

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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May 10, 2024 • 39min
Episode 425: There Doesn't Need To Be A "Strong One" In The Relationship
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling burnt out by work and unsupported by their partner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 8, 2024 • 32min
Episode 424: We're Moving In Together & I'm Spiraling!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is moving in with her partner and is panicking about it! Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 6, 2024 • 38min
Episode 423: Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was dumped over something he thought wasn't a big deal. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 3, 2024 • 29min
Episode 422: This Isn't The Ending To Every Story
The hosts explore anxieties in relationships, discussing past betrayals, managing crushes, and embracing vulnerability. They offer advice with humor and understanding, advocating for normalizing feelings and constructive coping strategies. Bonus content on Patreon includes support for mental health crisis and relationship memes.

May 1, 2024 • 40min
Episode 421: Feeling Healed? Visit Your Family.
Exploring family dynamics and setting boundaries, the episode delves into managing unsolicited advice, navigating adulthood in a capitalist society, and asserting oneself in familial relationships. The speakers offer advice on effective communication and self-care while reflecting on personal experiences.

Apr 29, 2024 • 32min
Episode 420: My Boyfriend Isn't Curious About Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose curiosity about her partner doesn't feel reciprocated.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 26, 2024 • 37min
Episode 419: Is It Diabolical Or Totally Understandable?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling insecure at home while her boyfriend is on a fun trip abroad.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 24, 2024 • 31min
Episode 418: Giving Head vs. Changing A Tire
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend wants more head.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 22, 2024 • 36min
Episode 417: Can I Fantasize About Women AND Love My Husband?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having queer fantasies for people other than her husband.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 19, 2024 • 29min
Episode 416: I Was Dumped For *Not* Cheating
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was dumped for *not* cheating on her long-distance boyfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices