Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

This week on the Dopey Patreon teaser I tell Erin a crazy parenting story plus i read an email, and we do a bunch of advice stuff! Also to be completely honest the porn hawk tuah is only available on patreon! so sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   What AI says: SummaryIn this episode of the Dopey podcast, Dave discusses recent deaths in the addiction community and shares stories about addicts who have passed away. He also talks about his Patreon subscription and encourages listeners to join. The episode features a conversation with Erin Carr, author of the addiction memoir 'Strung Out', where they discuss various topics including unlicensed advice columns and a parenting mishap involving a kayak. KeywordsDopey podcast, drugs, addiction, deaths, Patreon, Erin Carr, memoir, unlicensed advice columnist, parenting mishap, kayak Takeaways The Dopey podcast covers topics related to drugs, addiction, and recovery. The addiction community has experienced recent deaths, including Seth Binzer of the band Crazy Town. Dave encourages listeners to join the Dopey Patreon for additional content. The episode features a conversation with Erin Carr, author of the addiction memoir 'Strung Out'. Titles Join the Dopey Patreon for More Content Recent Deaths in the Addiction Community Sound Bites "Rest in peace Seth Binzer of Crazy Town" "Rest in peace Pat, who died sober" "Conversation with Erin Carr, the author of 'Strung Out'"   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! This week is 6 years since we lost our dear friend and Dopey Legend, Todd. We are rejoined by Todd's sister Aly who tells us what it is like living with the loss of her brother. The nature of family years after a tragedy and tells the story of what we know actually happened to Todd. Then we play a classic episode with me, Chris and Todd. With some of the craziest Dopey stories in the history of the show - plus emails, voicemails and more on the brand new episode of that good old Dopey show!   AI MADE THIS STUFF: This episode of Dopey is a tribute to Todd, who passed away six years ago. David and Todd's sister, Allie, discuss Todd's notes, his struggles with addiction, and the impact of his death on their family. They reflect on Todd's moments of sobriety, his love for celebration, and the denial that surrounded his addiction. The conversation also touches on the grief experienced by David's parents and the absence of Todd's presence in family gatherings. The episode concludes with a discussion about the lack of a funeral or memorial for Todd and the compartmentalization of his addiction. In this part of the conversation, David Manheim and Todd's sister, Allie, discuss Todd's struggles with addiction and the impact it had on his life and their family. They reflect on Todd's participation in the Dopey podcast and the humor he brought to the show. Allie shares her concerns about the genetic factor of addiction and how it affects her own children. They also discuss the lack of a funeral for Todd and the reasons behind it. The conversation ends with a reflection on Todd's life and the impact he had on others. In this final part of the conversation, David and Todd discuss Todd's struggles with addiction and their shared experiences. They reflect on their past drug use and the challenges they faced. They also make plans for Todd's recovery and discuss the importance of taking small steps towards sobriety. The episode ends with a tribute to Chris and Todd, as well as a reminder to stay strong and support each other in the Dopey Nation. KeywordsDopey, tribute, Todd, addiction, sobriety, celebration, denial, grief, family, funeral, memorial, compartmentalization, addiction, struggles, family, Dopey podcast, genetic factor, funeral, reflection, addiction, struggles, drug use, recovery, sobriety, support Takeaways Todd's notes revealed his struggles with addiction, including drug debts and moments of despair The family experienced denial and shame surrounding Todd's addiction The absence of Todd's presence in family gatherings is deeply felt The lack of a funeral or memorial for Todd reflects the family's compartmentalization of his addiction Grief is a lifelong process and time does not necessarily make it easier Todd's addiction had a significant impact on his life and his family The Dopey podcast provided a platform for Todd to share his experiences and humor The genetic factor of addiction is a concern for Todd's family The lack of a funeral for Todd raises questions about the family's response to his death Todd's life and humor continue to be remembered and appreciated Addiction can be a lifelong struggle, and denial can be a major obstacle to recovery. Taking small steps towards sobriety and building positive habits can make a difference. Support from friends and loved ones is crucial in the recovery process. Reflecting on past experiences and sharing stories can help in the healing process. Remembering and honoring those who have lost their lives to addiction is important. Titles The Lifelong Process of Grief The Impact of Todd's Addiction on the Family The Absence of a Funeral for Todd Remembering Todd's Life and Humor Reflecting on Past Experiences Honoring Those Lost to Addiction Sound Bites "I'm a fucking waste of time, a lost cause. Nothing has changed. I can't stand being inside my head any longer." "He always had this secret life that he didn't want anyone knowing about." "I've never heard anyone scream like the way you screamed." "His life was miserable. It couldn't get better." "The whole nature of the show was a huge chunk of the reason the show happened in the slightest." "Todd would tell people he liked the show." "So to me, he gave like..." "Not to mention that Todd has this, the thing that's kept Todd using more than anything is this incredible denial sense, like that it's not happening." "Whenever I did it, I was just like, I can't believe, you know, I was like full on, you know, when I, and I was like, you were like, I don't think I'm going to use tonight. I was like, we're using that's it. You know what I mean? Like he would like, be like, I don't think I'm going to use, I don't think I'm going to use. And then like at two in the morning, he just like surreptitiously pick up the phone. He would never say we're getting it tonight. He would just wind up with the fucking dough, coke, you know, for me, I would be like, it's it. I'm on, I'm not getting off. That's it. Yeah. You know, whereas." Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This is the Patreon Teaser! Moshe is one of our favorite guests - he is super funny and long time sober! If you want to hear the whole talk with Moshe please join us at: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast    Here is what AI said: David Manheim and Moshe Kosher discuss addiction, recovery, and their experiences in the comedy world. They touch on topics such as drug use, blurbs for books, the challenges of being in the entertainment industry, and the importance of service in recovery. The conversation is filled with humor and personal anecdotes, providing insights into their lives and perspectives. Keywordsaddiction, recovery, comedy, drug use, entertainment industry, service, humor, personal anecdotes   Takeaways: Addiction and recovery are recurring themes in the conversation. The challenges of being in the entertainment industry and dealing with fame are discussed. The importance of service in recovery is highlighted. Humor and personal anecdotes are used to convey messages and connect with the audience. Titles: The Power of Service in Recovery Using Humor and Personal Anecdotes to Connect Sound Bites "You're obviously a drug addict." "Welcome to Dopey, the podcast on drugs, addiction, and dumb shit." "Moshe Koshar is back." Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This Week on Dopey! We are joined by Christian from the beach! Christian delivers the serious Dopey with a side order of the power of LOVE. Christian tells all from weed to ecstacy to oxys to heroin. PLUS kicking suboxone  - using in jail and much more! PLUS THE RETURN OF JT aka Whitey Tighties! Sugar Bear Bukaty! Dopey notes and much more!    Here is AI on christian talk:    SummaryIn this conversation, David Manheim interviews Christian Carbone about his experience with addiction. Christian shares his journey from smoking weed as a teenager to becoming a drug dealer and developing a dependence on opiates. He discusses the culture of selling and using pills, as well as the progression from eating to sniffing them. Christian also talks about his relationship with his wife and how his addiction affected their life together. The conversation highlights the allure and destructive nature of addiction. In this part of the conversation, David Manheim shares his journey of addiction and recovery. He talks about how his life changed after getting sober and starting the Dopey podcast. He also discusses the impact of the opioid crisis and the role of prescription drugs in his addiction. David reflects on the moments that led him to see himself as a drug addict and the challenges he faced during his addiction. He emphasizes the importance of finding a higher power and the power of love in his recovery. David Manheim shares his experiences during his relapse and the consequences he faced. He talks about his involvement in the shoe business and the success he achieved. However, he also reveals his increasing use of drugs and alcohol, including weed, ecstasy, and cocaine. He describes how he ignored the signs of his addiction and continued to justify his behavior. The chapter ends with his realization that he had a drinking problem after a series of incidents, including a car accident. In this final part of the conversation, David Manheim shares his experiences of relapse and the turning point that led him to take his sobriety seriously. He talks about the importance of sponsorship and service in his recovery journey. He emphasizes the need to help others and stay connected to the program to maintain sobriety. David also reflects on the fallibility of humans and the importance of staying vigilant in recovery.   