

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jan 11, 2021 • 1h 29min
Episode 124: We're Allowed to Change Our Minds
This episode tackles topics like not wanting to be a parent, when hurting people hurt us, and valuing honesty over niceness.
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BLIND DATE: Something Was Wrong
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jan 4, 2021 • 1h 40min
Episode 123: Is the Juice Worth the Squeeze?
This episode tackles topics like moving in with your friends-with-benefits ex, embracing bisexuality, and feeling thrown away and replaceable.
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BLIND DATE: Blooming Again by Lydia Liza and Big Cats
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Dec 14, 2020 • 1h 29min
Episode 122: A Real Man Would Just Die In His Sleep
This episode tackles topics like disclosing something that feels like a big deal but probably isn’t, when your boyfriend unfollows you on instagram, and why breaking up is hard to do.
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BLIND DATE: The idea of rest (and also Queen's Gambit on Netflix)
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Dec 7, 2020 • 1h 25min
Episode 121: Blocker's Remorse
This episode tackles topics like blocker’s remorse, being exhausted by your friend’s dating drama, and being constantly let down by the people we love.
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BLIND DATE: Happiest Season
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Nov 30, 2020 • 1h 21min
Episode 120: The Boring Love Story
This episode tackles topics like when your abusive ex gets married, when they’re not as into the relationship as you are, and having to fully show up for the first time.
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BLIND DATE: The Last Honey Hunter
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Nov 23, 2020 • 1h 31min
Episode 119: We're All Still Learning
This episode tackles topics like is it a grudge or a boundary, wanting so badly to get married, and beginning that long journey into yourself.
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BLIND DATE: No Scroll Saturdays
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Nov 16, 2020 • 1h 37min
Episode 118: JBU Middle School
This episode tackles topics like knowing who to trust, when we try so hard and still can’t get what we want, and building up our sibling relationships.
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BLIND DATE: The Social Dilemma
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Nov 9, 2020 • 1h 22min
Episode 117: Does This Feel Good?
This episode tackles topics like when they can't commit to you but can commit to someone else a month later, when it's not really about the dog, and learning to set yourself free.
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BLIND DATE: Six Seasons: A New Way With Vegetables
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Nov 2, 2020 • 1h 22min
Episode 116: Accountability To The Self
This episode tackles topics like when your partner is still in love with their ex, when love just isn't enough, and accountability and forgiveness.
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BLIND DATE: The Keep Going Song by The Bengsons
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Oct 26, 2020 • 1h 22min
Episode 115: Who Does This Serve?
This episode tackles topics like when our partners say they don’t deserve us, blaming ourselves for things we can’t control, and predators.Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week plus a back catalog of 50+ episodes.SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodBLIND DATE: The LodgeOriginal music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-DavisAdvertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices