The Art of Love With Lucia

Many people don't get their exes back because their actions after the breakup push their ex even further away, instead of bringing them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what the two factors are which determine whether or not you'll get your ex back.

If you have an anxious attachment style and pleaded with your ex, along with sending millions of texts after the breakup, is it still possible to get them back? Dating/relationship expert Lucia analyzes a break up with a woman who did all those things, yet still managed to get her ex back, along with a marriage proposal.

What is your ex thinking and feeling right after the break up? Do they feel the same after 30, 45 and 60 days of no contact? What will it take for them to reach out? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the stages a dumper goes through after the break up and how long each stage lasts.

The no contact rule isn't a cure all for every dating or relationship issue you have. It's only to be used for very specific situations, otherwise, it will backfire. Dating/relationship expert Lucia discusses the situations where you should definitely not be using no contact.

Should you move on from your ex, should you write your ex a letter, how can you find out if your ex wants to get back together, is it a bad sign if your ex is mad at you? Dating/relationship expert Lucia answers all these questions and more in part 3 of No Contact Q & A.

If you're in no contact after a breakup, the chances of hearing from your ex are very high. However, in order to have the best chance at getting your ex back, you have to wait for the right time to respond. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the two things to look for, that will let you know it's the right to time to answer your ex's text or return their call

Back by popular demand - more no contact success stories to keep you motivated to stay in no contact. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads emails and comments from viewers who either heard from their ex during no contact or decided that they were better off without their ex.

Contrary to what most dating coaches say, if you want the best chance at getting your ex back, you must ignore them when they reach out, unless they say something significant. Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads a success story of.a woman who was broken up with via email and got her ex back by ignoring him.

If you're doing no contact, there's a possibility that your ex's birthday will be coming up. Should you wish your ex a "Happy birthday"? Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should absolutely NOT break no contact to wish your ex a happy birthday.

You shouldn't always try to get an ex back, especially if the relationship was toxic. What behaviors should you walk away from? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reads and comments on 2 emails from women who should not get back with their exes.