Keywordsaddiction, drugs, weed, pills, opiates, drug dealer, culture, progression, sniffing, relationship, addiction, recovery, sobriety, Dopey podcast, opioid crisis, prescription drugs, drug addict, higher power, love, relapse, consequences, shoe business, drugs, alcohol, addiction, weed, ecstasy, cocaine, drinking problem, car accident, relapse, turning point, sobriety, sponsorship, service, recovery journey, help others, staying connected, fallibility, vigilance Takeaways Christian's addiction started with smoking weed as a teenager and quickly progressed to using and selling pills. The culture of selling and using pills was prevalent during Christian's addiction, with corrupt pharmacies and various sources for obtaining drugs. Christian's addiction led to destructive behavior and strained relationships, including his marriage. The allure of opiates, particularly the feeling of going from sick to well, was a driving force in Christian's addiction. Christian's story highlights the destructive nature of addiction and the need for support and recovery. Addiction can have a profound impact on a person's life, but recovery is possible with the right support and resources. The opioid crisis has had devastating effects on individuals and communities, highlighting the need for better education and prevention strategies. Recognizing oneself as a drug addict is a crucial step towards recovery, and it often comes after experiencing negative consequences and hitting rock bottom. Finding a higher power and tapping into the power of love can be transformative in the recovery process. Support from family, friends, and a sponsor is essential in maintaining sobriety and navigating the challenges of addiction. The power of addiction can lead to relapse, even after a period of sobriety. Justifying and ignoring the signs of addiction can prevent individuals from seeking help. Engaging in other activities, such as starting a business, may provide temporary distractions but can also enable addictive behaviors. Consequences, such as car accidents, can serve as wake-up calls and highlight the severity of addiction. Recognizing and accepting the presence of a drinking problem is a crucial step towards recovery. Relapse can happen even after a period of sobriety, and it is important to recognize the signs and take action. Sponsorship and service play a crucial role in recovery, providing support and guidance to others. Helping others and staying connected to the program are essential for maintaining sobriety. Humans are fallible, and it is important to stay vigilant and committed to recovery. Sharing one's story and experiences can inspire and help others in their own recovery journeys. Titles The Culture of Selling and Using Pills The Allure of Opiates: Going from Sick to Well Recognizing and Accepting Addiction The Power of a Higher Power and Love in Recovery The Illusion of Control The Consequences of Denial The Turning Point: A Wake-Up Call to Sobriety Helping Others: A Key to Maintaining Sobriety Sound Bites "I remember thinking, yeah, I like smoking weed. But that opiate feeling was the feeling that I just felt everything I wanted to feel in life." "For about a four year period, I was picking up one to 240 80s a day." "I remember just, like, just wow, like holy shit, like, within five minutes, I was more rocked than eating too, and I just loved it." "I heard how it works and my life totally changed." "At what point do you start to see yourself as a drug addict?" "I never came across anything that was any good." "I had so much love and support. This is a kid." "I let my foot off the gas and I stopped giving God the credit" "I put myself down instead of put God up" "I just want to be helpful." "I got married October 1st, 100% because of this program." "If I can help someone have a day, I made a difference in this world."   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On a very special Dopey Patreon Tuesday Teaser we finally hear from my dear friend Doug from the beach! Doug tells all about my surprise 50th birthday party, my weight gain and his development as a horrible alcoholic! PLUS we hear from Australian Dopey OG Gabbie! For the first time in 6 years!!!! Go to Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! Dove and Thuann are back! Dove relapses in sober living and shares her experience of what went wrong! We deep delve into Dove's relapse and what her plans are now to stay on the right path! PLUS Thuonn from Mountainside is back with a great talk on 'How to Cultivate Hope!'   