
The Self-Confidence Project
The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love. She shares an honest perspective to bring you the truth you need to hear - even if it's not pretty. If you're looking for relatable content and inspiring advice on how to transform your relationship and dating experience, tune into The SC Project.
Latest episodes

May 29, 2025 • 18min
Ep#331 - Modern Male Dating Mistake: When Stoicism Becomes Self-Sabotage
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly explores the impact of stoicism in modern dating. Learn why your understanding or application of stoicism might be sabotaging your chances of deeply connecting with women and forming the relationships you desire. Kimberly delves into how misinterpreting stoicism as emotional suppression can lead to women perceiving you as emotionally unavailable. Discover how to balance stoic composure with emotional openness and create genuine connections without losing yourself. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.See you next week,<3 Kimberly

May 23, 2025 • 16min
Ep#330 - This Psychological Hack Keeps Women Hooked (Backed by Science)
Discover how unfinished tasks can make lasting impressions in dating. The discussion reveals the psychological principle behind this effect and how it can create curiosity. Explore practical strategies to evoke intrigue and enhance connections with women. Plus, gain insights on unspoken communication and its impact on perceptions. There's also valuable advice for men navigating dating after divorce, ensuring they rebuild their confidence and attract the right partners.

May 15, 2025 • 51min
Ep#229 - How to Build Lasting Connection and Pleasure with Women—Insights from a Somatic Sex Expert
In this engaging discussion, renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor, who has 25 years of experience in enhancing intimacy, shares her journey from a difficult marriage to a fulfilling career. She reveals key insights on overcoming emotional disconnection and the significance of self-responsibility in pleasure. Learn about the Pleasure Keys process and the dynamics of female desire versus male arousal. Susan offers practical tips for enhancing communication and intimacy, encouraging a mindful approach to pleasure and deeper connections.

May 8, 2025 • 25min
Ep#228 - Dating After Divorce in Your 50s, 60s and 70s (Real Talk For Men Who Want Love)
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, Kimberly delves into the real challenges men face when dating after a divorce, especially those in their 50's, 60's, 70's. Kimberly outlines common obstacles such as insecurities around age and attractiveness, the complexities of feeling attracted to younger women, and dealing with a shrinking social circle. She offers actionable steps on how to move forward with confidence by redefining one's value, clarifying relationship goals, and enhancing connecting skills. She emphasizes the importance of having a meaningful life outside of dating and provides strategies for men to build rewarding, deeply connected relationships. P.S. If you're a man navigating dating after divorce, don't go it alone. My free masterclass was made for you—learn how to rebuild confidence, attract the right women, and avoid common post-divorce mistakes. Watch it here.Ready for tailored support? Book your 1:1 dating strategy call with me here and let’s map out your next steps.And as always, subscribe, leave your comments, and join the conversation—this is a space for growth, insight, and connection.See you next week,<3 Kimberly

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May 1, 2025 • 17min
Ep#227 - She Stopped Wanting Sex? Here’s the Real Reason (and how to get it back!)
Dive into the dynamics of declining sexual intimacy in long-term relationships. Discover practical strategies to reignite passion without pressure or pretense. Learn how open communication and emotional support are key to rebuilding connections. Uncover the real reasons behind dwindling desire and explore actionable steps to foster intimacy effectively. Plus, get insights into enhancing communication with women through an informative masterclass. Join the conversation and take charge of your relationship health!

Apr 24, 2025 • 15min
Ep#226 - Modern Women Only See Men in 2 Ways - And Most Men Are in the Wrong Category
Welcome back! In today's episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm sharing why modern women often categorize men into two groups: those they respect and those they disrespect, resent and fear. I'll discuss key traits that earn women's respect versus common behaviors that garner disrespect (like indecisiveness and excessive agreeableness). I'll also share practical advice for men struggling in their dating lives, emphasizing the importance of self-leadership and emotional awareness for building healthy, lasting relationships. Tune in to learn how you can transform your dating life and become the kind of man that modern women respect.If you're dating after a divorce, or long-term relationship, watch my FREE MASTERCLASS here: https://dating.kimberlyninahill.com/home Links and Free Resources: Book Your Free Dating Strategy Call with Kimberly → https://calendly.com/d/g6n-fjw-3qw Dating Masterclass For Men → https://dating.kimberlyninahill.com/home Watch Content On Instagram → / kimberlyninahill #moderndating #datingafterdivorce #datingtips #datingtipsformen

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Apr 11, 2025 • 18min
Ep#225 - Why You’re Getting Ghosted — And What to Do Instead
Dive into the complexities of ghosting in modern dating. Discover what ghosting really means and why it often happens, especially from women's perspectives. Gain practical tips to navigate early signs of rejection and enhance your communication skills. Learn how to create emotional connections while maintaining a grounded approach to dating. Transform your experiences into engaging and meaningful interactions!

Apr 3, 2025 • 18min
Ep#224 - 5 Things Women Say That Actually Mean “I’m Not Into You”
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm breaking down five common phrases women use that subtly indicate a lack of romantic interest. By understanding the true meaning behind statements like 'I'm just really busy right now' or 'I'm not ready for a relationship,' you can avoid wasting your time and energy on women who aren't emotionally available or. interested. I'll provide actionable advice to help you interpret these soft rejections and move on to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Don't forget to check out the audio masterclass, '10 Must-Know Tips for Talking and Texting with Women,' which offers deeper insights into effective communication with women.p.s. don't forget to subscribe, leave your comments, and let’s create a positive forum to discuss your thoughts! See you next week!Book your dating strategy call with me today by clicking here or watch my free masterclass here.<3 Kimberly

Mar 27, 2025 • 17min
Ep#223 - What Do Women Really Want!? Alpha Male | High Value Man
In this episode of The Self-Confidence Project, I'm talking about the widespread and often misleading concept of being an 'alpha male' and what it means to be a 'high value man.' I am going to explain why these performative ideals are outdated and disconnected from what modern women actually want. The video delves into the true essence of high value, and I'll also highlight how feminism has reshaped gender dynamics and what men can do to navigate modern relationships successfully. This episode provides actionable advice for men looking to build meaningful, lasting connections with women.p.s. don't forget to subscribe, leave your comments, and let’s create a positive forum to discuss your thoughts! See you next week!Book your dating strategy call with me today by clicking here or watch my free masterclass here.<3 Kimberly

Mar 20, 2025 • 24min
Ep#222 - Why Some Women Chase Emotionally Unavailable Men (And How to Avoid Wasting Your Time)
Welcome back to another episode of the Self Confidence Project. Today, we're diving into why some women seem to chase emotionally unavailable men and what you can do to avoid getting caught in these situations. I'll be sharing a true client story about a man who dated a woman for four years while legally separated, only to be left immediately after finalizing his divorce. We'll explore the psychological reasons behind this behavior and I'll provide insights on how to recognize these patterns and ensure you're setting yourself up for a truly fulfilling relationship.p.s. don't forget to subscribe, leave your comments, and let’s create a positive forum to discuss your thoughts! See you next week!Book your dating strategy call with me today by clicking here or watch my free masterclass here.<3 Kimberly