

Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes
You’re tired.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Not just physically; though yeah, that too.
You’re tired in your bones. In your soul.
Trying to be a steady husband, an intentional dad, a man of God… but deep down, you feel like you’re falling short. Like you’re carrying more than you know how to hold.
Dad Tired is a podcast for men who are ready to stop pretending and start healing.
Not with self-help tips or religious platitudes, but by anchoring their lives in something (and Someone) stronger.
Hosted by Jerrad Lopes, a husband, dad of four, and fellow struggler, this show is a weekly invitation to find rest for your soul, clarity for your calling, and the courage to lead your family well.
Through honest stories, biblical truth, and deep conversations you’ll be reminded:
You’re not alone. You’re not too far gone. And the man you want to be is only found in Jesus.
This isn’t about trying harder.
It’s about coming home.
Episodes
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Jun 22, 2020 • 39min
A Widower's Perspective (with Brandon Janous)
In March 2020, Dad Tired community member Brandon Janous lost his wife to cancer after a two year battle. She was 38 and a mother 3. Today's episode will no doubt shift your perspective and priorities as you hear Brandon share with Jerrad what he has learned as a new widower, and what he wishes he would have done differently.

Jun 15, 2020 • 28min
Don't Be An Absent Dad
Is it possible to be an absent father, even when you're present? Many adults talk about how even felt like their father wasn't present, even though he was physically around. In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses what it looks like to be Christian dads who are present while being present.

Jun 8, 2020 • 27min
Leading Your Family During Major World Events
What does it look like for a Christian dad to be the spiritual leader of his home during major world events? How does he continue to point his family to Jesus when the world seems a little chaotic. Is there opportunity to grow closer to God, and help your family do the same during trying times? In this week's episode, host Jerrad Lopes will discuss what it looks like to be a dad who loves and leads his family well during major world events.

Jun 1, 2020 • 46min
Why Great Leaders Have A Morning Routine (with Daniel Harkavy)
One of the biggest fears that we should have as Christian fathers is that we succeed at everything in life, but fail to love and lead our family well. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by CEO Daniel Harkavy to discuss where the best leaders put their time and energy. The pair spend a good chunk of their time discussing specifically how important a morning routine is, what it looks like, and how that directly impacts you as the leader of your home.

May 25, 2020 • 57min
3 Steps To Real Change (with Dr. Joe Martin)
Maybe you feel stuck in your old habits, and don't know how to change. Or maybe you've experience serious emotional trauma and you've never had the courage to face it. In today's powerful interview, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dr. Joe Martin, who shares vulnerably about his past of sexual abuse, adultery, and divorce. Dr. Martin unpacks how someone who has experienced deep emotional hurt, and has made mistakes bigger than they feel like God can handle, can begin to find healing and freedom. As Christian fathers, we must be well to lead well. Today's episode can be a step forward toward that healing.

May 18, 2020 • 43min
The Surprising Quality Every Dad Should Have (with John McGee)
When most Christian dads think through how to lead their family well, one of the first questions that comes to mind is, "What devotional should I read?" or "What should family Bible time look like in my home?" In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Pastor John McGee from Watermark church to talk about the surprising quality every dad should have, and how it changes the way you disciple your children.

May 11, 2020 • 29min
Leading Your Family Like A CEO
Are you leading your family like a disgruntled employee, or a successful CEO? In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes covers 5 ways a Christian father can lead his wife and kids in the same way a successful CEO leads an organization.

May 4, 2020 • 38min
5 Things Your Mentor Would Tell You (with Alex Kendrick)
Most dads want to be the spiritual leader of their home, yet very few fathers were ever taught how to be that kind of Christian husband and father. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award-winning film-maker Alex Kendrick (War Room, Facing The Giants, Courageous) to give 5 practical ways for young dads to step up as the spiritual leader of their home.

Apr 27, 2020 • 57min
Wisdom Beyond Yourself (with Cody Carnes)
Have you ever had a moment as a dad where you did something well and surprised yourself? Almost like the wisdom came from beyond yourself? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award winning music artist Cody Carnes (The Blessing, Nothing Else, Run to the Father) to talk about how God gives us wisdom beyond ourselves as fathers. Cody shares openly about his childhood, parenting struggles, and his role as a husband. You'll walk away encouraged as a Christian dad who wants to lead his family well.

Apr 20, 2020 • 46min
Slowing Down Enough To See What Matters (with Ruth & Troy Simons)
In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by best-selling authors Ruth & Troy Simons, and founders of gracelaced.com. As the parents of 6 boys, Troy and Ruth spend their time equipping young parents to know and love the Gospel, and helping their children do the same. If you need some friends to sit down and point you to Jesus, this episode is for you.


