The Art of Love With Lucia

No matter what the specific reason why your ex broke up with you, it's always a secondary reason. There is only one reason why your ex broke up with you. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why attachment styles, childhood trauma and trust issues are not the main reasons why someone ends a relationship and what the #1 reason for breakups is.

If you've done no contact correctly, at some point your ex will reach out and you'll eventually meet up. You've made it to this point, so don't mess it up now! Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives a detailed account from what to wear, where to sit and how to behave when you finally get together with your ex after the breakup.

Is there a way to find out whether someone is interested in you, without asking them? Or should you just ask so you'll know for sure? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 foolproof way to find out how someone really feels about you, without having to ask.

If you're in no contact to get your ex back, you're probably on the look out for signs that they want you back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the signs which show that your ex may want you back.

If you're trying to get your ex back, you probably think you need to make sure you don't make them angry, or they'll never come back.  This leads to behaving like a doormat and thinking that you have to respond to whatever crumb of attention they give you during no contact.  That's why you think you don't want to make your ex angry.What does it mean if your ex is angry at you?  Does it mean you don't have a chance at getting back with them?Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why your ex being angry with you is actually a good thing!

If you only dated your ex for a short time - a few weeks or a few months - will no contact still work? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why the length of the relationship doesn't determine whether no contact will work.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back and your ex finally texts you, should you respond? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains when you should respond to your ex texting you and more importantly, when you shouldn't respond.

If you're finding it difficult, if not impossible, to not contact your ex after a break up, you're not alone. It's not your fault. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains the biological reason why no contact is so difficult and offers a solution.

You may have heard of the 30 day no contact rule but did you know there is also a 60 day no contact rule? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the 60 day no contact rule is and why it’s more effective than the 30 day rule.

If you're doing no contact to get your ex back, you may eventually run into your ex somewhere. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what to do and what not to do so you don't mess up the progress you've made up to that point.