The Art of Love With Lucia

Is there ever a time when someone who is an otherwise a "good catch", someone that you should temporarily avoid?  If so, how long should you wait to date them?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle the situation when you meet someone who is temporarily undateable.

Is it possible to know if someone is a player?  Is there something that all players do or say that reveals that they're not who you think they are?  Dating/expert Lucia reveals the #1 way to easily know if you're dealing with a player.

Discover the secrets to gaining a man's commitment without losing your own identity. Learn how respect and daily actions can boost attraction and emotional investment. Explore tactical advice on creating desirable absence and the importance of timing in love. Understand the nuances of cohabitation and how to navigate conversations about moving in together while maintaining your leverage. Get ready for insightful tips that can transform your love life!

This week's podcast is about a guy who wants to get back with his ex, even though he broke up with her 3 times in the past!  Should he try or just give up and move on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, in this case, it's best to just move on.

In this podcast, dating/relationship expert Lucia tells the story of how her cat Boo Boo helped her break up with someone first as a girlfriend and then as a friend.  Find out how your pets can help you decide who to date and why you shouldn't date someone you wouldn't trust to look after your furry friend.

What does it mean when someone breaks up with you and says, "it's not you, it's me"?  Is it true or does it mean something else?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the answer while responding to an email from a woman whose boyfriend has broken up with her.

Do you worry that if you say "No" to the people you're dating, that they won't like you anymore or that they'll leave?  Do you constantly put others' needs before yours?  You may be a "people pleaser".  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains where this personality trait comes from and how to start putting yourself first.

How do you keep the sex exciting in a long term relationship?  What are some common misconceptions people have about sex?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers these questions and more in this upbeat interview with dating coach Devan Brown.

Is it ever a good idea to remain friends with an ex?  If so, under what circumstances?  A recent study shows that staying friends with an ex says something about your personality - and it's not flattering!  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why, most of the time, you should not remain friends with an ex.

It's safe to say that most people are not totally honest in their online dating profile.  What do men lie about vs what do women lie about? If you hate it when women lie about their age or if you hate having to reveal your age, find out how dating/relationship expert Lucia says you should handle this touchy situation.