Secrets of a Sugar Daddy

Kimmy Seltzer, a popular dating coach with a hit podcast called the Charisma Quotient, joins me and the sugar baby gang for a lot of fun! Of course, we talk about how us men are using wealth to attract women, but agree that being wealthy only goes so far. Kimmy S. tells us how her move to California shattered her life and how she recovered from the devastation. She discusses her “red dress” moment, and I think many can relate. Her coaching and therapy sessions focus on working from the outside in. Then we have an interesting discussion about online dating and how to interact and meet people in person. It’s important to practice and build the social muscle. What happens when I reveal my fear of approaching random women in a bar setting? No one likes rejection, except for Kimmy Dae lol. Lilly then reveals how she got recently rejected and surprisingly how it impressed another patron at the bar. Finally, maybe an ice breaker is to tell someone you’re on a scavenger hunt so the interaction feels less awkward.   Share your sugar dating stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Find Kimmy Seltzer at www.kimmyseltzer.com

My co-hosts Lilly and Kimmy join me to discuss a wide range of interesting sugar dating topics. But is Kimmy not dating right now? Lilly reveals that her Sugar Daddy is moving very fast! We discuss why the “Vibes” feature works well on Seeking.com. Kimmy is dolled up as she is meeting a fan after the show. We examine Lilly’s huge “promise” ring that is full of brilliant diamonds. Kimmy then randomly tells us about a pill she popped in her vagina to clean it up. Is Kimmy full of worms? Then the girls are getting ready for another vacation. This time the lucky town is San Diego, California. What happens when someone Kimmy knows walks by the podcast studio and grabs a card? Later, I talk about meeting Lilly’s Sugar Daddy for the first time at dinner. We also dive into some listener letters about non-profit sugaring and sexual safety. Finally, we ponder if we can grow the show by giving away money and prizes to our audience.   Share your stories, comments, and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Vivian and her best friend Mia join me to share their initial thoughts of being a Sugar Baby. Vivian has only had 2 serious relationships despite being in her 30’s and the first was a part of a religious cult. The ending of the second relationship has been a test of strength for her, and she’s moved across the country to start a new life. Mia has had 3 long term relationships and tried a dating app for the first time at age 27! She has been helping Vivian with her sugar baby account and things are quite interesting. They are finding that men can be very impatient. Find out what kind of profiles get noticed. Is it the buff and shirtless men? As men are offering dollars for the attention of this sugar baby, are we proving that everyone has a price? Find out how the men really get through the noise of the competition. And men, these women give great advice on how to structure your profile and what kind of photos really get them going. Find out this and much more in this eye-opening episode!   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

The girls are back from New York City, and they have a few stories to divulge. But first we find out that Kevin pulled an all-nighter…Up all night to get lucky? Then Lilly breaks some shocking news! Did she really go ring shopping with her Sugar Daddy? While in NYC, the girls were interviewed in Times Square, and Lilly rewarded her tour guide. Find out what happened when Kimmy got recognized on the streets of New York! Later we hear about her interesting plane ride when she sat next to a rabbi and then masturbated in the bathroom. Also, she gives us an update on her OnlyFans business. Finally, is Kimmy a THOT and what does that even mean?   Share your crazy dating stories, comments and questions at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

These women give us great advice on how to be real and genuine online to win their love and maybe even their hand in marriage. There is someone out there for everyone, so just be yourself. And while being true to yourself, make it easy to meet, be attentive when together, stick to your core values and don’t shy away from cultural differences.   Share your dating stories, advice, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

The gang is all here and it’s a wild one! Kimmy might be feeling the edible from the night before, and she’s in rare form. Find out what she did with her Seeking profile. Kimmy and Lilly are headed to New York City and it’s going to be crazy. Also, did Kimmy put her own mom on payroll during her mind-altering adventure? Lilly announces she might have found her person! And the girls tell us why every guy should consider having a hot tub. Lilly tells us a funny story about a Sugar Daddy who made her breakfast and then gave her an STD test. Do Sugar Daddies like to start bringing the allowance down as time goes on? Later, find out the shocking reveal of who Kimmy will be marrying. Kevin ponders if wealth also makes a woman more attractive like it does for most men. Finally, we dive into the mailbag and read a listener letter.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

No one likes to be ghosted, and in this segment, we explore what ghosting is and how to respond when you’ve been ghosted. Is there ever an occasion where ghosting is encouraged? Actually, there is and I’ll reveal the answer.   Let me know your thoughts about ghosting and dating at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

Jack, an older Sugar Daddy, joins us for a very insightful and entertaining episode. Never married with no children, he found this lifestyle suits him best as it’s difficult to find a complete partner. We get into an interesting discussion comparing marijuana laws and prostitution laws. He likes to use the acronym PPP, which stands for Pay per Play. But don’t start out your message with “Hi Daddy” or you’ll get blocked! What happens when you meet someone where their only job is being a Sugar Baby? Then we compare notes on allowances and availability once the allowance has been negotiated. What would you do if your Sugar Baby starts demanding a higher allowance and extras? And you never know who is going to be compatible in bed. Finally, what happens when you show up and your date has a car four times as expensive as yours? Find out in this eye-opening episode.   Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy  

The gang is all here for this entertaining episode. Lilly loses her Sugar Daddy and we find out why. Why does Kimmy have bruises on her face? You won’t believe what kind of requests Kimmy gets for custom content. Do girls really like some toxicity? Believe it or not, sometimes a date can consist of shopping at Costco! Then, what happened when Kimmy shows up at my country club with her ass hanging out of her booty shorts? And the girls are headed to New York City for the first time. They’ve got quite a few Sugar Daddies wanting to entertain them. Is this lifestyle shallow and greedy? We answer that in depth. Find out about Kevin and his 3-some proposal. And finally does Kimmy have an honesty problem? You’ll enjoy hearing the answer to this and much more…   Submit your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy

Is your dating life stagnant and you are running out of fun date ideas? This segment is for you as we describe 57 fun and exciting dating ideas that are easy to implement with little planning.   Share your stories, dating ideas, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com   Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy   Credit to www.today.com for references.