The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair

Michelle Chalfant
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Mar 16, 2017 • 30min

057: Cataloging the results of our Childhood Programming with Lisa Romano

The baggage we bring with us to adulthood can be stunningly resilient. Relationships with our family, friends, and mentors have a staying power far beyond our conscious memories. Lisa A. Romano is a Certified Life Coach who specializes in mentoring adult children of alcoholics who are seeking to move beyond their painful pasts. She is also a bestselling author, radio show host, and speaker. Her latest book "Codependent Now What — It's not you, it's your programming" is available now, all of which makes her the perfect guest to join us today to talk about her experience freeing herself from her own childhood programming, and how her work today serves to help others do the same. Links & Notes LisaARomano.com Find Lisa on YouTube Lisa Romano on Blog Talk Radio Books by Lisa Romano
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Mar 9, 2017 • 17min

056: What do I do with my Feelings and Emotions?

As humans, we feel things deeply. Many of us cope with those feelings — particularly the negative ones — with some sort of numbing agent like food, or booze, or anything to minimize the impact of those feelings in our daily lives. But what do we do with those feelings and emotions get stuck? What do we do when we start to get baked in that shape of grief? This week on the show we're talking all about the practice of moving with and through our emotions, and share the key strategies you can use to face your fears without resorting to escape!
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Mar 2, 2017 • 23min

055: What's Life Like in the Adult Chair?

The journey of The Adult Chair is not one of a destination, but rather an understanding. This week on the show, we talk about the confusion that can come to those who expect to live in their adult all the time, the frustration that comes with you feel like you finally understand what it feels like to sit in your Adult Chair, only to experience being snapped back into your Adolescent Chair thanks to your environment. Here's the trick: it's impossible to live in your Adult Chair all the time, but today we're going to tell you why!
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Feb 23, 2017 • 30min

054: Narcissism, Codependence, and the Self-Love Deficit with Ross Rosenberg

Today on the show, Ross Rosenberg joins us to talk about narcissism and codependence. The concepts are tied together, says Ross, and he spends much of his work helping others understand this spectrum through his concept of "self-love deficit disorder." He joins us to share the roots of narcissism, how narcissists present in relationships, and even delves into tools for protecting ourselves when we are engaging with pathological narcissists in our lives. Ross Rosenberg, is a counselor, trainer, and author of the best-selling book, The Human Magnet Syndrome. He's also a prolific YouTube creator — his videos have been viewed over five million times! He's trained around the world and is regularly featured on national TV and radio. You can find him blogging for The Huffington Post, PsychCentral.com and TheGoodMenProject.com. Links & Notes Gaslighting Is Everywhere — A Webinar with Ross Rosenberg February 25, 2017 About Ross Rosenberg TheHumanMagnetSyndrome.com Advanced Clinical Trainers Ross Rosenberg on YouTube Ross Rosenberg on Facebook Ross Rosenberg on Twitter Ross Rosenberg on LinkedIn
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Feb 15, 2017 • 10min

What is Life Like in the Adult Chair?

What's life like in the Adult Chair? Hi everyone! I felt really inspired today when I was in the shower and I decided to record my inspiration while I got ready this morning. Please excuse the banging around I was doing as I didn't know at the time that I would launch this to the group but it was such great information, I decided to share it with you. I hear people say to me that they were in their Adult Chair all day today until something happened and they moved chairs. That's really hard to do and in this audio I explain why. I also explain what life is like and isn't like in the Adult Chair. Have a listen as it's only 10 minutes. Let me know what you think! Xoxo Michelle
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Feb 14, 2017 • 8min

Meditation 15: I Am Love

We're nothing but love, and we don't have to do anything to get it, for it is within.
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Feb 9, 2017 • 38min

053: Let's Talk about Sex.

Yes, it's true: intimacy is about more than just sex. But the physiological and psychological benefits of investing time and attention on your sex life can do wonders when it comes to rekindling intimacy in your relationship. This week on the show, we're thrilled to have Prana Regina Barrett join us to help us better understand the role of sex in our emotional and physical well-being, and how a mindful tantra practice can open the door to a new level of depth with your partner! About Prana Regina Barrett Prana Regina Barrett, author of Lighter: Living Tantra, is the lead educator and Phoenix Rising Yoga Therapist at Tantra to Love. Gina offers private sessions, workshops, retreats, teacher trainings and sacred ceremonies worldwide. She recently relocated her school and private practice from Portland, Maine to Crestone, Colorado. You can join her and her husband John Rene Berard for couples tantra getaways at The Salida Palace Hotel or Joyful Journey Hot Springs, both located in beautiful south central Colorado! Links & Notes Tantra to Love Lighter Living Tantra by Prana Regina Barrett Find Tantra to Love on Facebook Find Regina on Instagram Follow Regina on Twitter
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Feb 2, 2017 • 29min

052: Keys to a Successful Relationship

It's February! That means we're entering the season of love around these parts, and what better time is there to talk about the keys to a successful, strong, long-lasting and loving relationship. From communication to false assumptions, this week on the show we're talking all about how we accept our partners with tools and frameworks that will help you approach your relationship from your Adult Chair.
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Jan 26, 2017 • 30min

051: Find your Authentic Self at the Heart of Your Enneagram

The Enneagram provides us a method for understanding our own personality in terms of our relationship with the world and our true selves. This week on the show, I sit down with our friend Ramona Reid of Nashville Center for Alternative Therapy for an introduction to the Enneagram and the benefits that come with understanding how the Enneagram can work for you. Ramona is a skilled intuitive Enneagram coach and offers us truly inspirational insights today! To learn more about the Enneagram, make sure to click through the links below, and reach out directly to Ramona for your own Enneagram consultation! Links & Notes The Wisdom of the Enneagram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types The Enneagram Institute Intuitive Enneagram Coaching with Ramona Reid
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Jan 19, 2017 • 37min

050: The Art of Surrender

When we surrender, we're choosing to let go of control of a situation. It's consciously letting go of the ego and drive to dominate a situation with trust that the future will unfold as it is meant to. This is a position of peace, not trauma, relief, not stress. This week on the show, Pete kicks us off with a story of his own surrender, losing a decade of his own professional photography work and finding a path to releasing control, finding relief from the panic attached to the outcome, and sitting in the Adult Chair. Surrender allows you to write the story of peace in your own future, existing in the full-body experience of release that comes with intentional detachment from struggle. Links & Notes Pete's Instagram — Photography Lives!

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