

The Attractive Man Podcast
Matt Artisan
The Attractive Man Podcast features the world's best dating coaches giving honest dating and relationship advice to help you live your most confident, successful, and attractive life.
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Feb 15, 2021 • 8min
4 EASY Ways to Quit P0rn Addiction For GOOD!
For all you p0rn lovers out there, its time to STOP ruining your life - these are 4 STEPS to Finally Overcome Your Addiction to Pornography! This will help destroy porn addiction for good and get you to quit watching porn faster than a blogger edits their food pic for Instagram (which is surprisingly quick!)
If you're looking for a simple porn addiction cure, something like nofap | how to quit tips will supplement this content, too. Also, I suggest you watch my previous video about the "7 steps on how to quit - porn addiction help" first. Since this video is a follow up to that.
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Feb 11, 2021 • 12min
Hot Women WILL NOT Make You HAPPY (Does Pick Up Actually Work in 2021?!)
I'm joined with Dr. Robert Glover again, and this time we discuss why hot women will NOT make you happy. It might not make sense for you at first, but Dr. Glover and I will explain it well for you to make you understand the toxicity of seeking validation with girls to feel "happy and satisfied".
We'll also answer one of our most requested questions, does pick up actually work in 2021? Does pickup actually work, even? Do you need to learn it to master how to get a girlfriend? We talk all about that and more on the video, so make sure to listen with an open mind, man!
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Feb 3, 2021 • 7min
Why A**holes Get Girls & You Don't ("Nice" is NOT a TURN ON!)
Are you being the "nicest guy" to women.. ONLY to still lose to the huge a**holes that lie and cheat yet STILL have girls all over them? Why do women love "bad boys" so much? And do you have to be one to get women to love you? Well, the answer is no.. But.. There’s a reason WHY women love these kinds of men so much.
Today’s video will explain the Dark Side Of Attraction & how to attract women without becoming an a-hole yourself. In this part 2 of our interview with Dr. Robert Glover, we double down on the answer to the question - why do girls like bad boys so much? Well, men. Accept the fact that "nice" is not a turn on, and if all you have to bring to the table is being nice..then that's one reason why a**holes get girls and you don't.
I want you to listen to us as we delve deep into the dark side of attraction, discuss what women want in a man, share self improvement tips that will benefit you for life, and also - the controversial part of why "be yourself" advice is bad for you.
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Jan 27, 2021 • 10min
3 Steps to Get Her to CHASE YOU & Stop Being FRIENDZONED
Tired of always chasing after women? You DON'T HAVE TO! In todays video, Matt shares his top 3 Steps to get HER to chase YOU. (And no, it has nothing to do with having great looks or a perfect pick up line.)
Matt teaches certain mindsets and powerful methods to have men STOP being a simp, STOP being desperate and needy when it comes to women.. Because ultimately, one of our 'how to get a girlfriend expert advice' is this: You ACTUALLY need to DO LESS, NOT MORE.
You see, the key to make her chase you, or in this case, make any woman chase you, is to master how to control your actions naturally - removing actions that label you as "just another desperate nice guy" and "this guy will do anything I want him, too." and of course.. the dreaded "I only think of you as a friend" line.
Matt shows you just how to make girls chase you with only 3 simple steps. Yes, not a billion, not a million.. but knowing how to make girls fall for you, actually can be summarized in only 3 simple steps.
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Jan 20, 2021 • 8min
Why NICE Guys FINISH LAST (w/ Dr. Robert Glover)
In all honesty, women loved it when i stopped being a nice guy! You men have always wondered what women want, and well, this here podcast episode answers one of the most debated questions: why nice guys finish last!
I'm joined be Dr. Robert Glover, author of one my favorite and most recommended books to read "No more Mr. Nice Guy". Today we'll discuss the nice guy mistakes to avoid, the answer to the question "Why do nice guys finish last?" and show you why men in 2020 and 2021 resort to the nice guy mentality so much. Yes - the nice guy mentality is ruining your chances to meet, attract and date women.
Today's podcast episode covers the following topics: - Why nice guys finish last (explained) - Why nice guys dont get the girl - A little about why Dr. Glover wrote "No more Mr. Nice Guy" - How to attract women without manipulation or lying.
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Jan 18, 2021 • 20min
7 Steps to STOP Watching PORN For Good (Porn Addiction Help That WORKS)
Do THESE Powerful 7 steps to stop watching porn and get your control back! Matt shows you how to stop watching porn - because it is a fact that lives get ruined because of porn addiction. These 7 ways to quit porn are what you need to keep in mind every time the temptation gets to you! Want us to help you?
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Your mental health is important, man. Right now with we're all just a few clicks away from watching porn in the internet. Sure, you might think its all just harmless fun, but did you know that there are actual cases of porn addiction all over the globe that has ruined careers, families, and lives?
I'll show you my 7 Ways to Quit Porn Forever. I'll teach you how to avoid watching porn, how to stop addictive behavior, how to curb your desire to keep watching porn, and how you use that sexual energy into something productive!

Dec 12, 2020 • 11min
3 POWERFUL Ways To Be More INTERESTING In Conversations (w/ video on YouTube)
Matt's 3 SIMPLE Ways to be more interesting to keep the conversation going and to help you never run out of things to say.
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How do you become more interesting in a conversation? Matt will show you 3 Conversational techniques to help you to keep the conversation going, keep a girl intersted in you, and help you to never run out of things to say.
It is tough especially when you're having a hard time keeping the comversation going. At times you feel like you're asking too many questions. You end up turning her off.
And if you're an introvert, you certainly will have a tough time learning to converse with women. Follow Matt as he shows you: -how to talk to a girl you like.
-how to keep the conversation going
-how to never run out of things to say
-how to make things interesting
-how to keep talking to a girl
-how to make a girl like you in conversations
-how to be more exciting when talking, and
-how to be charismatic in social interactions.
We're hoping to help men improve their self confidence and social skills with our videos and coaching. So don't forget to watch our other videos and subscribe for more of our weekly content!

Dec 4, 2020 • 26min
15 Updated TEXTING RULES That Women Absolutely LOVE
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These are Matt's 15 Updated Texting Rules That Women Love! These 15 updated texting rules are tailored to today's social climate where women usually ghost you, ignore your text, or have a great initial reply and vibe; only to completely stop texting you at some point.
Ever experienced any of that? Then give this video a watch. These include the best texts to send a girl. And some of the worst texts to never send to women. Matt shares the texts that women love, and those that turn her on. These texting rules include the DO's and DONT's of how to text a girl this 2020. Because seriously, texting a girl CAN turn her off - it makes or breaks your chances of ever landing a date.
Were you ever needy or texting too much? Did you probably send a naughty text that made her hate you? Or did you NOT escalate enough and got her bored? We get these questions a lot. You see, texting a girl can be so complicated for most guys. In fact, I've met client's that overanalyze every single word they text a girl!

Nov 25, 2020 • 42min
How To Be Better in Bed, Be a Better Lover & Develop Your Masculine Focus (w/ Special Guest - Ruwan)
Learn how to last longer in bed and have better love making sessions. Get the FREE Arousal Control Secrets Course HERE: https://theattractiveman.com/arousal-control-secrets-course/
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Coach Matt Artisan talks with Jules Bia and special Guest Ruwan to discuss some great tips for men to last long in bed and be better partners to their girlfriends/wives!
Learn how to last longer in bed by following the team and Ruwan's tips for better love making! Men usually THINK they already know how to be better in bed, but you won't be here searching for some sex tips if every guy already knows, right?
Lets face it. Sex education really doesn't tell you how to be good in bed or how to make love with a woman better. The lessons on how to make love with a woman aren't taught in most schools, because sex advice and sex tips are usually taboo.
Guys end up searching how to have better sex in the internet... AND let me say this, watching p0rn isn't going to help you - because thats a show. It's fantasy, and it won't show you what ACTUALLY happens in REAL LIFE.
To know how to be better with sex, its best to seek sexuality advice from men with the knowledge, and experience. Mens sex tips that are quality and authentic are hard to come by. Matt and team talk with Ruwan and discuss how to last longer and have better foreplay - these are the most frequently asked questions when it comes to sex. Ruwan also shares his advice on his arousal control techniques, so you'll understand how to arouse women, master arousal control, and hopefully use that so you and your partner will have more satisfying love making sessions in bed!

Nov 16, 2020 • 25min
6 Ways To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say To Women
Matt shares his 6 ways to keep the conversation going and never run out of things to say!
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In this episode Matt will show you the things to talk about with a woman to keep her interested and engaged. Stuff that can even turn her on while you talk to her! Plus some of the basic things to avoid that stop conversations.
Guys keep asking us about the things to talk about on a date.. they always seem to run out of stuff, and why is that? "How to keep the conversation going with a girl, Matt?" "What to talk about on a first date with a woman, Matt?" "How to never run out of things to say to a girl, Matt?" Men, the key to mastering how to never run out of things to say to a woman and finding the right conversation topics does NOT involve memorizing tons of lines or perfoming a variety of fake and cheesy routines.
This episode will explain that. You have to have things you are passionate about, things you experience. You have to know what you want, and have goals you are pursuing. You literally have to have a life outside of trying to impress her - don't simp, man!


