

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jan 15, 2024 • 44min
Episode 377: Not Anti-Social, Just Asocial
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has a crush but doesn't want to ruin friendships with it.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 12, 2024 • 31min
Episode 376: How To Trust Your Feelings
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to just break up, or maybe doesn't--it's hard to tell. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 10, 2024 • 25min
Episode 375: Daddy Issues
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is dating a father and isn't sure she wants to be.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 8, 2024 • 33min
Episode 374: Hi, I Dated Your Ex-Husband
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who recently ran into her ex's new ex-wife and wants to stir the drama pot.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 5, 2024 • 29min
Episode 373: Dating Is A Practice Of Being Seen
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels chronically single and is afraid of messing up dating. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 3, 2024 • 38min
Episode 372: Wait, Why Weren't You Talking For 10 Days?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to make it work with a person from her past. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 1, 2024 • 39min
Episode 371: I Accidentally Insulted My Boyfriend's Penis
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who made a comment about her partner's genitals and hurt his feelings.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 25, 2023 • 39min
PATREON BONUS - Seeking Love and Safety
Since we're taking this week off from posting regular episodes, we thought we'd unlock one of our favorite recent Patreon episodes. Originally released on 11/29/23, in this episode Sam and Sierra answer a letter about struggling with regret.If you support us on Patreon, you'll get access to hundreds of bonus episodes, ad-free episodes, monthly hangouts with Sam and Sierra, and more. Join now and help us reach our goal of 100 new patrons in January! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 22, 2023 • 34min
Episode 370: Coming Out As Childfree
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is apprehensive about telling her future in-laws that she doesn't want to have kids.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 20, 2023 • 27min
Episode 369: My Husband Is Obsessed With A OnlyFans Creator
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband stalked an OnlyFans creator. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices