

The Gentle Art of Crushing It!
The Gentle Art of Crushing It
Hello, and thank you for joining us today on "The Gentle Art of Crushing It!" podcast, where we focus on learning and sharing with our listeners all there is to know about how to create success in our lives. This show stands on the shoulders of Giants. Our mission is to empower and inspire our listeners to create the life of their dreams whilst having a blast in the process. Let's celebrate life together! Welcome to the show.
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Jul 12, 2023 • 39min
Jon Farling: Two Decades in Real Estate to Self-Storage Success
A man who has spent almost two decades in the real estate industry, cultivating experience and knowledge that few can rival. His name is Jon Farling, the esteemed owner of L4 Real Estate Investments.
Jon has an impressive and diverse background in real estate. From flipping houses to managing rental properties, even building speculative homes, he's done it all. However, his restless spirit drove him to seek a new challenge.
In 2019, he ventured into a niche area, one that has reinvigorated his passion for his work - the world of self-storage real estate. Since then, he's become the proud owner of several storage facilities, bringing both his expertise and enjoyment to this unique sector of the industry.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
02:10 - Jon’s Background
03:39 - Maven Success
04:47 - Self Storage Market and Getting Started
06:38 - First Deal
08:05 - Leaving Your W2
09:05 - Financing
10:13 - Management and Automation
11:31 - Scale
12:44 - Third Party Management
13:47 - Call Centers
14:25 - Finding Deals
15:31 - Value Add and Portable Units
20:24 - Current Market
23:49 - Mastermind
24:02 - Appraisals
26:30 - Investor Lifestyle
29:11 - Jon Recommends
34:47 - Strategy and Goals
37:36 - Connect With Jon
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:https://www.l4investing.com/
facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jonathon.farling/
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with Sean Graham to discuss self-storage syndication investment opportunities at Maven Equities or to sell your self-storage facility without a broker.
https://www.mavenequities.com/
https://www.mavenstorage.com/
http://www.mavensuccess.com/
Linktr.ee/seangraham
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Jul 10, 2023 • 38min
Jaren Sustar Finance Cowboy
🤠 Husband, father, friend, ✝️🏡 $5M+ in RE while working a W2 & raising a family🎙️ Host of “The Finance Cowboy Show”
JD Sustar, a 31-year-old from Anderson, S.C., has transformed his financial situation from significant debt to becoming a millionaire. Through his dedication to real estate investment, JD has built a rental portfolio valued at just under $2 million.
While working full-time in medical device sales, JD seized the opportunity to embark on his real estate journey. His portfolio comprises 12 properties, one of which operates as a short-term rental. Some properties are co-owned with a business partner, contributing to his success. Collectively, JD generates over $11,000 in monthly gross rent, with his portion of the portfolio alone valued at approximately $1.7 million.
Through his determination and strategic investments, JD has achieved remarkable financial freedom, proving that with perseverance and an entrepreneurial spirit, substantial wealth can be attained through the real estate market.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
02:13 - Jaren’s Background
04:40 - everyreitool.com
05:33 - Why Real Estate
06:50 - Getting Started
08:54 - Other People’s Money and BRRRR Method
11:21 - Mindset and Creative Financing
15:06 - Goals
17:06 - Finding Balance and Investing and Keeping Your W2
19:08 - Favorite Success Story
21:31 - Overcoming Challenges
24:33 - Financial Success For The Next Generation
27:47 - Fast Track Success
29:05 - Key to Success and Belief in Yourself
32:28 - Jaren Recommends
34:17 - Connect with Jaren
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:https://www.instagram.com/financecowboy/https://linktr.ee/financecowboy
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST: Nathan Murithhttps://www.readyforrealestatechecklist.com
MENTIONED IN THE SHOW: Richest Man in Babylon by George S Clason https://amzn.to/42nWVNsPropstream https://everyreitool.com/go/propstream
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Jul 6, 2023 • 34min
Colby Fryar - Civil Engineer Turns Active Multifamily Investor
Colby Fryar is the principal of Mountain Bridge Capital. He started investing in real estate in 2013 and personally owns multiple properties in Tucson, AZ, Huntsville Al and Montgomery Al and a 12 unit multifamily property in Albuquerque, NM. He closed on his first syndication deal in October of 2021, a 123 unit portfolio deal in Las Cruces New Mexico and more recently assisted in closing a 297 unit Class A deal in Houston TX as a Co-General Partner on the deal. He has been focusing on multifamily property investing and syndication for the past 5 years. Colby’s background is in Civil Engineering Manager, where he has managed multiple $1M plus contracts and a division of maintenance staff. This has transitioned well into his ability to effectively manage contractors and property managers on all of Mountain Bridge Capital real estate projects. Colby’s passion is analyzing deals, making offers and fostering long-term relationships with multifamily brokers, property owners and other investors. Mr. Fryar’s team owns over 100 multifamily properties and has syndicated over 1000 multifamily doors. Mr. Fryar is the host of the Tucson Multifamily Meetup held the first Thursday of every month. Mountain Bridge Capital’s core values are integrity, transparency and an unparalleled commitment to excellence and investor satisfaction with the goal of returning greater than 15% of investor capital. Colby lives in Sahuarita, Arizona with his wife and three kids. He enjoys spending time with his family and hiking and hunting in the Santa Rita Mountains south of Tucson.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
01:28 - Colby’s Background
04:02 - Impact Equity
04:29 - Active Investing
08:06 - Mentorship
10:15 - Sponsors
12:40 - The Time Active Investing Takes
13:08 - Property Management
13:53 - Asset Management
16:52 - Property Management
18:53 - Changes for Tenants
22:30 - Seller Carry Note
24:37 - Market Trends
27:20 - Big Vs Small Operators
30:03 - Colby Recommends
31:32 - Mountain Bridge Capital
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
Email: colby@mountainbridgecapital.com
Website: https://mountainbridgecapital.com
Cell: 520 730 4086
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Jul 5, 2023 • 37min
Matt Amabile - Financial Freedom In 2.5 Years
Matt Amabile retired at 25 years old by investing in real estate. He went from sleeping on a couch to owning 22 doors within 2 years which throw off $7k/month passive. After quitting his corporate job in 2023, Matt traveled the world for 6 months, started a 5 day a week podcast, a mentorship and still focuses on growing his portfolio. Matt has gotten into the majority of his portfolio with no money out of pocket.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
02:25 - Matt’s Background
04:52 - Nourish and Sow
06:03 - Financial Freedom and Spirituality
08:47 - Financial Freedom Fast Podcast
09:22 - Getting Started and Reaching Financial Freedom
10:17 - Mindset
13:25 - Favorite Success Story
14:15 - First Property / Househack
14:49 - Lessons Learned, 203K Loan
18:39 - Overcoming Challenges
20:46 - Relationships
21:37 - Gratitude
25:11 - How to Fast Track Success
27:13 - Key To Success
29:13 - Matt Recommends
32:52 - Connect With Matt
33:33 - Matt’s Mentorship
35:03 - Discount Code for 25 percent off Matt’s Mentorship Program!
MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:
Matt’s Mentorship Program - Book a discovery call here https://koalendar.com/e/meet-with-matt-amabile-koadKYGB
Don’t forget to use code DOUG25 for 25% off!
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
Social Media Links
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/matt.amabile.5/
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mattamabile/?hl=en
Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4X3S1-7RrXW4w-r-4yqfHA
Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/financial-freedom-fast/id1660643599
Contact Information:
Amabilerealty@gmail.com
9087638816
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Doug is a Husband of one, Father of six, Real Estate Investor, who is passionate about growth and living life to the fullest! His main goal is to create the life of his dreams and live it on his own terms. He intends on helping as many people as possible to realize this worthy goal for themselves as well. Reach out to him anytime to connect for any reason and you never know he may just have the answer you are looking for! His passions range from his Family to being a Christian to Studying and Implementing Success Principles, Technology, Skateboarding, Music, and Martial Arts to name just a few.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/douglas-clark-a13a68191/
https://www.facebook.com/doug.clark.3785373
https://www.instagram.com/thedouglasbrianclark/
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Jul 3, 2023 • 34min
Dave Spooner - Partnering with Family
Dave Spooner is a co-founder of Innago, a property management software designed to simplify life for small to mid-sized landlords. He has been involved in the real estate technology space since 2013, working to enhance the way landlords and tenants communicate. In 2018, he purchased his first rental property. He utilizes his experience with entrepreneurship and management to help landlords achieve sustained success.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
02:27 - Dave’s Background
03:18 - everyreitool.com
06:50 - Getting Started
07:28 - FHA 203k Loan
10:46 - Partnering With Family
12:08 - Innago
14:34 - 1031 Exchange
21:33 - Favorite Success Story and Tips For Success
23:16 - Defining Success
24:45 - Balancing Family, Real Estate, and a 9 to 5
27:04 - Key To Success
28:08 - Advice For Taking Action
30:11 - Dave Recommends
32:10 - Connect With Dave
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
ig: https://www.instagram.com/innagosoftware/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dave-spooner-a9a54762
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Nathan Murith
https://www.readyforrealestatechecklist.com/start
MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:
What Every Real Estate Investor Needs to Know About Cash Flow by Frank Gallinelli https://amzn.to/3PdHepj
Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World by David Eptein https://amzn.to/3X6gMQm
innago https://everyreitool.com/go/innago
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Jun 29, 2023 • 39min
Julie Anne Peterson - Lending Lessons and Challenges as We Move into Mid 2023
Julie Peterson serves as a Senior Director for Old Capital. Ms. Peterson is responsible for raising both debt and equity capital for commercial real estate projects throughout the nation. With 30 years of real estate transaction experience, Julie Peterson does not just source funds; she consults with her clients to help solve their immediate needs. She works with all types of income producing real estate and at all levels of the “capital stack”. Ms. Peterson’s clients are real estate entrepreneurs who are dependent upon the many relationships they establish, and the relationship with their capital provider is no different. Transaction volume translates into knowledge. With knowledge comes certainty. Old Capital consistently ranks as one of the top producing financial intermediaries in the nation, so your transaction benefits from the experience gained only through closing a substantial number of complex assignments. Ms. Peterson allows you to leverage her knowledge into your business plan, along with providing a high degree of closing certainty. Her only objective is to secure the best possible financing solution at the lowest cost of capital.
Ms. Peterson is the ‘lender of choice’ to many new real estate entrepreneurs. She has the passion for your success!
Originally from the suburbs of Chicago, she and her family live in Carlsbad, California.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
01:37 - Julie’s Background
06:03 - Left Field Investors
06:33 - Old Capital
08:29 - Partnering With Your Lender
11:27 - Multifamily Market Today
19:04 - Financing Solutions
20:03 - Pref Equity
21:19 - Capital Call
25:58 - Cap Ex Budgets
30:46 - Advice For The New Investors
33:38 - Julie Recommends
36:02 - Connect With Julie
37:20 - Bucket List and Final Thoughts
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
EVERY Tuesday for ZOOM@8pm EST. - https://dancinginvestments.com/zoomat8
https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-anne-peterson-51a6603/
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Jun 28, 2023 • 1h 10min
Bill Faeth - Mastering the Art of Short-Term Rentals (and life)
After leaving UCLA, Bill pursued a career playing professional golf internationally before venturing into entrepreneurship. He successfully established a multi-million dollar glow-in-the-dark golf business, restaurants, real estate development, and as an investor. However, Bill’s interest in real estate investing was piqued when he visited Gulf Shores, AL, to search for a family beach house, prompting a shift in his investment focus from LTR to STR.
He started in 2015 with the purchase of his first STR in Gulf Shores for $629,000 and quickly increased rental income by 93% in year one while self-hosting for the first time and implementing off-platform marketing strategies from running over $15M in digital ads.
After this success, Bill quickly started growing his STR portfolio and has accumulated luxury single-family homes in five states, generating over $2.5M in annual revenue. He is a founding partner in Rivan Capital Group, a Cohost of 13 luxury properties, and operates four additional businesses.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
03:59 - Bill’s Background
04:37 - Short Term Rentals in Today’s Market
16:15 - Life Plans and Time Audits
24:11 - Building a Specific Plan
31:25 - Overcoming Challenges, Bill’s Biggest Mistake & The Lessons Learned
36:12 - Short Term Rentals
41:29 - Investing in Education
58:49 - FInancial Literacy
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
Build Short-Term Rental Wealth Website: https://buildstrwealth.com/ The Free Build STR Wealth Facebook Group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/284886002732508
Build Short Term Rental WealthYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnheh3vx0hT5Y7uHWhBs8kA
Listen to the STRUnfiltered & STRonomics podcast every week:
STR Unfiltered STRonomics.com
Or wherever you get your podcasts! MarketMySTR: https://marketmystr.com/ Instagram: @BillFaeth73
Tik Tok: @bfaeth
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Derek is a real estate investor with over 30 years in the hospitality industry. He and his wife own both long term and short term rentals and offer management and consulting services to other short term rental property owners.
Please reach out to connect with Derek at https://www.linkedin.com/in/derekfelch or email him at derek.felch@gmail.com.
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Jun 26, 2023 • 29min
Taylor Adams - Real Estate Investing by Accident
Taylor Adams is a real estate investor and finance content creator based just outside of Boston, Massachusetts. Taylor started investing in real estate in 2018, almost by accident, and became hooked on the financial freedom it allowed! Since then she has left her W2 job, bought and sold 7 investment properties across the US, built an investment portfolio of $3M, and with her experience, coached other aspiring real estate investors.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
02:22 - Taylor’s Background
03:28 - Accidental Househack
04:38 - Long Distance Investing
05:57 - Tennessee Market
07:01 - Selling Long Term Rentals Portfolio for Short Term Rentals
09:28 - Mindset
12:55 - Goal Setting and Success
14:11 - Favorite Success Story
15:11 - Definition of Success
16:04 - Overcoming Challenges
18:00 - Farmhouse Renovation
21:24 - Shifting Mindset
24:50 - Taylor Recommends
26:24 - Connect With Taylor
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
IG:www.instagram.com/taylorcolemanadams
TikTok:www.tiktok.com/@taylorcolemanadams
Website: www.taylorcolemanadams.com
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Nathan Murithhttp://nathanmurith.com
https://www.readyforrealestatechecklist.com
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett
Rich As F*ck by Amanda Frances
Hospitable
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Jun 22, 2023 • 41min
David Frasz - Multifamily Loans Explained
David Frasz is a Director and commercial loan originator for a top nationwide CRE lender. He is responsible for relationship management and originating commercial loans across all asset types with a specialty in direct originations of multifamily financing including Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac, FHA/HUD, and bridge loans. David is acutely focused on building strong relationships with clients and helping them achieve their investment goals with a white-glove financing experience.
With nearly a decade of experience in multifamily finance, David has built a reputation for client service and for his track record which demonstrates his ability to close even the most difficult loan transactions, even those that competitors and counterparts deemed impossible.
David’s skills were sharpened in is early career role as an underwriter where he underwrote more than $1 billion in closed loans and oversaw the underwriting of more than $9 billion in transaction screening volume. Prior to real estate, David held various positions at State Street and J.P. Morgan after he graduated magna cum laude with a B.A. in Managerial Economics from Union College in Schenectady, NY.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
01:34 - David’s Background
03:28 - Left Field Investors
03:58 - Understanding Lending
06:50 - Bridge Debt
08:19 - Fixed Rate
10:01 - Rate Caps
18:14 - Fixed Rate Long Term
19:40 - Prepayment Penalty Structure
20:40 - Yield Maintenance and Defeasance
23:20 - Questions To Ask
26:07 - Key Principal
28:37 - General Partners
31:18 - Advice for Passive Investors, Don’t Blindly Invest
35:16 - David Recommends
38:27 - Bucket List
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
David Frasz | Director
Office: (703) 663-5886 | Cell: (857) 236-3000
888 17th Street NW, Suite 300 | Washington, DC | 20006
LUMENT.COM | David.Frasz@Lument.com
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Jun 21, 2023 • 36min
Energy as the Currency to Achieve Massive Productivity with Karen Briscoe
Karen Briscoe is a highly sought after life and productivity coach. She is a mega real estate agent, investor, the creator of the transformative "5 Minute Success" concept, the author of 4 books and host of the 5 Minute Success podcast, a Heroine and Entrepreneur. "Real Estate Success in 5 Minutes a Day: Secrets of a Top Agent Revealed" was featured in INMAN as “must read for your best year in real estate” and the book ranks on Amazon in the top 1% in its category. The 5 Minute Success podcast has ranked #1 on Overcast most recommended in the business category. The show has over 400 episodes of an amazing array of guests who achieve success at a high level. Karen also is a frequent guest on other podcasts that focus on entrepreneurial, success and motivation, as well as real estate related topics.
She is the principal owner of the Huckaby Briscoe Conroy Group (HBC) with Keller Williams. The HBC Group has been recognized by the Wall Street Journal as one of the 250 Top Realtor® teams in the United States. Since 1977, HBC Group has sold over 2,000 homes valued at over $1.75 billion. Primary market areas include Northern Virginia, suburban Maryland, and Washington, DC.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THIS EPISODE:
00:00 - Intro
01:23 - Karen’s Background
06:32 - Getting Back Into The Workforce
09:48 - Overcoming Challenges
14:43 - Accidental Investor
18:01 - Interest Rates and Mindset
20:07 - Finding Your Purpose
24:17 - 5 Minute Success
28:38 - Energy Not Time
32:40 - What’s Next
34:24 - Connect With Karen
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
5 Minute Success website: www.5MinuteSuccess.com
5 Minute Success Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/5minutesuccess/
5 Minute Success Facebook Page: @5MinuteSuccess
5 Minute Success Twitter: @5MinuteSuccess
5 Minute Success Instagram: 5_Minute_Success; Karen.Briscoe; 80x80_Movement
5 Minute Success LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/5-minute-press/?viewAsMember=true
YouTube: KarenBriscoehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHhcRljOELROCwKKmIsEttQ
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Marta is a mom of two boys, healthcare strategist by day, and real estate investor by night.
Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marta-cieslak-suarez-317a5611/
Follow on IG: @martacieslaksuarez
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