

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Jan 8, 2025 • 31min
Episode 526: It's Time to Lay Down Your Sword
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling discouraged after his very intense but very unhealthy relationship with his ex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 6, 2025 • 33min
Episode 525: Communication Confusion
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to have emotional and introspective conversations with her partner but he doesn't seem to be able to.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppodLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 3, 2025 • 29min
Episode 524: Super Avoidant Attachment Girl
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure if she wants to break up with her boyfriend or if it's just her avoidant attachment style.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 1, 2025 • 27min
Episode 523: Honestly, I'm Leading Myself On
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is looking for permission to end her unavailable, long-distance situationship.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 30, 2024 • 33min
Episode 522: The Orgasm Gap
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is scared to talk to her boyfriend about her ability to orgasm.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 20, 2024 • 24min
Episode 521: Am I Being Mistreated Or Am I Just Too Sensitive?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she is being mistreated in her exhausting relationship or if she is just too sensitive. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 18, 2024 • 30min
Episode 520: This Sounds Like a Christmas Movie
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is going on a Christmas trip with his friend who he is also maybe in love with.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 16, 2024 • 35min
Episode 519: My Toxic Ex Still Owes Me Money
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who took on a large amount of debt with her toxic ex.Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 13, 2024 • 35min
Episode 518: Can't Unhear The Mean Things You Said
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to forget the cruel things their partner said. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 11, 2024 • 28min
Episode 517: Who Has This Strap On Been In Before?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop getting upset when they think about their partner's past sex life. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.comFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppodINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices