Swinger University™ - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Show
Ed and Phoebe Swinger
We are Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University Show, where we discuss open relationships, sexual health, communication, consent, events, resorts, cruises, and vacations where we've been. We've had the privilege of interviewing esteemed guests such as Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., and Curious Girl's Diaries, to name a few, gaining valuable perspectives from industry experts. Our podcast is also recognized as one of the top-ranked podcasts in the swinger realm. If you're searching for a swinger podcast that cuts through the noise and provides real, practical advice, you've found it. We delve into everything from newbie tips and first-time experiences to advanced communication strategies, sexual health, relationship dynamics, and navigating the lifestyle safely. Whether you're curious about swinging, polyamory, or alternative relationships, our information-rich episodes help you build stronger bonds, explore your desires safely, and confidently navigate the world of ethical non-monogamy.Subscribe to Swinger University and join our community of open-minded couples and individuals exploring consensual adult lifestyles!Why Listen?- Get real, unfiltered insights into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy- Learn from experienced swingers about communication, consent, and boundaries- Discover practical advice for navigating swinger parties, clubs, and dating- Hear inspiring stories and experiences from within the lifestyle community- Strengthen your relationship with expert advice on intimacy and sexual exploration- Find answers to your questions about open relationships and alternative lifestylesConnect with Us:Spicy Extras & Behind the Scenes Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityVacations-Newsletter-Send Us A Message: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll our links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityshowFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity#swingeruniversity #swingupodcast #naughtyschoolhouse #swingerlifestyle #ethicalnonmonogamy #openrelationships #polyamory #lifestylepodcast #relationshipadvice #sexpositive
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Apr 17, 2025 • 53min
Does your swinger card expire?
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comFeeling like the lifestyle doesn’t light you up anymore? You’re not alone—and this episode is for you.In this powerful conversation, Ed and Phoebe from Swinger University sit down with Kel from Expansive Connection to talk about what it really means when your desires evolve and swinging starts to feel... different.🌶️Get extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.netJoin our YouTube channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe7DmFew6-HGxq-4ocl61LQ/join🔥 Whether it’s the same parties, same people, or just a fading thrill, this episode explores how to:- Recognize when your lifestyle interests shift- Embrace change without guilt or shame- Let go of self-judgment and outdated identities- Rewrite your story and rediscover what truly lights you up💬 Kel—Certified Adult Chair Coach, Relational Life Therapy Coach, and Enneagram Coach—shares transformative tools to help you reconnect with your authentic self and reignite passion in your relationships.✨ If you’re feeling stuck, burned out, or like the tribe you once loved doesn’t feel like home anymore, this episode is your invitation to something new.Sourceshttps://www.expansiveconnection.com/ Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Apr 2, 2025 • 35min
How a Random Podcast Changed Our Marriage Forever! - Our First Swinger Experience
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comHave you ever had a night that changed everything? 🤯 We did. One minute we were a normal couple, listening to a podcast... the next, we were plunging headfirst into a secret swinger party we found on Craigslist! 😳Join us as we reveal the shocking, raw, and completely unexpected story of how we became swingers. We were nervous, excited, and totally out of our depth at this "Share Your Wife" party with total strangers. Things got WILD. 😱Curious about the swinging lifestyle? Want to know what it's really like to attend your first swinger event? We're sharing our unfiltered experience, from the initial curiosity to the moment we walked through the door.But be warned... there was a shocking and violating club entrance requirement we NEVER saw coming. 😨 You won't believe what happened!Whether you're new to swinging, considering exploring open relationships, or just love a crazy story, you won't want to miss this!Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Mar 19, 2025 • 41min
Unlocking the Swinger Lifestyle: No Experience Required!
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comAre you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, this video will give you the confidence to take the first step into the swinger lifestyle. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive in! Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Mar 5, 2025 • 1h 9min
Is Swinging at Risk? The Political Fight for Non-Monogamy Rights
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comWith the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and families.Brett shares how OPEN is working to end stigma, change laws, and support non-monogamous communities through workplace advocacy, municipal protections, and visibility efforts. Learn about the challenges facing swingers, polyamorous individuals, and other ethically non-monogamous (ENM) people—and how you can get involved to make a difference.🔹 Key Topics Covered:✔️ Legal rights and challenges for non-monogamous relationships✔️ Workplace discrimination & advocacy efforts✔️ The importance of visibility and cultural acceptance✔️ How non-monogamous communities can support each other✔️ Steps to get involved in legislative changeResources: https://www.open-love.org/resourcesDiscord: https://discord.com/invite/5apvGGp3QuPrint Materials: https://www.open-love.org/print-materialsMixers Guide: https://www.open-love.org/mixers-guidePeer Support: https://www.open-love.org/peer-supportSurvey 2024: https://www.open-love.org/blog/open-2024-community-survey-report Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Feb 19, 2025 • 48min
ED, Performance Anxiety & Swinging – The Secrets No One Talks About
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comYou're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone!In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pressure to perform, and how new situations, alcohol, and sensory overload can contribute.More importantly, we share real solutions—from mindset shifts and relaxation techniques to pharmaceutical options and lifestyle changes—to help you stay confident and present in the moment. Whether you're new to swinging or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with practical tips to overcome ED and enhance your playtime experience.🔹 Why does performance anxiety happen?🔹 The impact of stress, alcohol, and new experiences🔹 How to shift your mindset and stay present🔹 Tips for handling ED gracefully in the moment🔹 Viagra, Cialis, Trimix, and natural alternatives🔹 Communication and consent: How to set the stage for success Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Feb 5, 2025 • 1h 12min
America’s Sex Ed Problem: Alex Liu Tells All in "A Sexplanation"
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasure can reshape our understanding of intimacy. Episode Links:A Sexplanation Trailer: https://tr.ee/y1QeX_KNhMA Sexplanation Film: https://tr.ee/muGR_SxEepAlex's Links: https://linktr.ee/asexplanationHera Productions: https://www.herraproductions.com/aboutA Sexplanation Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Sexplanation Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Jan 22, 2025 • 35min
Alcohol and Cancer Risk: What Every Swinger Should Know
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and hormone disruptions), and how it can influence consent and decision-making in intimate situations. Discover tips for navigating swinger events sober, building confidence, and enhancing experiences without alcohol. Whether you're curious about cutting back or just exploring a healthier lifestyle within swinging, this episode is packed with insights, humor, and actionable advice to keep you informed and empowered.Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Jan 15, 2025 • 49min
We Threw Out All Our Rules - But How Did You Feel?
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or reflecting on your own journey, this candid discussion will inspire and entertain. Tune in for honest conversations, personal growth, and a touch of humor!#SwingerUniversity #SwingingLifestyle #FullSwap #OpenRelationships #LifestyleJourney #EmotionalGrowth #SwingingCouples #Relationships #LifestylePodcast #Communication #PersonalGrowth onesmallchange Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Jan 8, 2025 • 41min
Navigate New Relationship Energy NRE - Without Breaking your Marriage!
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comNavigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger UniversityCan New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relationship.✨ What you'll learn:What NRE is and how it impacts your emotions and decisions.The hormonal chemistry behind NRE and its addictive allure.How to reintroduce novelty and passion into long-term relationships.Tips to navigate NRE safely while preserving trust and communication in your marriage.Discover how swinging can amplify connection, spark curiosity, and keep your relationship thriving—without crossing the line.📞 Have a question or story to share? Call us at 916-538-0482, and your question could be featured on the show!🎯 Keywords & Hashtags:#SwingerUniversity #NavigateNRE #NewRelationshipEnergy #SwingingLifestyle #MarriageTips #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositiveCommunity #OpenRelationships #TrustAndCommunication Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
Dec 25, 2024 • 1h 19min
Unlock Your Best Sex Life with Ashley Manta - Mindfulness, Cannabis, and Consent
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comDiscover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether you're looking to ignite passion in your relationships or expand your understanding of intimacy, this episode is packed with practical insights and advice. Tune in to this must-listen conversation and unlock your best sex life with guidance from a true expert!🕑Key Moments:00:00:00 - Welcome and introductions00:01:42 - Ashley Manta, award-winning sex educator00:07:23 - Sex and Cannabis and Swinging00:16:52 - Consent in the non-monogamy community00:31:56 - Some facts about STIs and the myths of "We're Tested and Clean"00:46:46 - Skilled lovers vs. Novelty01:09:17 - Wrap Up and Discount Codes Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
