The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult Chair

In today’s episode, I sit down with LaShonda Walker, one of my esteemed coaches, to discuss the profound impact of the Adult Chair model on various aspects of life. LaShonda shares how the model has helped her in parenting, navigating triggers, and maintaining peace.  We delve into the generational healing that arises from using the model and how it has transformed relationships within families. LaShonda also highlights the importance of emotional awareness and the power of intuition. In this episode, you’ll hear:  Insights on parenting through the Adult Chair and building deeper connections with children How understanding and managing emotions can lead to lasting healing The connection between emotional health and physical well-being Breaking generational patterns and cultivating self-compassion through slowing down Resources from this Episode: LaShonda’s website: A New Life Story | Discover Emotional Growth Follow LaShonda: @anewlifestorycoach LaShonda’s Podcast:  A New Life Story The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

This week, I’m joined by Thais Gibson, an expert in personal development and the subconscious mind. Thais shares her journey from being a sensitive child in a chaotic home to becoming a leader in subconscious reprogramming. We dive into the roots of limiting beliefs, how our early experiences shape attachment styles, and what it really takes to heal. Thais brings so much wisdom and practical insight to this conversation, especially around building self-esteem, setting boundaries, and healing the inner child. In this episode, you’ll hear:  The truth about where limiting beliefs come from Tools for reprogramming the subconscious mind The four main attachment styles and how they form Why setting boundaries is an act of self-love How to heal the inner child and shift attachment patterns   Resources from this Episode: Thais’ Website: https://www.personaldevelopmentschool.com  Free Attachment Style Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com  Follow Thais on social media and YouTube for more. The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and it’s a great time to check in with yourself. In this episode, I’m answering a question I hear all the time: How do I know if I’m in my Adult Chair? I explain what it looks like when you’re stuck in ego or fear, and how different life feels when you’re grounded, present, and connected to your truth. I’m also sharing simple tools I use to stay in my adult chair each day. If you’re new to The Adult Chair or just need a refresher, this is a great episode to tune into. In this episode, I cover: What it means to live in your Adult Chair How to spot ego-based thoughts Why presence and trust matter Ways to connect with your inner knowing   Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Get ready for a powerful and heartfelt conversation as I sit down with intuitive medium and spiritual teacher Susan Grau to explore her extraordinary near-death experience and the deep spiritual awakening that followed. Susan shares what it was like to cross over, connect with spirit guides, and return with a completely transformed understanding of life, death, and healing. We also talk about her childhood, which was marked by trauma, including trafficking and the devastating loss of loved ones to suicide. Through her story, Susan shows us how pain can become a pathway to deep self-love, presence, and emotional resilience. This episode is filled with wisdom, inspiration, and hope for anyone who’s navigating grief, addiction, or past trauma. Susan’s journey is a reminder that healing is possible, no matter what we’ve been through. In this episode, you’ll hear: What Susan experienced during her near-death experience and how it changed her life How she connected with spirit guides and what they taught her Her journey through childhood trauma and profound loss Why self-love and presence are essential parts of healing How grief and addiction can be openings to spiritual growth Tools for navigating hard emotions and moving forward with compassion   Resources from this Episode: Susan’s Website: https://www.susangrau.com Susan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susangrauofficial/  Join Susan’s Infinite Soul Sanctuary Membership for more teachings and resources Susan’s book: Infinite Life, Infinite Lessons: Wisdom from the Spirit World on Living, Dying, and the In-Between The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE!   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