Plus a crazy voicemail about attempted sex wearing a diaper, emails aplenty and the return of my dad! PLUS much more on this brand new jam packed episode of the good old Dopey show!   Here's a bunch of AI Notes:   They talk about the factors that led to their relapse, including seeking validation from others and engaging in risky behavior. Dove discusses their mindset during this time and the rationalizations they made to justify their actions. They also talk about the effects of misusing medication and the allure of substances. Eventually, Dove realizes the need for a structured program and enters inpatient treatment again. David and Dove discuss their experiences with spirituality and sobriety. They talk about the resistance to spirituality, the importance of being all in, and the gift of desperation. They also touch on the application of principles to drug use, the similarities between eating disorders and addiction, and the challenges of living in a sober living house. Dove shares her aspirations to go to law school and work on the criminalization of addiction. Keywords: relapse, inpatient treatment, sober living, validation, risky behavior, mindset, rationalization, medication misuse, structured program.  Keywords: spirituality, sobriety, resistance, all in, gift of desperation, principles, drug use, eating disorders, addiction, sober living, law school, criminalization of addiction Takeaways Seeking validation from others can lead to risky behavior and relapse. Misusing medication can be a red flag and a slippery slope towards relapse. Having a structured program and working the steps can help in maintaining recovery. Honesty and rigorous self-reflection are crucial in the recovery process. Resistance to spirituality can hinder progress in sobriety, but being all in and embracing spirituality can be beneficial. Applying principles to drug use can help in recovery, but it's important to address other destructive behaviors as well. Eating disorders and addiction share similar compulsive patterns and can be equally destructive. Living in a sober living house can have its challenges, including dealing with difficult roommates. Dove aspires to go to law school and work on the criminalization of addiction.   Titles The Importance of a Structured Program The Slippery Slope of Seeking Validation Sound Bites "I fucked it up. Literally, you said, right as I went, don't fuck it up, and then I fucked it up." "I started crushing up my well-being trend. That was like the beginning of my relapse." "I'm just desperate to feel okay in my own skin. And there's only so long I can sit in it." "I've been pretty resistant to spirituality." "I feel like I was taking that a little too far." "I was still doing all this other fucked up shit." AI THUANN NOTES:  Summary: In this conversation, David and Thuan discuss the concept of cultivating hope and finding purpose in life. Thuan shares his perspective on how hope is always present, but our negative thoughts and beliefs can block us from accessing it. They also explore the idea of hitting rock bottom and the role of surrender and asking for help in recovery. Thuan emphasizes the importance of taking small, attainable steps and finding support in community. They discuss the Dopey Zoom meetings and the power of vulnerability and rawness in sharing experiences. Thuan shares his belief that sobriety is not the end goal, but rather living one's life purpose and helping others. They touch on the role of spirituality in finding solutions to life's challenges and the importance of staying humble and open-minded. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the meaning of a life well-lived and the value of doing good and avoiding harm. Keywords: hope, purpose, rock bottom, surrender, asking for help, small goals, community, vulnerability, Dopey Zoom, sobriety, spirituality, solutions, humility, doing good, avoiding harm Takeaways Hope is always present, but our negative thoughts and beliefs can block us from accessing it. Hitting rock bottom can be a catalyst for change and surrendering to the need for help. Taking small, attainable steps and finding support in community can help in the recovery process. Sobriety is not the end goal, but rather living one's life purpose and helping others. Spirituality can provide solutions to life's challenges and bring a sense of peace and fulfillment. Staying humble, open-minded, and focused on doing good and avoiding harm can lead to a meaningful and fulfilling life. Titles Rock Bottom and the Power of Surrender Small Steps and Community Support in Recovery Sound Bites "The hope is always there. It's just my mind that's telling me that I'm worthless, that I can't get out of this." "When we're at our worst, where does the hope go? The hope doesn't go anywhere. It's just that my mind has checked out of the hope." "Hope is getting to the meeting. It's the energy of hope. Like maybe there's something here that can help me in this moment when I just don't feel like I can do it on my own."   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! In a stupid teaser move we give away a free Cormac's Chemical Corner! Rejoice! As Cormac and I? take a semi deep dive into psychedelicas and the idiosyncrasies of the dopey nation!  SummaryThe conversation covers a deep dive into the world of Dopey Reddit, chemical experiences, and the history of LSD. It also delves into personal experiences with psychedelics, addiction, and the impact of Dopey on listeners. The discussion includes references to influential figures in the drug culture and the impact of addiction on individuals and families.   Keywords: Dopey, Reddit, chemical experiences, LSD, psychedelics, addiction, drug culture, influential figures, personal experiences, impact of Dopey Takeaways Insights into the world of Dopey Reddit and the impact of the podcast on listeners. Personal experiences with psychedelics and the impact of addiction on individuals and families. Exploration of the history of LSD and influential figures in the drug culture. Titles Diving into Dopey Reddit and Chemical Experiences Personal Journeys with Psychedelics and Addiction Sound Bites "We just recorded a fun, serious deep dive into the world of Dopey Reddit and I revealed some things about Dopey that I probably shouldn't have revealed to Cormac and Selby." "The orange sunshine was busted out of a trusted friend's vault and taken during the days at Jazz Fest about five years ago. It was exactly what it was named. Just pure sunshine for about 12 hours." "Nicholas Sand, creator of Orange Sunshine LSD dies at age 75. He launched tens of millions of acid trips across generations by producing arguably the most pure LSD known as orange sunshine." Chapters 00:00Diving into Dopey Reddit and Chemical Experiences 02:14Personal Journeys with Psychedelics and Addiction 06:31Uncovering the History of LSD and Influential Figures Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This week on Dopey! In a wicked fire doozy of a Dopey story - David Riggins comes to the show and tells his insane story. David did it all from weed to fentanyl and every drug under the sun in between!Starting as a drug dealer, joining the military and descending down a path to total insanity. David did it all from weed to fentanyl and every drug under the sun in between! David's mission is to now help as many people as possible! PLUS a Novak Song, Emails, Stories, more, more, more!!!!   Check out David Riggin's Movement: www.heal-family.com   notes: - kingpin aspirations, preteen thugging - dealing pills and weed for a pedo at 9-10 years old - joining the military after 9/11, breaks his legs - prescribed morphine and oxycodone - brick of mexican coke - led into heroin by new pharmaceutical opiate restrictions - estranged relationship with his kids - effects of fent vs. other opiates vs. xylazine - homelessness - scamming the VA - burn accident - ketamine drip, opiate smorgasbord in the hospital - amputation - spiritual experience that removed social anxiety at a meeting - depression, making videos as an escape, living with disability Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This teaser is a classic moment where my childhood friend Robbie and I are recording at our friend Greg's house out East when trouble strikes! Plus my dad makes fun of Robbie for being too woo woo and more in this tiny teaser! For the full show join Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast   Help me get out of the Deli and sign up for Patreon! Boat loads of Dopey on tap! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

This Week on Dopey! We are joined byt author, true crime journalist, crime fighter and recovering alcoholic Billy Jensen! We hear all about the deaths of opiate addicted sex workers in Ohio and how Billy Jensen tried to help solve the crimes! Plus Billy's own recovery from alcoholism, and how he dealt with being 'cancelled'. PLUS my dad returns and we listen to multiple Dopey emails and Dopey Voicemails! PLUS  Chris Paulson returns for the new Dopey Segment 'ASK A THERAPIST'! ALL THAT AND MUCH MORE ON THE BRAND NEW EPISODE OF THAT GOOD OLD DOPEY SHOW!   notes : - the "perfect victim," true crime stories often centering "normal" white women - apathy of cops; crowd-sourced crime solving - parents were addicts/alcoholics - late bloomer - alcoholism began age 34 - weirdly responsible about his alcoholism - journalism and media conglomerates - writing and drinking (write sober, edit drunk) - Michelle McNamara - true crime cultural fascination - murders in the drug/sex work world - reporting factually vs. producing a good show - corrupt cops - the ohio story - drunken misconduct - suicidal ideation - infantalization in treatment - childhood sexual assault - apology - recovery Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.