Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
Episodes
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Jun 9, 2025 • 38min
Episode 588: His Browsing History Is Spicier Than Our Bedroom
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose very vanilla husband is looking at very spicy porn
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Jun 2, 2025 • 44min
Bonus Episode: He Wants Me to Be Sorrier for Being a Former Cam Model
Sam & Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend can't get over the fact that her former cam work might still exist online
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May 30, 2025 • 31min
Episode 587: What Does It Look Like for You to Say No More Often
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who wants to know why her mother gets to fully grieve but she doesn't
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May 28, 2025 • 37min
Episode 586: You're in Two Different Relationships and Both Aren't Working
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she's the toxic one after having an affair with her married coworker
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May 26, 2025 • 37min
Episode 585: Am I Doomed to Be Isolated With Kids in The Midwest?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling lost, afraid, and like she's running out of time
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May 23, 2025 • 38min
Episode 584: Do I Owe My Father Forgiveness?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose wondering if she should reconnect with her estranged father
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May 21, 2025 • 30min
Episode 583: He *Always* Picks Up When His Mom Calls
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is talking to his mom ALL THE TIME
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May 19, 2025 • 31min
Episode 582: So...My New Boyfriend Doesn't Tip
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is a terrible tipper
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May 16, 2025 • 32min
Episode 581: Now I Have to See Him at the Gym 6 Days a Week :(
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to hold space for the complex person his ex is
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May 14, 2025 • 39min
Episode 580: Navigating a Twenty Year Age Gap
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is concerned about the future of their relationship with someone who is 20 years older than them
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