Swinger University™ - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle Show
Ed and Phoebe Swinger
Explore the exciting world of the Swinger Lifestyle with Swinger University, your essential swinger show for couples exploring ethical non-monogamy! Hosted by Ed and Phoebe, with over a decade of experience in the swinging lifestyle, we bring you honest and insightful conversations about open relationships, consensual non-monogamy, and intimate connections.If you're searching for a swinger podcast that cuts through the noise and provides real, practical advice, you've found it. We delve into everything from newbie tips and first-time experiences to advanced communication strategies, sexual health, relationship dynamics, and navigating the lifestyle safely. Whether you're curious about swinging, polyamory, or alternative relationships, our information-rich episodes help you build stronger bonds, explore your desires safely, and confidently navigate the world of ethical non-monogamy.Subscribe to Swinger University and join our community of open-minded couples and individuals exploring consensual adult lifestyles!Why Listen?- Get real, unfiltered insights into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy- Learn from experienced swingers about communication, consent, and boundaries- Discover practical advice for navigating swinger parties, clubs, and dating- Hear inspiring stories and experiences from within the lifestyle community- Strengthen your relationship with expert advice on intimacy and sexual exploration- Find answers to your questions about open relationships and alternative lifestylesConnect with Us:Spicy Extras & Behind the Scenes Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityVacations-Newsletter-Send Us A Message: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll our links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity#swingeruniversity #swingupodcast #naughtyschoolhouse #swingerlifestyle #ethicalnonmonogamy #openrelationships #polyamory #lifestylepodcast #relationshipadvice #sexpositive
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Mar 19, 2025 • 40min
Unlocking the Swinger Lifestyle: No Experience Required!
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comAre you curious about the swinger lifestyle but don't know where to start? This video is for you! We'll take you on a journey to unlock the secrets of this exciting and often misunderstood world, no experience required. From understanding what happens at parties to navigating the rules and etiquette, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or just curious about what goes on behind closed doors, this video will give you the confidence to take the first step into the swinger lifestyle. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive in!Support the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Mar 5, 2025 • 1h 8min
Is Swinging at Risk? The Political Fight for Non-Monogamy Rights
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comWith the current political climate taking aim at diversity, equity, and inclusion... Is the swinger lifestyle in the crosshairs? Are decisions being made that will affect our community? In this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director at OPEN—a nonprofit dedicated to advocating for polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and legal rights for non-monogamous individuals and families.Brett shares how OPEN is working to end stigma, change laws, and support non-monogamous communities through workplace advocacy, municipal protections, and visibility efforts. Learn about the challenges facing swingers, polyamorous individuals, and other ethically non-monogamous (ENM) people—and how you can get involved to make a difference.🔹 Key Topics Covered:✔️ Legal rights and challenges for non-monogamous relationships✔️ Workplace discrimination & advocacy efforts✔️ The importance of visibility and cultural acceptance✔️ How non-monogamous communities can support each other✔️ Steps to get involved in legislative changeResources: https://www.open-love.org/resourcesDiscord: https://discord.com/invite/5apvGGp3QuPrint Materials: https://www.open-love.org/print-materialsMixers Guide: https://www.open-love.org/mixers-guidePeer Support: https://www.open-love.org/peer-supportSurvey 2024: https://www.open-love.org/blog/open-2024-community-survey-reportSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Feb 19, 2025 • 47min
ED, Performance Anxiety & Swinging – The Secrets No One Talks About
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comYou're in the moment—the music is sexy, the lighting is perfect, and your partner is ready. But suddenly… nothing happens. Your mind races, and the pressure builds. Sound familiar? You’re not alone!In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe dive deep into performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction (ED) in the swinging lifestyle. We discuss the psychological and physiological causes of ED, the pressure to perform, and how new situations, alcohol, and sensory overload can contribute.More importantly, we share real solutions—from mindset shifts and relaxation techniques to pharmaceutical options and lifestyle changes—to help you stay confident and present in the moment. Whether you're new to swinging or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with practical tips to overcome ED and enhance your playtime experience.🔹 Why does performance anxiety happen?🔹 The impact of stress, alcohol, and new experiences🔹 How to shift your mindset and stay present🔹 Tips for handling ED gracefully in the moment🔹 Viagra, Cialis, Trimix, and natural alternatives🔹 Communication and consent: How to set the stage for successSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Feb 5, 2025 • 1h 11min
America’s Sex Ed Problem: Alex Liu Tells All in "A Sexplanation"
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, we sit down with Alex Liu, the writer, director, and star of "A Sexplanation", a groundbreaking documentary that dives into sexual stigma, shame, and the lack of comprehensive sex education. Alex shares his journey from molecular biology to filmmaking, tackling taboos around sex, drugs, and identity. We explore how better conversations about consent, sexuality, and pleasure can reshape our understanding of intimacy. Episode Links:A Sexplanation Trailer: https://tr.ee/y1QeX_KNhMA Sexplanation Film: https://tr.ee/muGR_SxEepAlex's Links: https://linktr.ee/asexplanationHera Productions: https://www.herraproductions.com/aboutA Sexplanation Wiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_SexplanationSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Jan 22, 2025 • 35min
Alcohol and Cancer Risk: What Every Swinger Should Know
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this eye-opening episode of Swinger University, Phoebe and Ed dive into the surprising connection between alcohol, swinging, and health risks. Explore how the social and uninhibited nature of alcohol impacts swingers, from parties to resorts and cruises, and why it’s everywhere in the lifestyle. Learn about alcohol's lesser-known classification as a carcinogen, its effects on health (like cancer risks and hormone disruptions), and how it can influence consent and decision-making in intimate situations. Discover tips for navigating swinger events sober, building confidence, and enhancing experiences without alcohol. Whether you're curious about cutting back or just exploring a healthier lifestyle within swinging, this episode is packed with insights, humor, and actionable advice to keep you informed and empowered.Support the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Jan 15, 2025 • 48min
We Threw Out All Our Rules - But How Did You Feel?
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comIn this episode of Swinger University, we take a deep dive into our first full-swap experience and address insightful listener questions about the psychological and emotional dynamics that come with breaking traditional boundaries. From the thrill of connection to the surprising emotions that emerged, we explore how our feelings evolved and the lessons we learned along the way. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or reflecting on your own journey, this candid discussion will inspire and entertain. Tune in for honest conversations, personal growth, and a touch of humor!#SwingerUniversity #SwingingLifestyle #FullSwap #OpenRelationships #LifestyleJourney #EmotionalGrowth #SwingingCouples #Relationships #LifestylePodcast #Communication #PersonalGrowth onesmallchangeSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Jan 8, 2025 • 40min
Navigate New Relationship Energy NRE - Without Breaking your Marriage!
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comNavigate New Relationship Energy (NRE) – Without Breaking Your Marriage! | Swinger UniversityCan New Relationship Energy (NRE) bring excitement and passion to your life, or is it a risky road for your marriage? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore the highs and lows of NRE, offering science-backed insights and practical advice to help you enjoy the thrill of new connections without compromising your relationship.✨ What you'll learn:What NRE is and how it impacts your emotions and decisions.The hormonal chemistry behind NRE and its addictive allure.How to reintroduce novelty and passion into long-term relationships.Tips to navigate NRE safely while preserving trust and communication in your marriage.Discover how swinging can amplify connection, spark curiosity, and keep your relationship thriving—without crossing the line.📞 Have a question or story to share? Call us at 916-538-0482, and your question could be featured on the show!🎯 Keywords & Hashtags:#SwingerUniversity #NavigateNRE #NewRelationshipEnergy #SwingingLifestyle #MarriageTips #RelationshipAdvice #SexPositiveCommunity #OpenRelationships #TrustAndCommunicationSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Dec 25, 2024 • 1h 18min
Unlock Your Best Sex Life with Ashley Manta - Mindfulness, Cannabis, and Consent
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comDiscover the secrets to becoming the lover everyone dreams of with Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. In this episode of Swinger University, Ed and Phoebe explore transformative topics like mindfulness in intimacy, the role of cannabis in enhancing connection, consent, STI prevention (including the dreaded HSV/Herpes), and expert tips for elevating your sex life. Whether you're looking to ignite passion in your relationships or expand your understanding of intimacy, this episode is packed with practical insights and advice. Tune in to this must-listen conversation and unlock your best sex life with guidance from a true expert!🕑Key Moments:00:00:00 - Welcome and introductions00:01:42 - Ashley Manta, award-winning sex educator00:07:23 - Sex and Cannabis and Swinging00:16:52 - Consent in the non-monogamy community00:31:56 - Some facts about STIs and the myths of "We're Tested and Clean"00:46:46 - Skilled lovers vs. Novelty01:09:17 - Wrap Up and Discount CodesSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Dec 11, 2024 • 37min
Flirting Masterclass: How to Approach, Connect, & Seal the Deal in Any Dating Situation
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comHave you ever been confused about a couple's interest after a party or dinner? Well no more, you'll be masters at approaching, connecting & sealing the deal. In this episode, we dive into the art of reading signals and confidently navigating how to close the deal with new partners. Whether you're new or seasoned, you'll learn how to interpret subtle cues, handle ambiguous situations, and ensure you're always prepared for exciting possibilities. If you have ever struggled approaching a prospective date, you won't want to miss this episode!☝️Remember to: like, subscribe, comment, and share your thoughts!✏️This post contains affiliate links.#SwingerTips #LifestyleConfidence #RelationshipAdvice #SwingerPodcast #OpenRelationships #AdultEducation #SwingerUniversitySupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
Nov 27, 2024 • 43min
Admit You're DTF - It's Okay, We Understand!
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comAre terms like "DTF" or "friends with benefits" shaping the swinger lifestyle, or are they masking deeper dynamics? Are swinger just hiding behind the safety of the "friends" label? In this video, we explore the complexities of forming friendships within the lifestyle, discuss the challenges and stigmas tied to "DTF" and "FWB," and uncover how labels impact relationships. Whether you're navigating ENM, curious about swinging, or just seeking insight, this episode has something for everyone.🔑 Key Moments:00:00:00 - Introduction: Is "DTF" a bad thing?00:00:26 - Aren't we all DTF?00:03:00 - The stigma of being DTF in the lifestyle00:07:15 - Defining "friends with benefits" vs. true friendship00:08:43 - Stigma and Shame surrounding sex00:10:05 - Urban myths - They're muscles so exercise them!00:12:30 - Navigating challenges in FWB relationships00:18:45 - Are labels hiding deeper truths about swingers?00:24:00 - Practical tips for forming meaningful connections00:34:00 - The Friend Zone00:39:03 - Wrap Up and Questions For YouSupport the show3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail. Our Links: 📺YouTube - Like to watch? 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net SwingerLinks.com - Our Links PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.
