

Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes
You’re tired.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Episodes
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Aug 12, 2024 • 1h 9min
Discipline and the Restoration of Joy in the Family with Douglas Wilson| 416
In this discussion, Pastor Douglas Wilson, a noted authority on family and education, tackles child-rearing and the importance of discipline. He argues for a holistic approach to parenting, emphasizing the need for parents to model joyful behavior and address children's emotions. Wilson also highlights the significance of 'keeping short accounts' in family dynamics and fostering a loving home environment. Additionally, he advocates for alternative education paths, like homeschooling, to align with family values while nurturing spiritual growth.

Aug 5, 2024 • 1h 12min
Jordan Feliz on Boundaries, Identity and Fatherhood| 415
Jordan Feliz, a gifted musician and devoted father, shares his journey in navigating the complexities of fatherhood and work. He discusses the challenge of saying no amid family and career demands. The conversation delves into the importance of prioritization and compartmentalization in daily life. Jordan emphasizes creating meaningful family connections through simple interactions and the role of faith and prayer in nurturing strong familial bonds. Dive into his insights on balancing personal identity while embracing the joys and struggles of modern parenting.

Jul 29, 2024 • 36min
How To Teach Your Kids About Heaven with Jordan Raynor| 414
Jordan Raynor, an expert on the intersection of work and faith, shares insights on teaching kids about heaven. He redefines misconceptions, explaining that heaven isn't boring, but a vibrant new earth filled with meaningful work. He dives into intriguing topics like the potential for animals in heaven and how relationships, including marriage, might evolve. Jordan encourages a hopeful, biblical perspective on eternity, emphasizing the importance of engaging kids with these profound truths.

Jul 22, 2024 • 59min
The Impact of AI on Parenting with Steel Billings|413
Join Jerrad in a lively chat with Steele Billings, an AI expert. They delve into the evolution of AI, ethical concerns, governance, and the potential impact on emotions and relationships. The convo explores using AI for human flourishing, understanding its role in God's plan, and equipping kids for the future.

Jul 15, 2024 • 46min
Stephen Mc Whirter on Addiction, Grace and Redemption| 412
Worship leader Stephen McWhirter shares his journey from trauma and addiction to redemption and faith. He discusses repentance, God's grace, and the challenges and joys of fatherhood. Stephen and Jerrad talk about church leadership, humility, longing for Jesus' return, free will vs. God's choice, and the dangers of pornography.

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Jul 8, 2024 • 47min
Sex and Intimacy in Marriage with Dr.Juli Slattery| 411
Dr. Julie Slattery, a clinical psychologist, talks about sex and intimacy from a biblical perspective. She emphasizes the pillars of healthy sexuality in marriage and the importance of understanding neurochemical differences. Topics include addressing pornography, vulnerability, and communication for deep connection and fulfillment in relationships.

Jul 1, 2024 • 56min
Men of Integrity, Obedience and Leadership with Shane Winnings| 410
Experienced Promise Keepers share journeys to fatherhood and talk about the power of the Holy Spirit. They discuss obedience in the Christian life, faithfulness in small things, and balancing strength with tenderness as men of God. Stories of prayer, miraculous healings, and stepping out in faith are highlighted, encouraging listeners to follow God's leading.

Jun 24, 2024 • 55min
How to Honor Your Parents & In-Laws with Jeremy Pryor| 409
Jeremy Pryor joins Jerrad to talk about one of the most confusing parts of modern family life — how to relate to parents and in-laws as adults. They discuss what it means to show honor, how to draw healthy boundaries, and why God designed families to be multi-generational. Jeremy also shares the result of restoring family culture and what it means to raise children in a household, not a nest. What You’ll hear: • What Scripture says about honoring your parents • Why modern families feel disconnected across generations • How to deal with in-laws in a healthy and godly way • What “parenting” misses that fathering and mothering include • How your kids learn to honor you by watching you honor your parents • What changes when you stop seeing family as individual unitsTune in to rethink your role as a son, son-in-law, and spiritual leader. Episode Resources:Jeremy Pryor’s site and teaching: familyteams.comBook: Family Revision by Jeremy PryorPodcast: Five Minute Fatherhood (with Jeff Bethke)Ministry: 1K Households (1KH)YouTube: Family Teams ChannelInstagram: @jeremympryorCSB Men’s Daily Bible (50% off): lifeway.com — Code: MDB50Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GBInvite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.comSupport Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate

Jun 17, 2024 • 58min
Sam Jolman on Shame, Pornography, and Emotional Healing| 408
Expert in men's emotions Sam Jolman and Jerrad Lopes discuss shame, coping mechanisms like pornography, healthy outlets for stress, importance of vulnerability, and the impact of shame on behavior. They address healthy sexuality as a disciple of Jesus, having open conversations about sex and relationships with boys, and therapy leading to repentance and reliance on Jesus for healing.

Jun 10, 2024 • 22min
Who Is Leading Your Life? How to Recognize False Masters with Kaleb Allen |407
Join Pastor Kaleb Allen as he encourages dads to rebel against the life of productivity and find identity and rest as sons of God. Topics include exploring the necessity of rest and Sabbath, escaping the productivity trap by embracing unconditional love, and balancing work and family life through embracing rest and Sabbath for healthy parenting.


