The Art of Love With Lucia

Valentine's Day is coming up in a few days. If you've been using the no contact rule to get your ex back, you may be thinking of breaking it to send a card or flowers. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses whether or not you should break the no contact rule and reach out to your ex on February 14.

What should you be doing during no contact, now that you have a lot of extra time. How you choose to this time, is going to affect your future relationships. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what to do during no contact so that you will have the best chance of either getting back with your ex and having a better relationship.

Does the no contact rule work on women?  Can you use the no contact rule to get your ex girlfriend back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals whether or not you can use the no contact rule on your girlfriend to get her back.  If you're a woman, and you don't think the no contact rule will work on you, you may change your mind after seeing this video.

If you've been broken up with, no contact is the best way to get your ex back. What about if you were the one who did the breaking up? Can you get your ex back if you broke up with them? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains under what circumstances the dumper can get their ex back using no contact.

Will time make your ex forget you or miss you? People doing no contact are often worried that their ex will forget them. They also wonder if their ex will miss them. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why "faded affect bias" and an "open loop" will make it difficult for your ex to forget you and, if their interest level is high enough, they'll also miss you.

This is the podcast you've been waiting for! The one that tells you if and when you can break no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the exact time and situation when it will be okay to break no contact and reach out to your ex if you still want them back.

Being dumped can be one of the most devastating things to happen to you. It's very easy to slip into depression when you've been rejected by someone you love. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses why you don't need to be depressed after a break up and what you can do instead.

What is your ex thinking during no contact? Are they thinking about you? Do they regret breaking up with you? Do they wish you'd reach out? Are they wondering why they haven't heard from you? Or are they not thinking about you at all and they've moved on? Dating/relationship expert Lucia goes into detail to tell you exactly what your ex is thinking during no contact.

One of the biggest fears of people doing no contact is that their ex will think they've moved on if they don't hear from them. So they stay in touch with texts, calls and even meeting up in person, in order to reassure their ex they're still available.They also want to make sure their ex doesn't move on with someone else. They think that staying in their ex's life will stop them from moving on with someone else.Unfortunately, as with many things in dating, the right way to handle this is counter-intuitive. Staying in touch with your ex only gives them the confidence to look for someone else, knowing that if they fail, they can always fall back on you.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why your ex will NOT think you've moved on if you do no contact.

As the first podcast of the year, we want to inspire you to stick to no contact by hearing about others who've had success with it. This version includes: A woman who didn't respond when her ex texted her during no contact. After running into him at an event, he reached out again and said he'd been a jerk and wanted to get back together. A woman who heard from her ex after 32 days of no contact after begging him not to break up with her A woman whose ex is begging her for another chance after 30 days