Alanis Morissette discovered that her business manager had embezzled $4.7 million of her money. Jonathan Schwartz was at rehearsals with Beyonce when he realised that his six-year addiction and gambling problem had been discovered. Jonathan is a former wealth manager to the stars who went to prison for his crimes. He is now sober and this is his story back to humility and redemption. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Mar 26, 2025 • 44min

308: How do I know if I should stop drinking?

Chip and Veronica discuss all the signs we ignore as we wrestle with the fact that alcohol may no longer be our friend. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Mar 19, 2025 • 40min

307: Why We Need to Forgive With Dr. Frederic Luskin and Lyndon Harris

Veronica is joined by two forgiveness experts who share the power of forgiving. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Mar 12, 2025 • 38min

306: Dealing with Rejection

Rejection stings. When we feel rejections it's often because of experiences in the past. Learning how to deal with rejection is how we get emotionally sober. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Mar 5, 2025 • 40min

305: Rediscovering Grace with Rev. Dr. Ben Gosden

Ben Gosden is a pastor and alcoholic. He was the 'cool' pastor, the one who went for a couple of beers. What people didn't see was all the secret drinking. He joins Veronica to discuss how the 12-steps reignited his faith. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Feb 26, 2025 • 44min

304: Surviving Divorce with Karen McMahon

Karen McMahon is a coach for people in high-conflict divorces. She talks through why divorce is an invitation to grow and change so you don't repeat the mistakes with the next person. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Feb 19, 2025 • 30min

303: Sobriety Is a Shift in Perception

Veronica shares why she thinks perception is essential to staying sober. That how we see the world is not necessarily how it is. We can't stay sober if we believe the best way to have fun is to drink. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Feb 12, 2025 • 42min

302: Losing Yourself with Sasha Tozzi

Sasha Tozzi joins Veronica to talk about how lost she was before getting sober at 26. How cocaine brought her to her knees and how she is navigating life as a sober woman and contemplating having a family. To learn more, visit the show n otes.
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Feb 5, 2025 • 38min

301: Why Friendships Matter More Than Anything With Dr. Kimberly Horn

Veronica has an in-depth conversation with Dr. Kimberly Horn on how friendships are essential to our wellbeing. They discuss how to navigate friendships, how to end friendships and how they can change in sobriety. To learn more, visit the show n otes.

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