
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity.
Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy.
Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Tune in to discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
Latest episodes

Apr 9, 2020 • 39min
EP103 - Do Swingers Have Expectations?
Hey Sexies,
Have you ever said or read this commonly used phrase "We don't have expectations"?
In today's episode we cover this as part of our stuff swingers say series, we dig into the phrase, pull it apart and ultimately debate what we both think about the usage of it. Do we really have no expectations? Are expectations healthy? What is with the flat earth debate?... we cover this and more in our latest episode.
In the second half of this podcast we share some opinions and thoughts from the members of our Kasidie community; we asked what they thought about this phrase and gave us their honest answers. We loved sharing these with you and would be honored if you'd join in on the fun.
Mentioned in this Podcast
Episode 85; Taking one for the team
Episode 15; Extract of 'expectations' audio
Kasidie Swingers Dating Site; Our Community
#30DaysOfLingerie - on twitter
Events
Naughty In Nawlins, July 2020 in New Orleans
Podcast-A-Palooza; October 2020 in Miami
We would love your support, head to our Patreon account and receive exclusive content & monthly Q&A sessions.
Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-monogamous couple? Looking for more information about how to successfully navigate a non-monogamous relationship? Just want to listen to a sex positive Swinger Podcast / NonMonogamous Podcast? Join us.
Love, Peace and Respect.
xx
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex, being a hotwife and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
Please rate and review our podcast

Mar 23, 2020 • 1h 6min
EP102 - Gay Men & NonMonogamy
Hey friends,
We talk with Cate's oldest school friend Nate about being a Gay Best Friend (GBF), coming out stories of non-monogamy and sexual desires + is there a stigma of gay relationships and monogamy?
We swap some banter about our history, we bask in the awesomeness that is Nate and J marriage to each other & talk about our recent trip to Thailand. We finish off the episode with a story about Nate's recent trip to the Gold Coast strip clubs. All a bit of lighthearted fun and a look into long term friendships and coming out.
Articles mentioned in this podcast
Monogamy as a Gay kink
Gay men should do what ever they want!
Are Gay men scared of monogamy?
Monogamy spectrum in Gay relationships
Events
Podcast-A-Palooza; May 2020 in Miami
Naughty In Nawlins, July 2020 in New Orleans
Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-monogamous couple? Looking for more information about how to successfully navigate a non-monogamous relationship? Just want to listen to a sex positive Swinger Podcast / NonMonogamous Podcast? Join us.
We would love your support, head to our Patreon account and receive exclusive content & monthly Q&A sessions.
Love, Peace and Respect.
xx
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
Please rate and review our podcast

Mar 2, 2020 • 56min
EP101 - Top 10 Swinger Club Fails
Hey friends,
In this episode we break down our top 10 swinger club fails over the last 5 years, we dig deep into the archive on some of these from our first 12 months in the lifestyle right up until NYE 2020. Join us as we laugh at ourselves & share some of our slips, trips and falls.
In the second half of this podcast we share some super funny, awkward and just weird listener lifestyle fails. We recount stories from podcast listeners on what happens in the lifestyle and laugh along at their misfortune. What does a goose, lost shoe, slipping in girl cum all have in common... listen and learn.
Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-monogamous couple? Looking for more information about how to successfully navigate a non-monogamous relationship? Just want to listen to a sex positive Swinger Podcast / NonMonogamous Podcast? Join us.
Events
Podcast-A-Palooza; May 2020 in Miami
Naughty In Nawlins, July 2020 in New Orleans
We would love your support, head to our Patreon account and receive exclusive content & monthly Q&A sessions.
Love, Peace and Respect.
xx
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
Please rate and review our podcast

Feb 20, 2020 • 56min
EP100 - Secrets Hideaway Resort, Swingers Resort Orlando
Hey friends,
Thanks for joining us for another Swinger Podcast episode by Swinging Downunder. Have you ever wondered what it's like to visit a Swingers Resort? Curious what happens at a clothing optional adults playground?
In this episode Cate interviews Aerin from Secrets Resort in Orlando, Florida and we talk all about the resort, what to expect, how much it costs and why it's a great opportunity to visit a Swingers Resort without breaking the bank.
Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-monogamous couple? Looking for more information about how to successfully navigate a non-monogamous relationship? Just want to listen to a sex positive Swinger Podcast / NonMonogamous Podcast? Join us.
Mentioned in this podcast
Secrets Resort Website
Euphoria Chronicles Podcast
Sapphic Swingers Podcast
Casual Swinger Podcast
Our Naughty Escapades Podcast
Events
Podcast-A-Palooza; May 2020 in Miami
Naughty In Nawlins, July 2020 in New Orleans
We would love your support, head to our Patreon account and receive exclusive content & monthly Q&A sessions.
Love, Peace and Respect.
xx
C&D
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
Please rate and review our podcast

Jan 30, 2020 • 28min
Bonus; Ladies of Lifestyle
Welcome to a bonus episode from Swinging Downunder, this episode is devoted to the Ladies of Lifestyle (LOL)
Hey friends,
In this episode we're invited to talk with Average Swingers and 3 other fantastic ladies all about being a lady in the swinging lifestyle
This is a 2 part podcast; the first will be aired here on Swinging Downunder Podcast and the second will be over on the Average Swingers Podcast
In this episode we cover the topic of female performance in the bedroom, ladies who appear to be sex goddess's with multiple orgasm's and loud (OTT?) moans. We pull apart how to manage the situation from both sides & then cover a bit about feminism just for fun.
Featured in this podcast
Average Swingers Podcast
Events
Podcast-A-Palooza; May 2020 in Miami
Naughty In Nawlins, July 2020 in New Orleans
We would love your support, head to our Patreon account and receive exclusive content & monthly Q&A sessions.
Love, Peace and Respect.
xx
C&D
Every wondered what it’s like to be a non-monogamous couple? Looking for more information about how to successfully navigate a non-monogamous relationship? Just want to listen to a sex positive Swinger Podcast / NonMonogamous Podcast? Join us.
We are a swinging lifestyle podcast, we talk about sex and non-monogamy, please ensure you are of legal age to be listening to our sexy stories.
Please rate and review our podcast

Jan 17, 2020 • 1h 19min
EP99 – Swinging Around Dallas
Hey friends, In this episode we head over to Dallas Texas to spend Christmas and New Years with our Podern Family; Jay and Angie from Average Swingers Podcast We share all the details on what we got upto in Swinging Dallas in a relaxed and conversatioanl manner. We talk about our trip to Colette Swingers…
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Dec 31, 2019 • 50min
EP98 – Sydney Swingers Club
Hey friends, Ever wondered what swinging lifestyle was like in Australia? Looking for a Swingers Club in Sydney? Check out our review of the new location for Our Secret Spot Swingers Club in Annandale. We share details about the venue, our evening, did we play or not and why we didn’t flirt as well as…
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Dec 21, 2019 • 59min
EP97 – Hotwifing, MFM & Single Guy Dates
Hey friends, Curious about dating a single man? Want to hear about our latest solo date that D set up for C? Join our next podcast to learn all about Hotwifing, MFM & Dating Single Guys as a HOTWIFE. Are you a Hotwife, Stag, Vixen, Bull, Unicorn, Manicorn….or just want to know about a first…
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Dec 6, 2019 • 59min
EP96 – Creating Communities & Multiamory Podcast
Hey friends, Are you navigating the non-monogamous lifestyle and curious if a community is going to be right for you? Maybe you’re looking to build your own community and don’t know where to start? In this episode we talk with Double Date Nation Admin Andi and Double Date Dave about communities & what it’s meant…
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Nov 14, 2019 • 37min
EP95 – The BEST Swinger Date
Hey friends, What has been your favourite swinger lifestyle date? Do you like to go drinking, dancing, clubbing, putt putt, escape room, rock-climbing or cooking? We ask the question on twitter and get some feedback from listeners on what they like (and dislike) for Swinger dates. We also share some of our favourite dates for…
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