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In this episode, I have the privilege of speaking with Vaishnavi Sundar, a self-taught filmmaker and advocate for women's rights, about her groundbreaking documentary, Behind the Looking Glass. This film delves into the often-overlooked experiences of women whose male partners “transition,” shedding light on the emotional turmoil and coercive control they face. Why is it that these women, often silenced and marginalized, feel compelled to redefine their identities in the shadow of their partners?Vaishnavi shares powerful insights into the dynamics of narcissism and gaslighting that permeate these relationships. How do societal expectations and gender ideology contribute to the erasure of these women's voices? As we explore the metaphor of the "looking glass," we uncover the disturbing reality of men who, in their quest for self-identity, leave their partners feeling like mere ghosts of their former selves.What happens when these women finally muster the courage to leave? What challenges do they face in reclaiming their autonomy and identity? Join us as we navigate these complex questions and hear the poignant stories of resilience and hope from those who have endured this unique form of domestic violence. You won't want to miss this eye-opening conversation that challenges the narratives surrounding gender identity and the often-unseen victims of this movement.Watch Behind the Looking Glass on YouTube.Vaishnavi Sundar is a writer and a self-taught filmmaker from Chennai, India. Through her films, she advocates for the rights of women and girls worldwide. She founded Lime Soda Films about a decade ago with the aim of highlighting themes of social justice, women’s empowerment and education. She is the Founder of Women Making Films (WMF) – a platform for female filmmakers to collaborate and create works of art, and has the privilege to host the work of members from more than 20 countries. Follow her on X @Vaishax. 00:00 Start[00:02:08] Trans widows and their experiences.[00:04:03] Narcissism and gender ideology.[00:09:13] Women's experiences in relationships.[00:12:19] Marital struggles and gender ideology.[00:18:59] Women's voices in transitions.[00:20:25] Questions about gender identity.[00:24:17] Prenuptial agreements and women's rights.[00:30:14] Emotional boundaries in relationships.[00:32:25] Disgust in gender identity changes.[00:39:08] Protective instinct in abuse situations.[00:42:57] Defining identity beyond trauma.[00:46:16] Supporting trans widows and families.[00:51:46] Support for women in distress.[00:52:17] Reassurance for women in abuse.[00:55:48] Radical love and understanding.[01:01:44] Transitioning and identity complexities.[01:04:03] Identity and self-perception struggles.[01:09:08] Creative career shift in India.[01:11:23] Filmmaking as a personal outlet.[01:17:21] Workplace sexual harassment in India.[01:19:35] Gender ideology and women's safety.[01:24:09] Pornography's impact on society.[01:29:58] Women's struggles in a multicultural society.[01:31:20] Domestic violence and helplessness.[01:35:54] Women's rights in rural India.[01:39:50] Anger as creative fuel.[01:43:59] Compassion and anger connection.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community for Parents is available now! Join at ROGDrepair.com and start using the tools immediately. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2024 to take 50% off your first month.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.EIGHTSLEEP: Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST.ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? 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Join Josh Slocum, host of Disaffected, as he navigates the perplexing waters of Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD) and its cultural implications. They delve into the interplay of gender identity ideology, woke social justice beliefs, and personality traits in vulnerable youth. Discover how these factors can distort self-perception and strain family connections. The conversation offers insightful strategies for parents to foster healthier communication and understanding, along with resources for support through the ROGD Repair program.

In a thought-provoking discussion, Anita Bartholomew, an experienced reporter, highlights alarming trends in K-12 education related to indoctrination and gender identity. She shares insights from her upcoming book and reflects on her journey from traditional liberal views to confronting radical educational changes. The conversation delves into the impact of complex gender concepts on young children’s mental health, parental concerns about sexual education, and troubling trends in educational curricula that blur the lines between education and ideology.

Laura Wiley Haynes returns to shed light on the complex intergenerational aspects of the current gender crisis. Why do so many young people today seem unable to launch into adulthood, remaining perennially online and disembodied, reportedly held back by feelings they label “dysphoria?” What developmental shifts have occurred in parenting over the last few generations that might explain this phenomenon?Laura shares her insights on how the lack of dyadic care—one-on-one nurturing relationships—has contributed to a generation of children who struggle with self-perception and emotional regulation. Could the rise of screens and social media be robbing our kids of the deep, relational connections they need to thrive? We explore the implications of group care environments and how they may hinder the development of essential social skills.As we discuss the alarming trend of young adults romanticizing their emotional turmoil, I ask: what happens when a young man on estrogen experiences mood swings reminiscent of a teenage girl? Is this a sign of deeper unresolved issues? Join us as we unpack these critical questions and more, revealing the intricate web of attachment, trauma, and the urgent need for effective parenting in today’s world. Tune in to discover how we can better support our children in navigating their identities and emotions.Laura Wiley Haynes is a writer, a mother & grandmother, and a former CASA. Follow her on X @haynes_wiley.Books mentioned in this episode:Emotional Blackmail by Dr. Susan ForwardEpisodes mentioned:123. Identity-Based OCD: Dr. Elliot Kaminetzky on Trans & the Fear of Living Inauthentically 00:00 Start[00:01:41] Intergenerational aspects of gender crisis.[00:06:46] Impaired grownups and child distress.[00:11:21] Early attachment trauma effects.[00:13:06] Developmental needs and selfhood.[00:19:39] Self-regulation and emotional responses.[00:22:50] Authenticity and children's identity struggles.[00:27:39] Boundaries and communication in parenting.[00:30:28] Parenting teenagers and communication.[00:34:26] Parenting and cultural changes.[00:40:23] Failure to launch in youth.[00:44:56] Parenting and boundaries for children.[00:49:21] Authority in parenting dynamics.[00:51:33] Strategic apologizing in parenting.[00:57:07] Boundary setting in parenting.[01:00:25] Parenting and children's disappointment.[01:03:34] Parental honesty in difficult discussions.[01:08:41] Reading between the lines.[01:14:15] Cluster B behaviors and attachment.[01:15:34] Cluster B relationships and control.[01:20:40] Parenting and setting boundaries.[01:24:40] The importance of saying no.[01:29:09] Parenting and setting boundaries.[01:34:52] Identity instability and self-perception.[01:37:39] Hostage negotiation techniques.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community for Parents is available now! Join at ROGDrepair.com and start using the tools immediately. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2024 to take 50% off your first month.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.EIGHTSLEEP: Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST.ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST.COZYEARTH: Visit CozyEarth.com/sometherapist and use code SOMETHERAPIST for 40% off their selection of bedding, towels, skincare and other cozy home items.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? 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Like so many other young women I’ve met in my counseling career, Taylor was prescribed both SSRI antidepressants and hormonal birth control shortly after she hit puberty, and remained on both types of pills until her 20’s, impacting her libido, identity, body image, and self-esteem. Somewhere along the way, she developed gender dysphoria and a fixation on the idea that becoming a “trans man” would solve her psychological problems. But when she stopped taking meds, her “dysphoria” lifted like a fog. What happened here? And what can Taylor’s story tell us about the possibility of a massively underreported iatrogenic pipeline of young women being ushered from hormonal contraceptives and SSRI’s at puberty, to testosterone and mastectomies in their 20’s after years of low libido and identity instability?Due to the many years Taylor Murphy spent thinking she was transgender and wanting to transition into a man, she now shares her cured experience of gender dysphoria and how it was related to the medication she was on. She shares her concerns on the side effects of medication and transition. Follow her on X @taymurph26Books mentioned in this episode:This Is Your Brain on Birth Control: How the Pill Changes Everything by Sarah E. Hill, PhD. Thank you for making purchases from Amazon affiliate links, helping support the show. 00:00 Start[00:00:47] The impact of medication on identity.[00:06:42] Effects of hormonal birth control.[00:09:34] Mental health and medication effects.[00:14:51] Feeling trapped in gender identity.[00:18:16] Exploring gender identity and expression.[00:22:11] Inner struggles with transition.[00:23:42] ROGD Repair Course + Community for Parents.[00:25:42] Parenting and questioning gender identity.[00:27:38] Gender Identity Struggles[00:32:55] Awakening after medication withdrawal.[00:37:35] How birth control affects psychology.[00:41:58] Gender dysphoria and hormonal effects.[00:44:27] Medication impact on gender identity.[00:48:24] Life after overcoming dysphoria.[00:52:35] Medication and managing emotions.[00:55:57] Adolescence and resilience.[00:59:33] Discovering teenage sexuality.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community for Parents is available now! Join at ROGDrepair.com and start using the tools immediately. Use code SOMETHERAPIST2024 to take 50% off your first month.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.EIGHTSLEEP: Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST.ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST. COZYEARTH: Visit CozyEarth.com/sometherapist and use code SOMETHERAPIST for 40% off their selection of bedding, towels, skincare and other cozy home items.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Parents of trans-identified adolescents and young adults need educational resources that go beyond merely explaining why gender ideology and medicalization are harmful. They need tools that help them understand the psychological state their adolescent and young adult children are in, and teach them different approaches to communicating that are more likely to succeed than to backfire given their kids’ state of mind.I created The ROGD Repair Course and Community with this in mind. It’s a comprehensive toolkit designed to empower concerned parents to help get their kids out of this mess while restoring their relationships — and their sanity.ROGD Repair is a promising new program designed to equip parents of trans-identified adolescents and young adults with a comprehensive and customizable toolkit of psychology concepts and communication skills, curated specifically to help them walk their children toward desistance while protecting parents’ own sanity.Imagine if parents of “trans” identified kids actually had a way to walk them out of this mess, wisely and strategically, and bring them home to safety and sanity.Imagine if every new ROGD parent knew which pitfalls to avoid when communicating with zealous adolescents and young adults. What if, instead, these parents could skillfully apply time-tested communication techniques, suited to address the mental state of gender-confused youth? What if the youth’s own fears and motivations could actually lead them toward health, harmony and wholeness?What if parents could protect their sanity and their most important relationships at the same time, all while improving their odds of rescuing their children from the clutches of a harmful ideology before any bodily harm takes place?The ROGD Repair Course + Community for Parents is designed to do all of that. And now, it’s available to the public, at a fraction of the cost of coaching. Parents can learn the tools from 90+ video and written lessons on their own time and begin implementing them immediately. Discuss the Reflection Questions with their spouse or a buddy, or journal straight into the program. Ask questions, share insights, and request new topics in the community forums.Right now I am offering the first 100 people to enroll post-launch an incredible offer that won’t come again. Coupon code FIRST100 takes 50% off every month a student remains enrolled in the program, for as long as they need to stay. Simply visit ROGDrepair.com and enter the code FIRST100 at checkout to use this offer. This special offer is my way of saying thanks for being part of the launching phase of this project, while we are still building a robust community.If that code has been used up, you can still use code SOMETHERAPIST2024 to take 50% off your first month until the end of the year.If you have an audience of your own who you think would want to know about ROGD Repair (eg., a popular podcast or blog), and you would consider promoting this resource, reach out to me with your website and a bit about you, and I will give you access to the course so you can check it out. hello@sometherapist.com.  00:00 Start[00:02:40] ROGD Repair explained.[00:07:21] Creating accessible educational tools.[00:10:45] ROGD Repair.[00:13:35] Family systems view and gender ideology.[00:17:19] Talking to kids about detransitioners.[00:20:30] Detransitioning and transphobia.[00:24:37] Parenting and health concerns.[00:28:10] Combating gender identity ideology.[00:33:46] Female-specific issues.[00:36:03] Reducing Screen Time Techniques.[00:41:14] Parenting and activism balance.[00:44:37] Double binds in parenting.[00:48:34] Assertive communication techniques.[00:52:18] Therapeutic communication techniques[00:55:22] Recognizing signs of uncertainty.[00:57:19] ROGD Repair offering.[01:03:00] Special discount offers.[01:08:03] A total game changer.[01:11:13] Overcoming challenges in success.[01:14:26] Battling gender ideology.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.PRODUCTION: Looking for your own podcast producer? Visit PodsByNick.com and mention my podcast for 20% off your initial services. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deep...

Dr. Elliot Kaminetzky, a child and adolescent psychologist and founder of My OCD Care, discusses the intricate relationship between identity-based OCD and gender concerns. He delves into how fears of living inauthentically can affect transgender youth, exploring the balance between intrusive thoughts and self-acceptance. The conversation highlights the societal pressures shaping identity, the importance of emotional safety in therapy, and the need for community support in navigating these challenges. Dr. Kaminetzky champions parental guidance and accurate information for those facing such dilemmas.

Audra's firsthand experiences with heinous crimes provide a chilling insight into the lack of guilt and empathy in certain offenders. What drives these individuals to commit such atrocities? How do they navigate the world with a narrow focus on their selfish and sadistic desires, devoid of remorse?As the conversation unfolds, we touch on the importance of mothering in the 21st century and the delicate balance between protecting children and navigating societal norms. We discuss the risks associated with daycare and the need for vigilant screening of caregivers. What red flags should parents watch out for? How can they ensure their child's safety in a world where predators lurk in unexpected places?The episode takes a thought-provoking turn as we explore the complexities of mental health services and the challenges faced by individuals with various conditions. From the need for social skills training for autistic young adults to the debate surrounding the treatment of chronic offenders with antisocial traits, the conversation delves into the gaps in the current system. But where do these individuals truly belong? Are prisons the answer, or is there a need for more specialized care? Tune in to uncover the answers to these pressing questions and more.Audra Worlow has a Bachelors of Applied Health Science from BGSU. She worked in criminal law for her local county prosecutor's office for five years dealing with homicide and sex crimes, before leaving the field to focus on her family and writing. She is Catholic as well as a Conservatarian. She writes about science, politics, culture, humor, and morality. Follow her on X at @audrawrongspeak Books mentioned in this episode: The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker 00:00 Start[00:01:45] Mothering in the 21st century.[00:06:18] Daycare safety concerns.[00:09:19] Choosing a trustworthy babysitter.[00:14:36] Reading physiological cues in gerbils.[00:19:49] Stepfathers' hidden motives.[00:22:27] Stepparenting and relationship dynamics.[00:26:09] Stepmothers and abusive behavior.[00:30:36] Living in a rape culture.[00:35:52] Grooming in abusive situations.[00:37:42] The nature of sexual impulses.[00:42:54] Lack of empathy in criminals.[00:48:31] Autistic young adults and identity.[00:52:51] Criminal justice and mental health.[00:55:35] Bipolar disorder and borderline personality.[00:58:26] Mental health and stigma.[01:01:18] Conflicting values and bodily autonomy.[01:07:26] Hormones and mental health consequences.[01:10:33] Personality disorders in trans-identified people.[01:14:32] Personality disorders in society.[01:19:02] Religious element in detransitioning.[01:23:07] Gaslighting and manipulation techniques.[01:28:14] Envy and resentment in relationships.[01:30:13] Surgeons and psychopathy.[01:34:34] Injecting cross-sex hormones into others.[01:37:51] The gender crisis.TALK TO ME: book a discovery call.LOCALS: Ask questions of me & guests; get early access to new episodes + exclusive content. Join my community.SUPPORT THE SHOW: subscribe, like, comment, & share or donate.EIGHTSLEEP: Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST.ORGANIFI: Take 20% off Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration. SHOW NOTES & transcript with help from SwellAI.MUSIC: Thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude & permission.  To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Jane Wise, a certified addictions counselor, lends her expertise to parents grappling with children facing rapid onset gender dysphoria. She discusses the emotional turmoil experienced by these parents and the pressing need for supportive dialogue. With insights on balancing parental support and potential risks, Jane emphasizes the importance of communication strategies. The conversation also highlights the parallels between addiction dynamics and gender identity exploration, shedding light on navigating this complex terrain with empathy and understanding.

My good friend Amy Sousa is a brave and resilient woman presently battling stage 3 breast cancer. We delve into the complex emotions and decisions Amy faces as she navigates her cancer journey. Amy shares her unique perspective on the significance of breasts, challenging societal norms and gender ideology. We explore the impact of cancer on her embodiment activism and the importance of self-acceptance and love.Amy discusses her holistic approach to treatment, incorporating a metabolic approach alongside traditional chemotherapy. We uncover the power of nutrition and lifestyle choices in supporting the body's natural healing processes. We explore the boundaries and intersections between the psyche and the body in the context of illness. Why might people who identify as transgender claim to have “phantom limb sensations” about body parts they’ve never had? And when cosmetic, optional, life-shortening procedures are reframed as “medically necessary,” how does this affect the flow of medical resources toward those truly in need?Join us as we unravel the complexities of cancer treatment, the mind-body connection, and the resilience of the human spirit.Amy E. Sousa holds a MA in Depth Psychology. She is a women's rights activist, lecturer, and educator, with an expertise in embodiment. She holds one-on-one coaching, teaches classes, and facilitates workshops to help women strengthen their intuition. She also posts educational videos about embodiment & boundaries on her YouTube. Sousa has organized multiple rallies, protests, and free speech events on behalf of women/girls sex-based safeguarding provisions and against the unnecessary medicalization of children. For more about Amy follow her on Twitter, Instagram, & TikTok @KnownHeretic, on Substack at theknownheretic.com, or on YouTube @KnownHeretic. 00:00 Start[00:00:00] Breast cancer and gender identity.[00:05:19] Embodiment and breast cancer.[00:09:49] Self-acceptance and body image.[00:15:05] Elective surgeries and privilege.[00:18:31] D-trans women's reproductive challenges.[00:22:03] Identity and authenticity.[00:28:42] The pleasure of having breasts.[00:32:00] Sensation and personal choices.[00:38:08] Gender role-playing among men.[00:40:18] Phantom limb sensations.[00:43:33] Obsessive thoughts and compulsions.[00:47:03] Ketosis and cancer treatment.[00:52:33] Gender-affirming care and passive models.[00:56:26] Neuroplasticity and self-fulfilling prophecies.[01:03:24] Resilience and self-identity.[01:07:11] Internalizing vs. externalizing behavior.[01:11:07] Misdiagnosing depression as abuse.[01:15:06] Self-diagnosis in mental health.[01:20:38] Time blindness and consequences.[01:22:23] Time blindness in modern society.[01:25:17] Cancer and self-reflection. To support this show, please leave a rating & review on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe, like, comment & share via my YouTube channel. Or recommend this to a friend!Learn more about Do No Harm.Take $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover with code SOMETHERAPIST at EightSleep.com.Take 20% off all superfood beverages with code SOMETHERAPIST at Organifi.Check out my shop for book recommendations + wellness products.Show notes & transcript provided with the help of SwellAI.Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission.Watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. Follow us on X @2022affirmation or Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, post questions for upcoming guests to answer, plus other perks TBD. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★