

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jun 28, 2024 • 28min
Episode 446: Healing After Miscarriage
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who experienced a miscarriage and is feeling disconnected from her partner.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 26, 2024 • 31min
Episode 445: There Are Lots of Reasons People Get Married
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is considering marrying her boyfriend to help him gain citizenship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 21, 2024 • 27min
Episode 443: Making Space For Moving On
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to let go of her ex in light of her new connection.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 19, 2024 • 25min
Episode 442: Some Friends You Just Can't Travel With
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on a bad vacation with her friend and is now wondering if she should friend-break up.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 17, 2024 • 37min
Episode 441: It's Not Polyamory If Her Husband Doesn't Know
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is in a relationship with a married woman and who feels shame about potentially breaking up her family.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 14, 2024 • 29min
Episode 440: Losing Yourself In Your Compassion For Others
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose wife said she didn't want monogomy or cohabitation but then found it with another woman.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 12, 2024 • 23min
Episode 439: Having Sex On The Fourth Date
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is concerned that her sexuality lessened her value to a potential partner.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 10, 2024 • 33min
Episode 438: Heteronormative Tunnel Vision
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is really romantically interested in a woman but can only picture herself with a man longterm.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 7, 2024 • 28min
Episode 437: Regretting That Last Text
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with her MIA boyfriend over text but is regretting their relationship ending in that way.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 5, 2024 • 25min
Episode 436: ADHD And My Overstimulating Apartment
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was recently diagnosed with ADHD and is wondering how to manager her overstimulating apartment she shares with her boyfriend.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodTWITTER: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices