Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Sep 26, 2025 • 31min
Episode 635: What Is This Tingly Sexy Feeling?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is suddenly horny for her coworker after 8 years of being not into sex
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Sep 24, 2025 • 35min
Episode 634: Limerence Is Ruining My Life
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has suddenly become obsessed with an ex she hasn't seen in 14 years
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Sep 22, 2025 • 34min
Episode 633: The Retired Slut
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex was upset by her body count and her past infidelity
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Sep 19, 2025 • 32min
Episode 632: You're Not A Secret To Be Kept
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to be okay with her boyfriend and ex-friend still being close
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Sep 17, 2025 • 28min
Episode 631: Navigating Sexual Incompatibilities
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling jealous of his partner's sexual past
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Sep 15, 2025 • 38min
Episode 630: My Bestie Is Cheating On Her Husband!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know if she can keep a big secret for her friend
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Sep 12, 2025 • 34min
Episode 629: Am I Destined to Be Alone?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to feel positive about dating but just doesn't
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Sep 10, 2025 • 31min
Episode 628: Why Won't My Fiancé Connect with My Family?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't want family speeches at their wedding
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Sep 8, 2025 • 39min
Episode 627: My Partner Keeps Bringing Up His Exes
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner has had many serious relationships
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Sep 5, 2025 • 32min
Episode 626: My Parents Didn't Wish Me Happy Birthday
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling like they can't be casual with their parents right now
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