

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Aug 10, 2020 • 1h 13min
Episode 104: A Weak Broth
This episode tackles topics like when your friends have low standards, learning to love by loving, and sex.
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BLIND DATE: Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat by Samin Nosrat
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Aug 3, 2020 • 48min
Patreon Episode - April 29, 2020 [Gaslighting]
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Sam's mother-in-law passed away earlier this week. We know the entire JBU community is behind us when we say we are so deeply sorry for this loss, and extend our love and sympathy to Sam's husband Peter. In lieu of a primary episode this week, we're going to share a Patreon episode from this past April. We'll be back next week, but until then, hold your loved ones close, tell them you love them, and move through this week with gratitude and kindness. We love you!
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Jul 27, 2020 • 1h 16min
Episode 103: All Relationships Are Risks
This episode tackles topics like shared interests, dating people with baggage, and reopening doors.
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BLIND DATE: Disclosure on Netflix
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 20, 2020 • 2h 6min
Episode 102: 2-Year Anniversary Live Show!
Just Break Up turned two, and we did a live episode to celebrate! Tonya Ingram shared some poems, and Sam and Sierra tackled topics like dating a late person, the pains of social distancing, and making a real break in a toxic relationship.
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BLIND DATE: The Chicks - Gaslighter
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 13, 2020 • 1h 42min
Episode 101: Faith In My Feelings
This episode tackles topics like reconnecting with long lost friends, being collateral damage, and Covid connection catastrophes.
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BLIND DATE: The Future Earth: A Radical Vision for What's Possible in the Age of Warming
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 6, 2020 • 1h 33min
Episode 100: And You Can Cook With It!
This episode tackles topics like being in love with a friend, when the next girl reaps the benefits of your hard work, and heartbreak.
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Jun 29, 2020 • 1h 34min
Episode 99: We'll Never Love Anyone Perfectly
This episode tackles topics like when our partners say we’re the toxic one, relearning ourselves after coming out, and wanting a dignified breakup.
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Jun 22, 2020 • 1h 44min
Episode 98: You Are Whole, Even As You Become
This episode tackles topics like dating racists, not getting off, and being a perfectionist dating a perfectionist.
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BLIND DATE: March by John Lewis, Andrew Aydin, and Nate Powell
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jun 15, 2020 • 1h 27min
Episode 97: Your Boyfriend Probably Has Debt
This episode tackles topics like disclosing our debt, incompatible sex drives, and feeling like a misfit.
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BLIND DATE: The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jun 8, 2020 • 31min
Episode 96: White Supremacy and Being Antiracist
This episode tackles the topic of white supremacy.
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BLIND DATE: Brené Brown with Ibram X. Kendi on How to Be an Antiracist
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