The Nothing Is Wasted Podcast

Every married couple believes they’ll be together forever. But what happens when that doesn’t come true? All too often we ignore little problems until they become large ones, and too many marriages end prematurely as a result. That was the case for both Mary and Dave Gothi. When both their first marriages failed, it seemed like the death of both of their dreams. But God had plans for both of them that they could have never seen coming. Mary and Dave sit down with Davey to conclude our marriage series with their story of divorce and remarriage, and how they now help other married couples all around the world find the same wholeness that they have. Episode Resources: Visit Mary and Dave’s Website Check out New Beginnings Website Books mentioned in the interview: Sacred Marriage Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts Love & Respect His Needs, Her Needs Cherish   Join a Nothing is Wasted Community Group Become a Monthly Partner of NIW Ministries This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

MARRIAGE SERIES PART THREE   One of the most defining characteristics of marriage is the promise of faithfulness. There is something sacred that happens when we stand before God and promise to love one person only, until death do us part. But for far too many, that promise ends up broken. Too often, we’re left asking “what now?” That was Hilarie and Joe Barry’s story. Both the product of a previous failed marriage, everything came crashing down in their lives when Hilarie discovered that Joe had repeatedly been unfaithful. In this installment of our marriage series, Hilarie and Joe sit down with Davey to share what it looked like to walk through this season and how they’ve taken back their story, and their marriage, from the clutches of infidelity. Episode Resources: Visit Hilarie’s Website Buy Hilarie’s book, We Survived Infidelity Check out our Sexual Betrayal Series - Episodes 79, 80, 81, 82 & 83 Join a Nothing is Wasted Community Group Become a Monthly Partner of NIW Ministries Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sexual abuse and assault is a pain that is familiar to far too many. This extremely intimate wounding at the hands of another can leave scars and shame that last a lifetime. But they don’t have to. Healing and wholeness are available to us. That is the story of Nothing Is Wasted Ministries’ very own Aubrey Sampson. In this bonus episode for our Nothing Is Wasted Monthly Partners, Aubrey shares her painful story of sexual assault and abuse, and how God led her down a path of healing to not only overcome that pain but to use it as momentum to help other women who’ve gone through the same thing.   Read more of Aubrey’s story in her book, Overcomer.   This episode was originally released as part of our Nothing Is Wasted Monthly Partner Program. To learn more about how you can partner with us and gain access to more bonus episodes, teaching videos, Q&A’s, and more, visit nothingiswasted.com/partners. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

MARRIAGE SERIES PART TWO   As a marriage and family counselor, Nicole Zasowski spent her days helping others walk through difficult seasons in their home life. But after two consecutive miscarriages, Nicole and her husband received news from a doctor that no one wants to hear. It would be incredibly difficult for Nicole to have a child, and every attempt would come with a large risk of walking through the pain of miscarriage yet again. Thrown headlong into a valley of her own, Nicole found herself having to learn in her life what she already taught to others. Nicole sits down with Davey to share her story of how God met her in her trial, and how she’s continuing to help others find the same healing that she has.   Episode Resources: Visit Nicole’s Website Follow Nicole on Instagram and Facebook Purchase Nicole’s book, From Lost to Found: Giving Up What You Think You Want for What Will Set You Free This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

MARRIAGE SERIES PART ONE   We’ve all been taught that marriage is a gift, and that is certainly true. A healthy, loving relationship between two people is one of the greatest joys many of us will experience in life. But as Leslie Vernick knows well, when two broken people try to make a life together without addressing their own brokenness, the results can be disastrous. A product of her parents’ destructive marriage, Leslie has made it her mission as a counselor and author to help others navigate their own relationships. To kick off our series on marriage, Leslie sits down with Davey to talk about what to do when we find ourselves or our loved ones in a destructive relationship and how to move forward. Episode Resources: Visit Leslie’s Website Read Leslie’s Blog Follow Leslie on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Purchase The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick Check out Nicole Zasowski’s Website This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Perhaps now more than ever, anxiety is an ever-present force in our day-to-day lives. Whether from some traumatic experience, a physiological condition, or just the weight of the broken world all around us, many of us live anxious lives every day with no end in sight. Josh Weidmann knows this all too well. Josh has faced his own lifelong battle with anxiety, and as a pastor and Biblical counselor, Josh works with people every day who struggle with it. Josh sits down with Davey to share some of what he’s learned about anxiety and how we can overcome it.   Episode Resources: Visit Josh’s Website Check out endofanxiety.com Purchase The End of Anxiety This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling Text Course to 66866 for Pain to Purpose referral Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our families are among the greatest gifts we can receive in life, but with that gift comes a risk. When pain strikes among these people who are so close to us, it hits us especially hard. Jessica Ronne knows this all too well. When her second child was born with severe special needs, it seemed like that was more trial than anyone should have to endure. Jessica’s journey, however, was just getting started. Only a few years later, Jessica’s husband lost his battle against a brain tumor, and Jessica found herself as a single mother to three children. Through this unbelievable pain, Jessica found herself closer to God than ever before. Jessica sits down with Davey to share her incredible story of struggle, loss, remarriage, blending families, and more. Episode Resources: Visit Jessica’s website Follow Jessica on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Instagram or Pinterest Purchase Sunlight Burning at Midnight by Jessica Ronne Check out The Lucas Project Listen to Gary Thomas’ Episode on Nothing is Wasted Buy Sacred Pathways by Gary Thomas We’d love your feedback! Take our Nothing is Wasted Podcast Survey Become a monthly partner of NIW Ministries. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When we go through trials in our lives, it can be hard to know what to do next. We want to make it through this dark season, and to make our pain mean something, but we’re not sure how. That’s the heartbeat behind Nothing Is Wasted Ministries, and it’s part of why we created the Pain to Purpose Course. But we’ve found that walking through the course by yourself isn’t always the easiest, or the most helpful. We heal better in community, and this course is no exception. That’s why we’re launching our new Pain to Purpose Certified Guide program, to help match you with someone who knows what you’re going through and can help you through difficult seasons.   To celebrate the launch of this new program, Davey and Aubrey are joined by Ken Roberts and several of our Pain to Purpose Certified Guides to talk about what they’ve learned in their own Pain to Purpose journeys and how helpful it can be to have someone walk alongside you in yours.   Visit Nothing is Wasted Pain to Purpose Coaching Page Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For a long time, the church has been deprived of half of the voices it could be learning from. While the Bible is full of amazing examples of female leaders, a handful of passages taken out of context have led to women being forced into the sidelines in too many churches. Lisa Bevere is one of the people on the front lines of changing that. Lisa began her career as a speaker and writer in a time when women in church leadership were even less accepted than they are now. Today, not only is Lisa continuing to speak and write, but she’s also made it her mission to mentor younger women in how to live out their own callings. Lisa sits down with Aubrey to talk about some of what she’s learned coming up in ministry and the idea of being a spiritual “godmother” to the next generation of women. Episode Resources: Visit Lisa’s website Follow Lisa on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter Purchase Godmothers: Why You Need One, How to Be One Check out The Godmother Podcast Listen to Conversations with John & Lisa Bevere We’d love your feedback! Take our Nothing is Wasted Podcast Survey This podcast is sponsored by Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SURVIVING ABUSE SERIES PART FOUR   Like many parts of our lives, our beliefs about God are often formed at a young age. When we go through painful experiences before even reaching adulthood, it can shape the way we view God and others in ways we don’t even realize. This was Carissa Gaughan’s story. As a teenager, Carissa was sexually abused by multiple men, and the scars from that trauma caused her to lose trust in God and in other people. Devoid of the faith that characterized her earlier childhood, Carissa found herself continuing to make poor choices again and again, until finally everything changed. To finish our Surviving Abuse Series, Carissa sits down with Davey to share what she’s learned from her story and how she’s working to share that with others to keep them from making the same mistakes she did.   Episode Resources: Check out Carissa’s website Follow Carissa on Facebook and Instagram Purchase Allies in Healing or Sheet Music Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE We’d love your feedback! Take our Nothing is Wasted Podcast Survey. Become a monthly partner of NIW Ministries. Text NIWgift to 66866 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices