

The Gentle Art of Crushing It!
The Gentle Art of Crushing It
Hello, and thank you for joining us today on "The Gentle Art of Crushing It!" podcast, where we focus on learning and sharing with our listeners all there is to know about how to create success in our lives. This show stands on the shoulders of Giants. Our mission is to empower and inspire our listeners to create the life of their dreams whilst having a blast in the process. Let's celebrate life together! Welcome to the show.
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Nov 2, 2023 • 39min
EP 139: Hicham Hajhamou - Experience from 25 years on Wall Street
Hicham Hajhamou is the former head of OTC Rates and FX Trading at quantitative hedge fund AQR Capital Management. Hicham has 25 years’ experience in financial markets, managing teams in a fast paced environment. He started his career at Lehman Brothers and held several senior trading positions at other Investment Banks.
He is a global macro, inflation and market structure specialist.
Mr. Hajhamou has a long history investing in Capital Markets, Private Placements, Crypto, Real Estate and Alternative assets. He has participated and helped raise money over the years for various real assets syndications (STR, Multifamily, Storage, Mobile Homes, Hospitality, CRE, Oil&Gas, Small businesses...) getting his investor group the best terms after thorough due diligence. Through Wealth Flow Partners, Hicham motivates people to become their own financial athletes. He helps them set up the proper legal and tax structure and understand the many choices they have to manage their savings and grow their wealth. They work together to set big financial goals and work through their biases to strengthen their financial mindset.
Hicham holds a masters in Applied Mathematics from Columbia University and a Masters in Financial Markets, Commodity Markets and Risk Management from The University of Paris Dauphine.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
01:48 - Hicham’s Background
03:12 - Impact Equity Ad
03:40 - Alternative Investments
10:21 - Due Diligence
14:19 - Debt Funds
18:03 - Leaving Your W2
22:06 - Current Market
33:32 - Final Thoughts
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
http://hworldsglobalmacro.blogspot.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/hicham-hajhamou/
hhh@wealthflowpartners.com
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor

Nov 1, 2023 • 32min
EP 138: Rob Torsell - Why a Coach is a Valuable Asset For Your Team
My name is Rob Torsell. I am a Medical Device Sales Rep and Peak Performance Coach and owner of Peak Momentum Coaching. I have had a very successful career thus far in sales. I always had a passion for helping others maximize their potential. Having my own coaches that helped accelerate my success, that sparked my interest in becoming a coach myself. Now I help other people maximize their potential in their life and their business. When I am not spending my time doing that, I enjoy the outdoors, hunting and fishing.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
01:08 - Rob’s Background
06:14 - Define Success
09:55 - Coaching
18:01 - Overcoming Fear
24:24 - Creating Success
29:42 - Connect With Rob
30:30 - Final Thoughts
31:27 - Impact Equity Ad
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
peakmomentumcoaching@gmail.com
https://www.facebook.com/robbie.torsell
https://www.instagram.com/rtors15/
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Doug is a husband of one, father of six, real estate investor, who is passionate about growth and living life to the fullest! His main goal is to create the life of his dreams and live it on his own terms. He intends on helping as many people as possible to realize this worthy goal for themselves as well. Reach out to him anytime to connect for any reason and you never know he may just have the answer you are looking for! His passions range from his family to being a Christian to studying and implementing success principles, technology, skateboarding, music, and martial arts to name just a few.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/douglas-clark-a13a68191/
https://www.facebook.com/doug.clark.3785373
https://www.instagram.com/thedouglasbrianclark/

Oct 30, 2023 • 12min
Why Success Mindset Is A Necessary Part Of Dream Building
Our host Doug Clark does a deep dive into how a scarcity mindset holds you back, constricts your flow, and is the death of your dreams. However, the exact opposite is true of an abundance mindset; this is why it is so important.
#mindsetmatters #successmindset #successpodcast #financialfreedom

Oct 26, 2023 • 48min
EP 137: Jamie Gruber - Quit job and moved abroad after 21 years in Corporate America
Jamie Gruber is a multifamily investor with a portfolio of 62 apartment units owned and under contract. He has been investing in real estate for over a decade with a proven track record of success. Jamie previously worked as an executive with a top three national insurance company executing on strategic objectives and setting the agenda for a large organization.
Jamie is joining the Quantum team thanks to his long track record as an investor, leader and personal branding. He is recognized as one of the top branding experts in the Multifamily investment community.
He is married to Silvia and they have two boys - Sebastian and Julian. They currently reside in Michigan.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
01:35 - Jamie’s Background
03:27 - Impact Equity Ad
04:45 - Pursuing Goals
12:35 - Investing In Real Estate
19:25 - Bringing Value
29:15 - Passive Income With Multifamily
39:14 - Advice For The New Investor
44:35 - Emerge
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/thejamiegruber/
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Oct 23, 2023 • 42min
EP 136: Douglas Clark & Derek Felch - Q&A About Real Estate Investment
EP 136: Douglas Clark & Derek Felch - Q&A About Real Estate Investment
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
00:59 - Fear of Failure
07:40 - Networking
09:47 - Future Self
15:29 - House Flipping
21:07 - Key Habits
27:07 - BRRRR Method
32:08 - Final Thoughts
CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS:
Doug is a husband of one, father of six, real estate investor, who is passionate about growth and living life to the fullest! His main goal is to create the life of his dreams and live it on his own terms. He intends on helping as many people as possible to realize this worthy goal for themselves as well. Reach out to him anytime to connect for any reason and you never know he may just have the answer you are looking for! His passions range from his family to being a Christian to studying and implementing success principles, technology, skateboarding, music, and martial arts to name just a few.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/douglas-clark-a13a68191/
https://www.facebook.com/doug.clark.3785373
https://www.instagram.com/thedouglasbrianclark/
Derek is a real estate investor with over 30 years in the hospitality industry. He and his wife own both long term and short term rentals and offer management and consulting services to other short term rental property owners.
Please reach out to connect with Derek at https://www.linkedin.com/in/derekfelch or email him at derek.felch@gmail.com.
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Oct 19, 2023 • 43min
EP 135: Gary Lipsky - Best In Class Multifamily Asset Management
Gary Lipsky is a 20+ year real estate entrepreneur focused on his award winning multifamily syndication business, and has acquired 3000+ apartment units valued at over $250MM.
Gary is the host of the Real Estate Investor Podcast, where he interviews industry experts to provide broad range education to investors. He is also the best-selling author of Best in Class, founder of the Asset Management Summit, and a guest speaker featured at many prominent conferences.
With over 30 years of operational expertise as a successful entrepreneur, Gary has built several companies including arc, an after school program with 700 employees and 9000 students, co-produced 3 independent films and started CORE, a non-profit organization for underprivileged children. His vast experience serves as a great foundation for his business as a multifamily operator.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
01:37 - Gary’s Background
02:20 - Impact Equity Ad
07:45 - Asset Management
10:47 - Property Management
11:13 - Asset Management
13:10 - First Purchase
15:24 - Underwriting
17:59 - Fund Structure
20:38 - Good Capital Call
22:00 - Current Market
24:13 - Debt
26:20 - Underwriting
28:14 - Value Add
29:42 - Arizona Market
31:58 - How Would You Start Investing Now?
35:00 - Book and Podcast Recommendations
36:31 - Bucket List
38:00 - BODC Multifamily Impact Fund
41:00 - Break Of Day Capital
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:
https://breakofdaycapital.com/
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Oct 18, 2023 • 38min
EP 134: Money Talks: Candid Conversations on Personal Finance
EP 134: Money Talks: Candid Conversations on Personal Finance
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
02:16 - Personal Finance
05:51 - Derek’s Background
07:50 - Budgets
17:00 - Communication
17:53 - Zero Based Budget
19:04 - Priority Based Budget
20:40 - Personal Debt
23:02 - Savings
23:33 - Life Insurance
23:57 - Will
24:52 - Modeling Mondey Sense
27:30 - Real Estate
31:56 - Tax Strategy
33:30 - Mindset
MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:
Financial Peace University https://a.co/d/6Q2Iz6Z
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Derek is a real estate investor with over 30 years in the hospitality industry. He and his wife own both long term and short term rentals and offer management and consulting services to other short term rental property owners.
Please reach out to connect with Derek at https://www.linkedin.com/in/derekfelch or email him at derek.felch@gmail.com.
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Oct 12, 2023 • 42min
EP 133: Daniel Lichtman - Vetting Underwriting Assumptions on Multifamily Deals
Daniel serves as Lightwater’s Director of Acquisitions. With his persistence and perseverance he has sourced and closed numerous multi family transactions. When he isn’t busy looking for his next deal, he is spending time with his rambunctious children. Daniel has a passion for multi family real estate, travel and life.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
01:30 - Daniel’s Background
07:11 - Impact Equity Ad
09:24 - Underwriting
15:08 - Cap Rates
17:45 - Rent Increases and Comps
23:12 - Asset management
31:54 - Multifamily Investing
35:37 - Final Thoughts
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-lichtman/
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Oct 5, 2023 • 48min
EP 132: Matthew Thrasher - An SEC Attorney's Perspective
Matt represents entrepreneurs, financial institutions, real estate developers, and other companies and individuals. He handles an array of corporate, finance, real estate, and general business matters. Matt earned a Bachelor of Arts from Occidental College and graduated from Vanderbilt University Law School. He is licensed to practice in Arizona and Texas.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
01:28 - Matthew’s Background
02:47 - Impact Equity LLC Ad
04:05 - Public vs Private Placements
06:55 - Exemptions
10:37 - 506B Offerings
16:01 - Private Placement Memorandum
23:01 - Fees
26:04 - Attorney Review
28:26 - Investor Protections
32:11 - Current Market
36:24 - Member Loan
38:20 - Capital Call
40:39 - Education Resources
42:57 - Bucket List
44:00 - Where To Invest 100k
46:24- Connect With Matthew
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:https://thrasherpllc.com/
matt@thrasherpllc.com
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with our host, Randy Smith, for more educational content or to discuss investment opportunities in the real estate syndication space at www.impactequity.net, https://www.linkedin.com/in/randallsmith or on Instagram at @randysmithinvestor
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Oct 4, 2023 • 1h 7min
EP 131: Self-Storage Made Easy: Building with Virtual Teams
Jordan Kapper, MD (‘Kapper’ by his friends) is an ER doctor, real-estate investor, self-storage operator and co-founder of Investing Storage. Founded by two ER doctors, Ben and Jordan, Investing Storage, focuses on value-add self storage opportunities as well as providing investment opportunities for physician investors. Jordan lives in Center Valley, PA along with his wife, Rebecca, who manages their residential properties full-time as well as providing digital marketing services for their self storage facilities. Transitioning from full time physician to full-time in real estate, ‘Kapper’ also advises several physician founded startup companies and is passionate about art, digital marketing, cryptocurrency, sales and operations.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE SHOW:
00:00 - Intro
03:36 - Jordan’s Background
06:20 - Self Storage, Ground Up Developments
10:14 - Hiring Remote
14:55 - Management Process
19:29 - Different Virtual Roles
21:37 - Call Center
24:13 - Pool Hall Marketing
24:53 - Tertiary Strategies
26:05 - Current Self Storage Market
26:28 - Call Center Specifics
30:23 - Onboarding and Training
34:12 - Optimize Your Time
45:39 - Maven Success
49:13 - Vetting Process
52:02 - Why Not Use UpWork Or Fiverr
1:04:31- Connect With Jordan
CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:Investing Storage: https://www.investingstorage.com/
Kapper Properties: https://www.kapperproperties.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordan-kapper-md-903b1946/
Tribevest founders club: https://app.tribevest.com/vip?grsf=kdvyfs Email jordan@investingstorage.com
Simple self-storage social media marketing Rebecca@kapperproperties.com
Investing Storage social media Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/investingstorage/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/investing-storage/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/investingstor
CONNECT WITH OUR HOST:
Connect with Sean Graham to discuss self storage syndication investment opportunities at Maven Equities or to sell your self storage facility without a broker. www.mavenequities.com
www.mavenstorage.com
linktr.ee/seangraham
IF YOU NEED A VIRTUAL ASSISTANT visit
mavensuccess.com
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