

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Aug 2, 2021 • 1h 10min
Episode 153: Sam’s Not Here to Talk About Genitals
This episode tackles topics like when your partner is fat-phobic, when rejection makes you doubt yourself, and avoiding emotional warfare.
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BLIND DATE: Calm
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 26, 2021 • 1h 9min
Episode 152: We’re All Uniquely F’d Up
This episode tackles topics like when all your friends’ relationships are toxic, practicing emotional maturity, and when your partner gets more dates than you.
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BLIND DATE: 350.org
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 20, 2021 • 1h 18min
Episode 151: Trying to Solve an Unsolvable Equation
This episode tackles topics like when your partner still has their ex’s ring, helping your mom date, and not wanting to have children.
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BLIND DATE: Kevin Can F... Himself on AMC
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 12, 2021 • 1h 17min
Episode 150: JBU Turns Three!
This episode tackles topics like Covid romances in a more open world, establishing boundaries with future in-laws, and emerging from quarantine as a single person.
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BLIND DATE: How the Word Is Passed: A Reckoning with the History of Slavery Across America by Clint Smith
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Jul 5, 2021 • 1h 28min
Episode 149: Not a World For Naive Idealists
This episode tackles topics like when your partner screenshots instagram models, dating someone with herpes, and setting boundaries with friends.
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BLIND DATE: The National LGBTQ+ Women’s Community Survey
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Jun 28, 2021 • 1h 6min
Episode 148: A Swimming Pool of Success
This episode tackles topics like being a petty ass bitch, going from a throuple to a couple, and coming out without a clear label.
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BLIND DATE: JP Saxe: Dangerous Levels of Introspection, or maybe 25 in Barcelona or maybe just Julia Michaels in general?
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Jun 21, 2021 • 1h 24min
Episode 147: All Relationships Are Weird All The Time
This episode tackles topics like making things weird with your best friend, when your partner isn’t out to their family, and feeling like you need to catch up.
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BLIND DATE: Sam's appearance on BEHAVE Podcast
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis.
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Jun 14, 2021 • 1h 15min
Episode 146: Sam and Sierra Are Fighting
This episode tackles topics like asking for what you need repeatedly, being nonchalant about breaking up, and trusting too much too fast.
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BLIND DATE: Dirty John on Netflix
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Jun 7, 2021 • 1h 18min
Episode 145: He’s Just a Dude
This episode tackles topics like toxic workplace trauma, setting boundaries around drinking, and being conditioned to just give in.
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BLIND DATE: The All or Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work
Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis.
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May 31, 2021 • 1h 33min
Episode 144: Noted, and Ignored
This episode tackles topics like feeling like Dolly Parton begging Jolene not to take her man away, when you and your ex own an organic farm together, and being a potential sperm donor.
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BLIND DATE: Tulsa Burning: The 1921 Race Massacre
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