In this episode, I dive into the real work of healing emotional triggers, especially when they show up in our relationships. I walk you through how to find the root emotion behind your reactions, why childhood experiences still impact us today, and why true healing happens when we allow ourselves to feel our pain instead of avoiding it. I also share personal stories and practical tools you can use to start breaking old patterns, create healthier connections, and hold more unconditional love for yourself and the people around you. When we do this work, our relationships become more peaceful, authentic, and soul-aligned. In this episode, you’ll hear: How to find the root of a trigger and heal it Why feeling through the pain is necessary for growth How your healing work shifts relationship dynamics The importance of staying anchored in today's reality instead of old wounds   Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! The Relationship Reset Course   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Today, I’m sharing a powerful conversation about something we all need but many of us were never taught: how to become a healthy adult. In this episode, I walk through the five pillars of emotional health from my new book The Adult Chair and how each one helps us break old patterns, heal childhood wounds, and feel more grounded in our lives. I also open up about my own story, from growing up around anger to learning how to set boundaries and reconnect with my true self. This is about personal growth, yes, but it’s also about freedom, better relationships, parenting, and how we show up in the world. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why disassociation and numbing are actually survival tools What real boundaries look like and why they matter How childhood wounds shape our adult behavior How I used food to cope and what I’ve learned Why every adult needs this guide for emotional health   Resources from this Episode: Pre-order your copy of The Adult Chair book Get 20% off at Aquatru.com with promo code: MCSHOW   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Today, I’m answering a question I get all the time: “How do I connect with my soul?” The answer isn’t complicated, but it does requires us to slow down. I’m sharing how simple micro-moments of presence can help you tune into your inner wisdom and return to yourself. I’ll also tell a personal story about how a quiet walk (not the episode I planned!) turned into the download for this conversation. You don’t need hours of meditation to feel your soul. Just a minute of silence, a breath, or a moment of stillness can shift everything. In this episode, you’ll hear: What soul connection really feels like The difference between living from ego vs. soul How slowing down opens space for your inner voice Why emotional presence leads to peace and freedom A practical way to start connecting with your soul today Resources from this Episode: Pre-order your copy of The Adult Chair book and join me for my FREE masterclass on April 26th, 2025.   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Get ready for an enlightening conversation as I sit down with Michaela Boehm, renowned intimacy coach and relationship expert, to explore the essential elements of nurturing and maintaining healthy relationships. Michaela shares her wisdom on how nervous system regulation is key to fostering true intimacy and connection, and how relationships require care and attention, not just “work.” We discuss how generosity through simple acts of kindness, consideration, and praise can be the cornerstone of a thriving relationship. Michaela emphasizes the importance of offering the benefit of the doubt and alleviating heavy workloads as ways to support each other. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership or just starting out, this episode is packed with valuable insights on how to keep your relationship healthy, alive, and full of connection. In this episode, you will hear: How nervous system regulation is essential for fostering intimacy and connection in relationships The importance of generosity and kindness in building strong, healthy partnerships Simple, everyday acts of consideration that can nurture your relationship Why relationships require upkeep and effort, just like caring for your body Michaela’s advice on balancing intimacy and self-care How to approach relationship challenges with mindfulness and compassion   Resources from this Episode: MichaelaBoehm.com: Here, you’ll find free resources, quizzes, podcasts, on-demand courses, and workshops to support your personal growth.   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Get ready for a transformative conversation as I welcome Dr. Judith Orloff—psychiatrist, empath, and bestselling author—onto the show to dive deep into the world of empathy and energy management. Judith shares her incredible wisdom on how being an empath can be both a profound gift and a real challenge, and she offers powerful, practical tools to protect your energy and set healthy boundaries. We talk about how empaths can feel deeply without taking on other people’s pain, and how to embrace empathy as a strength—not something that drains you. Judith also introduces the concept of "loving detachment," a powerful practice that helps us stay grounded, centered, and energized even in intense situations. Whether you identify as an empath or are close to someone who is, this episode is packed with guidance and insight to help you cultivate emotional resilience and build stronger, healthier relationships. In this episode, you will hear: What it really means to be an empath and how to manage overwhelming emotions   Tools for protecting your energy and creating strong, clear boundaries   The power of loving detachment and how to stay grounded in challenging situations   How to use your empathic gifts without feeling drained or overstimulated   Judith’s personal stories and advice on balancing empathy with self-care   Ways to build more connected relationships while honoring your own emotional needs   Resources from this Episode: Get The Genius of Empathy by Dr. Judith Orloff Dr. Judith Orloff’s Website: drjudithorloff.com Follow Dr. Orloff on Instagram: @judith.orloff.md Take Judith’s Empath Quiz: Are You an Empath?   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Prepare for an eye-opening conversation as Michelle sits down with Dr. Lisa Miller, a psychologist, researcher, and bestselling author, to explore the science of spirituality and its profound impact on mental health and well-being. Dr. Miller shares groundbreaking insights from her research on the "awakened brain," revealing how spirituality is not just a belief system but a fundamental aspect of human resilience and flourishing. She delves into the neuroscience behind spiritual awareness and how cultivating this awareness can enhance our lives, relationships, and overall sense of purpose. Drawing from decades of research and personal experience, Dr. Miller explains how awakening to a deeper sense of connection can help us navigate life's challenges, improve mental health, and foster a greater sense of meaning. She also discusses how both science and spirituality work hand in hand to support human development and well-being. In this episode, you will hear: What the "awakened brain" is and how it transforms our lives. The scientific link between spirituality and mental health. How spiritual awareness strengthens resilience and emotional well-being. The role of spirituality in overcoming trauma and adversity. Practical ways to cultivate an awakened mind in daily life. How integrating spirituality into therapy and self-care can enhance healing.   Resources from this Episode: Dr. Lisa Miller’s Website: https://www.lisamillerphd.com  Dr. Lisa Miller's Book: The Awakened Brain: The New Science of Spirituality and Our Quest for an Inspired Life Get 20% off at Aquatru.com with promo code: MCSHOW   MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant