

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jun 14, 2023 • 28min
Episode 288: Love Lost In Translation
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose primary love language is gift giving and who is still waiting for her anniversary present.Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 12, 2023 • 41min
Episode 287: Reversing the Relationship Escalator
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to stop living together with her boyfriend but doesn't want to break up.Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 9, 2023 • 34min
Episode 286: People Need Other People
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like they're bad at making friends. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 7, 2023 • 25min
Episode 285: Addicted To Their Ex's Instagram
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop checking her boyfriend's ex's social media.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 5, 2023 • 45min
Episode 284: Is It Your Intuition or Your Anxiety?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't feel a lot of chemistry in his relationship but is afraid of self-sabotaging in the name of love. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 2, 2023 • 31min
Episode 283: You Don't Have To Act On Those Feelings
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose romantic feelings for her ex/friend have been rekindled. Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 31, 2023 • 25min
Episode 282: Does He Cosmically Owe You?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like the energy she put into her relationship isn't the energy she's getting back.Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 29, 2023 • 39min
Episode 281: Let FedEx Return That Engagement Ring
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has her ex's great-grandmother's engagement ring and doesn't know how to return it.Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 26, 2023 • 34min
Episode 280: You Can Let Go of That Pressure
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who had to just break up with a good person.Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 24, 2023 • 26min
Episode 279: Grief Has No Timeline
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is mourning her late biological father with whom she had a complicated relationship.Get tickets for Sierra's book events hereJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppodJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices