

The Neurodiverging Podcast
Danielle Sullivan
How do we create a neurodiversity-affirming society where people with all kinds of brains don't just live, but thrive? Neurodiverging serves practical strategies to improve our lives by amplifying the voices of neurodivergent leaders and thinkers, centering social justice. We're all in this together.Hosted by Danielle Sullivan. Learn more at http://neurodiverging.com or http://patreon.com/neurodiverging.
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Oct 16, 2025 • 33min
Forming strong relationships with teachers in preschool, K-12, college, or graduate school
Today we discuss strategies for neurodivergent individuals and their
families to foster positive and productive relationships with educators.
The episode covers practical tips on how to navigate school systems,
communicate effectively via email, and advocate for necessary
accommodations.
Hosts Dr. Anne Elrod Whitney and Danielle Sullivan also highlight
resources available through Neurodiverging and share personal
experiences to help listeners better understand how to support
neurodivergent students in educational settings.
Show notes and transcript: https://www.neurodiverging.com/neurodivergent-relationships-with-teacher/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 9, 2025 • 52min
Finding Refuge in Your Body with Jessica Graham
In this episode of the Neurodiverging Podcast, host Danielle Sullivan chats with Jessica Graham, a writer, meditation teacher, actor, and trauma-informed guide.
Jessica discusses their new book, Being (Sick) Enough, which delves into living with chronic illness, neurodivergence, and childhood trauma. Topics include the healing power of meditation, the intersection of trauma and neurodivergence, and embracing pleasure.
This conversation is a valuable resource for anyone navigating similar challenges or seeking to live authentically with neurodivergence and chronic illness.
Show notes and transcript: https://www.neurodiverging.com/finding-refuge-in-your-body-with-jessica-graham/
Buy Jessica’s books (affiliate links):
Being (Sick) Enough: Thoughts on Invisible Illness, Childhood Trauma, and Living Well When Surviving Is Hard
Amazon: https://amzn.to/3IXwdaG
Bookshop: https://bookshop.org/a/4824/9798889840008
Good Sex: Getting Off without Checking Out
Amazon: https://amzn.to/3VQiuFC
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Oct 2, 2025 • 25min
Making Food Easier 2: How to Feed Yourself As A Neurodivergent Adult
In this continuation of our conversation on food and meal planning, Danielle Sullivan and Anne Elrod Whitney explore flexible approaches to feeding yourself and your family without falling into perfectionism.
From theme nights and ingredient-based planning to freezer meals, “forage” dinners, and safe food lists, they share practical strategies for reducing overwhelm. Along the way, they talk about sharing responsibility for cooking, making meals enjoyable, and moving away from rigid food rules toward a more sustainable, compassionate approach to eating.
Show notes and transcript: https://www.neurodiverging.com/making-food-easier-how-to-feed-yourself/
Thank you to our Patrons for funding this podcast. Find out more and pledge today at patreon.com/neurodiverging
Get ad-free podcast downloads and access to our Neurodivergent Parent
Affinity Group for as little as $3 a month when you join our Patreon:
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Learn more about Dr. Anne Elrod Whitney's books and services at
https://anneelrodwhitney.com
Learn how to create visual schedules in our Get It Out of Your Head:
Visual Supports for Adults Course: https://neurodiverging.thrivecart.com/visual-supports-for-adults/
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You can find our energy and capacity tracking workbook here: Energy & Capacity Reflection Guide: https://neurodiverging.thrivecart.com/energy-reflection-guide/
We’d love to hear from you! Share a question, comment, or situation
you’d like support with, and we may feature it on our podcast. Leave a
voice note: https://www.neurodiverging.com/leave-a-voice-note/
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Neurodiverging Coaching is an online, sliding scale coaching practice
owned by autistic neurodiversity coach Danielle Sullivan. Learn more at
Neurodiverging.com, or join us on Patreon for even more goodies!
http://patreon.com/neurodiverging
Our organization’s larger mission is to help neurodivergent folks find the resources we need to live better lives as individuals, and to further disability awareness and social justice efforts to improve all of our lives as part of the larger world community. We support strength-based, evidence-based assessment and skill-building, social and disability justice paradigms, and a commitment to taking care of one another. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 25, 2025 • 29min
Making food easier: Meal planning, feeding a group, feeding yourself, and supporting neurodivergent eaters
In this part 1 of 2, Danielle and Anne delve into the complexities of food and meal planning for neurodivergent individuals and their families. We discuss sensory issues, executive function challenges, and provide practical strategies for meal prep, planning, and dealing with picky eaters. We're here to offer a thoughtful discussion on how to make mealtime less stressful and more manageable for everyone involved.
Show notes, transcript and many links here: https://www.neurodiverging.com/making-food-easier-1/
Use our referral to Plan to Eat and get 20% off your first annual subscription payment: plantoeat.com/ref/neurodiverging
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Sep 18, 2025 • 42min
How to Talk About Sex and Puberty with Neurodivergent Kids with Amy Lang
How can parents talk openly and effectively about sexual and reproductive health with their neurodivergent children? In this episode, Danielle welcomes Amy Lang, a sex education expert who specializes in supporting neurodivergent families. Together, they explore how parents can approach conversations about consent, puberty, safety, and relationships in ways that are supportive, positive, and practical.
Show notes and transcript: neurodiverging.com/how-to-talk-about-sex-and-puberty-with-neurodivergent-kids
Amy Lang’s website: Birds + Bees + Kids: https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/
Follow Amy on Instagram: @birdsbeeskids
Free resource from Amy: Top Five Things Neurodivergent Kids Need to Know (and Top Five for Parents)
Want to learn more from Amy? This is the only resource of its kind! The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Get the tools to talk with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm.
Support the Podcast:
This podcast is made possible through the support of our patrons. By joining us on Patreon, you help provide low- and no-cost coaching for neurodivergent people worldwide, and you gain access to community groups, classes, and more. Learn more at www.patreon.com/neurodiverging Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 11, 2025 • 25min
Getting Up and Out the Door on Back-to-School Mornings and Work Mornings
Dive into the inaugural episode of the Neurodiverging Community Q & A on the Neurodivergent Podcast with Danielle Sullivan and Dr. Anne Elrod Whitney! In this one, we address the challenges of morning routines for neurodivergent families during the back-to-school season. Discover practical tips, the importance of schedules, and how to adapt tasks to suit your family's needs. Plus, learn about possible IEP accommodations to ease the morning rush. Tune in for insightful advice and supportive conversation! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 4, 2025 • 35min
How to Find the Right Career with Shell Mendelson
Finding the right career is a challenge for most neurodivergent people. Today, we're talking to Shell Mendelson, ADHD Career Coach, about how ADHDers can find the right career, when to take the big step to transition to something new, and how to avoid burnout.
Thank you to our Patrons for funding this podcast. Find out more and pledge today at patreon.com/neurodiverging.
Shownotes and transcript: https://www.neurodiverging.com/how-to-find-the-right-career/
Below are affiliate links:
Read Shell's book, Unlock Your Career Path: A Course for Neurodivergent Adults and Teens: https://a93f86-3.myshopify.com/products/fillable-pdf?variant=49755927839036&ta_aff=KVIWCIVNIC
Join Shell's membership: https://a93f86-3.myshopify.com/products/unlock-your-career-galaxy-membership?variant=51990936224060&ta_aff=KVIWCIVNIC
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Jul 20, 2025 • 30min
Grieving & Rebuilding: Recreating Authentic Human Spaces for Neurodivergent Folks
In this episode, I reflect on the recent losses of a close friend, a
beloved pet, and an estranged parent, and what each experience revealed
about grief, boundaries, and belonging. Through these stories, we
explore how values-aligned community offers support where traditional
family sometimes cannot. This is a tender invitation to consider how we
build connection, and why it’s worth it.
Connect in Community is a 10-day virtual community experience for
neurodivergent adults who want more friendship, less burnout, and a
gentle way to practice connection. We run from July 23rd-August 1st.
Learn more and register: www.neurodiverging.com/community
Show notes and transcript: https://www.neurodiverging.com/creating-neurodivergent-affirming-community/
We’d love to hear from you! Share a question, comment, or situation
you’d like support with, and we may feature it on our podcast:
https://www.neurodiverging.com/leave-a-voice-note/
________________________
Neurodiverging Coaching is an online, sliding scale coaching practice
owned by autistic neurodiversity coach Danielle Sullivan. Learn more at
www.neurodiverging.com, or join us on Patreon for even more goodies!
http://patreon.com/neurodiverging
Our organization’s larger mission is to help neurodivergent folks find
the resources we need to live better lives as individuals, and to
further disability awareness and social justice efforts to improve all
of our lives as part of the larger world community. We support
strength-based, evidence-based assessment and skill-building, social and
disability justice paradigms, and a commitment to taking care of one
another.
Mailing Address:
Danielle Sullivan
603 S Public Rd, #63
Lafayette, CO 80026-9998 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 snips
May 22, 2025 • 55min
Healing from Trauma as a Late-Diagnosed Autistic Woman with Dr. Anne Elrod Whitney
Dr. Anne Elrod Whitney, a dedicated writing educator and professor at Pennsylvania State University, discusses her journey as a late-diagnosed autistic woman healing from childhood trauma. She opens up about the struggles of navigating trauma and the complexities of childhood sexual abuse. Through her advocacy and personal reflections, Anne highlights the importance of community support, safe environments, and understanding neurodivergence. Listeners are empowered with insights and resources to aid their own healing journeys.

Apr 24, 2025 • 15min
How to Make Friends as an Autistic Adult
Difficulty making friends as an adult is not an experience unique to neurodivergent people. However, when you add our unique worldview and our diverse ways of processing, along with our recovery needs, it can feel (and sometimes even be) almost impossible. Let’s break down some of the challenges and the experiments we can try to find a practice that might be more supportive for us.Show notes and transcript: https://www.neurodiverging.com/making-friends-as-an-autistic-adult/Join the Patreon: www.patreon.com/neurodivergingLearn more about coaching: www.neurodiverging.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices