The Art of Love With Lucia

The irony about insecurity is that you're afraid you're going to lose your partner, but often, it's your own insecure actions and words that cause you to lose your partner, not another person.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses several scenarios where insecurity may pop up and how to handle them.

A breakup is a breakup - whether it's with a lover, business relationship or your cable provider.  It always follows the same pattern.  Find out about dating/relationship expert Lucia's recent "breakup" and how it applies to the end of all relationships.

What should you do if you forgot your partner's birthday or they forgot yours?  Does it mean they don't care about you?  Should you break up with them over this?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do in this touchy situation.

This week's email is from a young man who is dating his aunt.  He claims they're in love and he's wondering how to handle the situation.  Dating/expert Lucia explains that this happens more often than you'd think and lets him know exactly what he needs to do.

What should a woman do if she begins to date a man and he tells her he's not interested in a relationship but is looking for "adut play".  Should she go along with it, hoping it will turn into something else?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets the record straight as to exactly how to handle this common situation.

This week's podcast is about a guy who has been in an on-again/off-again relationship for 4 years!  He says he treated his girlfriend like a queen and doesn't know why she keeps ending things.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the causes of this type of relationship and how to fix it.

This week's email is from a woman who is dating a man who said he is not dating anyone else.  However, she thinks he's seeing at least 2 other women.  Should she confront him with this information?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia sets her straight as to how to handle this situation.

What should you do if you're insecure, maybe even paranoid, that your partner is going to cheat?  Should you spy on them?  Should you confess your feelings?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to deal with this fear when it shows up in your love life.

What should you do when you want to date your personal trainer?  He's friendly and has long conversations with you at the gym and online, but isn't interested in dating you.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this common situation.

This week's podcast is about a woman who wants to be unfaithful to her husband because although she's "happily married", she's not happy with their sex life.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia's  answer to this problem is one that will totally surprise you.