The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair

I’m joined today by the mystical and deeply inspiring Alana Fairchild, an internationally known spiritual teacher, author, and creator of more than 70 beloved Oracle decks. Together, we explore how to navigate seasons of transformation, embody the divine feminine, and trust the mysterious timing of our own blooming. Alana shares profound wisdom on eclipse energy as a spiritual reset, helping us understand why moments of uncertainty, exhaustion, or grief often arrive before major breakthroughs. We also dive into what it means to awaken the divine feminine within, how to listen to your intuition, and why learning to trust life’s rhythm is the key to inner peace. In this episode, you’ll hear: How to work with eclipse energy as a spiritual “reboot” The healing power of grief and surrender What divine feminine energy really means (and how to embody it) The role of Oracle cards as a bridge to your intuition and inner guidance This is a conversation about trusting your unfolding, honoring your rhythm, and remembering who you truly are. Resources from this Episode: Explore Alana’s Oracle decks, meditations, and courses, including her upcoming series on the goddesses Isis, Kali, and Mother Mary, at alanafairchild.com. Connect with Alana @alana_fairchild and on Facebook. ✨ Join Michelle’s free Annual 30-day Journaling Challenge ✨   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Today, I’m diving into one of my favorite topics: journaling. As we head into the 30-Day Journaling Challenge, I’m sharing how this simple daily practice can help you release emotions, gain clarity, and connect more deeply with yourself. I’ll walk you through why journaling is such a powerful healing tool, how it helps calm your nervous system, and even how to use it for manifesting, inner child work, and self-discovery. You’ll see that journaling isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence, honesty, and giving your inner world a voice. In this episode, I share: How journaling helps you process emotions and regulate your nervous system Simple ways to access your inner wisdom through writing Creative journaling ideas for healing, growth, and manifestation How to make journaling a sacred and nurturing self-care practice Join the Free 30-Day Journaling Challenge: Join thousands of people around the world starting November 1 for a free month of guided journaling. You’ll receive one prompt each day to help you uncover insights and move energy in powerful new ways. ✨ Sign up at theadultchair.com/journal Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Today, I’m diving into the powerful practice of cord cutting - a simple but transformative way to release old ties and reclaim your own energy. We create energetic cords with everyone we interact with, from loved ones to strangers. These connections can weigh us down with resentment, heartbreak, and even other people’s emotions. Cord cutting isn’t about ending relationships. It’s about keeping your energy field clean, clear, and truly your own. In this episode, I share: What energetic cords are and how they affect us Why cutting cords doesn’t mean cutting people out of your life Simple, practical ways to cut cords through visualization and intention How cord cutting frees us from resentment, trauma, and unhealthy dynamics This isn’t just about feeling lighter. It’s about stepping into your own power, creating space for peace, and opening the door to healthier, more fulfilling connections.   Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! A Meditation: Cleansing Relationships & Cutting Cords   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Yes, you read that right. In this episode, I share a very real and very unexpected story about what happened when I accidentally swallowed a dental tool, and how I used the Adult Chair model to navigate nine days of fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. What could have been a terrifying and overwhelming experience became a powerful opportunity for me to practice exactly what I teach: grounding, regulating my nervous system, and staying connected to myself no matter what was happening around me. In this episode, I open up about: How I calmed myself using fact and truth, grounding, and slow breathing The importance of asking “Why is this happening for me?” instead of “Why is this happening to me?” The parts work and inner healing that surfaced through this experience How feelings of anger, fear, and even betrayal led me to uncover old root beliefs This story isn’t just about an unusual accident. It’s about how we can move from fear to empowerment, from victim to adult, and from disconnection back to our true selves. Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Small Group Coaching is Back! Join us beginning October 7th: michellechalfant.com/octoberlive    MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

In this episode, I sit down with Suzanne Chilton to dive deep into the world of reflexology. Suzanne shares her personal journey from a career in the arts to discovering the healing benefits of reflexology while caring for her husband through invasive cancer treatments.  We discuss how reflexology can support self-care, wellness, and health by naturally reducing stress, anxiety, and inflammation. Suzanne explains the interconnectedness of the body's systems and demonstrates practical techniques to relieve tension and promote balance.  Whether you're looking for natural ways to enhance your well-being or curious about alternative therapies, this conversation is filled with valuable insights and practical tips to start your reflexology journey. In this episode, you’ll hear: How the feet mirror the entire body and support physical, emotional, and energetic healing The connection between reflexology, acupuncture, chakras, and the body’s energy lines Simple self-reflexology techniques to ease stress, anxiety, and even neck pain Ways reflexology can support sleep, digestion, immunity, and overall balance How parents can use reflexology with babies and children for natural relief and bonding Resources from this Episode: Connect with Suzanne Chilton on Instagram & Facebook @footgurureflexology Suzanne’s Website: www.footgurureflexology.com/links (access tutorials, foot maps, online courses, and pro trainings) Special Offer: Foot Map Miracle Mini-Course    MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Have you ever asked yourself, “What am I really here to do?” If you feel stuck, unfulfilled, or unsure about your purpose, you are not alone. I hear this question all the time, and I’ve been there myself. In this episode, I’m sharing a fresh way to think about purpose. It’s not something you have to go out and chase, it already lives inside of you. The real work is learning how to align with it. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: How to recognize the clues in your own life story that point toward your purpose Why following the “breadcrumbs” of curiosity can open new doors Simple ways to reconnect with your inner child and rediscover joy and creativity How to notice the energy shifts that signal you’re on the right path The powerful questions I ask when I feel unclear or stuck   Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Inner Child Meditation   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Not every relationship is meant to last forever. Friendships, partnerships, even family or work connections can shift. Sometimes the healthiest choice is to let them go. But how do you do that with compassion, clarity, and grace? In this episode, I’m sharing how to recognize when a relationship has run its course, what it means from a soul-growth perspective, and how to navigate endings without blame, shame, or judgment. You’ll also learn how to move forward with self-compassion and confidence, even when grief arises. In this episode, I cover: How to tell when a relationship is no longer aligned The difference between ego reactions and soul growth Steps for ending relationships with compassion and truth Why grief is natural, and how to allow it to move through you   Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Join me LIVE in Boone, NC, at The Art of Living Retreat Center. Click here to learn more!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

When our kids leave the nest, we’re left with a house that feels quieter, emptier, and sometimes unbearably still. This transition can stir up grief, loss, and confusion about who we are without the daily role of being “mom” or “dad” at the center of our lives. In this episode, I’m talking about the very real experience of empty nest syndrome and how to navigate it with compassion and consciousness. No one prepares us for this season of life, but it can also be an opportunity to reconnect with ourselves, process our emotions, and step into a new chapter with purpose. In this episode, I cover: Why grief is a natural and necessary part of the empty nest transition How to process and metabolize your emotions instead of avoiding them The importance of letting go of control and trusting your kids’ journeys Ways to validate yourself as a parent and give yourself grace How to begin exploring your “Act Two” and discover new purpose in this season of life   Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Join me LIVE in Boone, NC, at The Art of Living Retreat Center. Click here to learn more! Get 20% off at Aquatru.com with promo code: MCSHOW   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Gaslighting can make you question your thoughts, your memories, even your sanity. If you've ever found yourself feeling confused, doubting your reality, or thinking maybe it’s just me, this episode is for you. In today’s show, we’re taking a clear, grounded look at what gaslighting really is, how to spot it, and how to reclaim your truth and power when it happens. Whether it’s happening in a romantic relationship, at work, or with family, you’ll walk away with tools to identify gaslighting and protect your sense of self. In this episode, you’ll hear: What gaslighting sounds and feels like in real life Why confusion is the biggest red flag How to trust yourself again and set healthy boundaries Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Join me LIVE in Boone, NC, at The Art of Living Retreat Center. Click here to learn more!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Why do we do the very things that keep us stuck? Whether it's falling off a new routine, pulling away from a great relationship, or creating drama when things are finally going well, self-sabotage can show up in so many ways, and it’s incredibly frustrating. In this episode, I’m breaking down what self-sabotage really is, why it happens, and how to shift out of it using the Adult Chair model. You’ll learn how to identify the unconscious parts driving the behavior and how to reparent those parts with compassion, so you can finally get out of your own way and start living the life you truly want. In this episode, you’ll hear: What self-sabotage really looks like (and how to spot it) Common reasons we sabotage things we care about A simple way to uncover and heal the part behind the pattern Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Join me LIVE in Boone, NC, at The Art of Living Retreat Center. Click here to learn more!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant