

Behaviorally Speaking
RethinkCare
Board Certified Behavior Analysts Angela Nelson and Kristin Bandi bring together nearly four decades of experience working with children, teens, and their parents. Their knowledge and expertise in implementing Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy has already helped thousands of parents better understand their children and improve everyday behaviors. Behaviorally Speaking focuses on common scenarios most parents face and provides tangible, lighthearted tips and techniques you can use in your own home.
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Sep 24, 2026 • 47min
Consequences 101: Why behavior happens again
On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk all about consequences, rewards, and more. They dive into how we think about and use consequences effectively, leading to better parent-child relationships and fewer power struggles at home. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Aug 21, 2026 • 53min
The Wonderful World of Friendships
On this episode, Angela and Kristin do a deep dive into the vast topic of friendships. They look at why they are important, how they are formed and maintained, and what parents can do to support their children along the way. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Jul 21, 2026 • 56min
Teaching Our Kids (and Ourselves!) How to Be Comfortable Being Uncomfortable
On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined again by Adrienne to talk about what else? Uncomfortable things! They discuss why we and our kids avoid uncomfortable situations, the value in allowing (not avoiding) discomfort, and how to do it, even when it doesn’t feel great. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Jun 30, 2026 • 44min
Family Values: What They Are, How to Teach Team, and What Happens When We Don’t Agree
On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined by a guest, Adrienne, who talks about the ins and outs of family values. They dive into what they are, why they’re important, how to teach them to your kids, and what to do when values change or conflict with one another. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

May 22, 2026 • 37min
Navigating the Sandwich Generation
On this episode, Angela and Kristin uncover the sandwich generation concept. They talk about what this generation is, important statistics, the challenges that this group faces, and tips to help make this juggling experience more manageable and feel more balanced. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Apr 22, 2026 • 33min
Navigating Bedtime Struggles 2.0
On this episode, Angela and Kristin dive into the foundations of sleep and bedtime struggles, not just listing out strategies you can search on the internet. They provide guidance on assessing the real problem parents are trying to solve, setting up an environment conducive to better sleep routines, and truly committing to making the changes that lead to fewer nighttime struggles. They remind parents that as the adults, we have incredible influence on the direction of our kids’ bedtime and sleep habits. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Mar 26, 2026 • 35min
Supporting Kids Through Difficult Current Events in the News
On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk about supporting kids when viewing difficult current events in the news. They dive into 5 tips to help parents support their kids’ wellbeing and emotional health, in age-appropriate ways, while still leaning in to being informed about the world. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Feb 21, 2026 • 49min
Raising Bilingual Kids
On this episode, Angela and Kristin are joined by a guest, Jess, to talk all about bilingualism and kids. Jess will answer questions about how to get started nurturing multiple languages, the different approaches to bilingualism, and dispel common myths. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Feb 2, 2026 • 45min
Kids and AI: The Good, The Bad, and Where Parents Fit In
On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk with their colleagues, Brad (senior data scientist at RethinkFirst) and Dusty (head of AI at RethinkFirst). They go over what AI is, the exciting parts, the risky and scary parts, and how parents can help their kids and teens use AI responsibly. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.

Dec 18, 2025 • 1h 1min
What’s up with Youth Sports?!
On this episode, Angela and Kristin talk the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to modern youth sports. They also discuss how parents can make the best decision for not only their child but whole family when it comes to this hot topic. Angela Nelson, EdD, BCBA, and Kristin Bandi, MA, BCBA, are Board Certified Behavior Analysts with expertise on human behavior and child development. They spend their days working with parents and caregivers of both typically developing children as well as children with learning, social, and behavioral challenges, or developmental disabilities. This podcast is brought to you by RethinkCare. If you need support as a parent or caregiver of a child, we encourage you to ask your Human Resources team if RethinkCare is a part of your employer-provided benefits. RethinkCare reaches millions of lives globally through partnerships with top organizations and Fortune 1,000 companies.


