
Ethical Seduction
Ethical Seduction is a show designed to help you learn to flirt and connect easily, naturally, and authentically. We want to change the perception of what flirting and seduction are and how they can be used to benefit everyone. The time and effort you put into flirting should be seen as a positive experience that demonstrates who you are and what you have to offer. Our approaches to flirting are authentic, sex-positive, inclusive, and for all genders and orientations. So please, come flirt with us!
Latest episodes

Jan 31, 2022 • 35min
Ethical Seduction #054 - Dropping bombs like “I love you.”
When is the right time to tell someone that you love them? Some people say it early on and it feels easy for them to say. Others, like Brandie and Steven, hold on to it for dear life because they don’t want to say it until they are really, really, really sure! Also, how do you respond when someone says it to you before you may be ready? Of all the bombs to drop on someone, saying “I love you” can be one of the biggest. Luckily Brandie, Eva, and Kimberly have all the answers.
Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com

Jan 17, 2022 • 37min
Ethical Seduction #053 - Easy Indirect Flirting Methods
Not everyone likes walking up and directly approaching someone who they are interested in. Many of us prefer a more subtle and potentially safer “indirect” approach to flirting. One where we don’t come across as potentially pushy, but that feels more natural, comfortable, and flows easily. Indirect flirting methods can be easy to start and let you both find out if this is something you want to pursue further.
Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
References: Psychology Today article by Jen Mlk https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/valley-girl-brain/201203/how-flirt-without-it-seeming-youre-flirting

Jan 3, 2022 • 34min
Ethical Seduction #052 - I used to like you… but now I don’t.
Why do some people act super affectionate at first and then suddenly ghost on us? Why do we develop a crush on someone only to later find it evaporates overnight? Sexual and romantic desire is rather fickle and always changing, but we can learn to go with the flow in a way that both protects ourselves and is kind to others.
Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
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Dec 20, 2021 • 30min
Ethical Seduction #051 - Flirting Mixed Signals
A listener writes in asking how to navigate situations where someone isn't really into them but likes to flirt nevertheless? Also asking why people behave this way? So we deep dive into flirting mixed signals, how they may be interpreted, what they may mean, and why someone may choose to do this. Plus we cover how to work through this with the other person so the intentions are clear and understood by all.
Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
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Dec 10, 2021 • 58min
Ethical Seduction #050 - Bedroom Rope Bondage with Nurse Jane
Nurse Jane teaches us a few simple bedroom rope bondage ideas to help heighten your partner's arousal. First she covers a few easy to learn ties and then demonstrates the more complex and creative ways you can bind and position your partner! Nurse Jane has something sexy for all you riggers and rope bunnies alike! Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to learn how to create the experiences you want - in and out of the bedroom!
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Nov 26, 2021 • 38min
Ethical Seduction #049 - Establishing Healthy Boundaries
Ever had someone overstep your boundaries and felt the pressure because of it? Ever not taken care of yourself as well as you know you should? Eva gives us suggestions for establishing healthy boundaries to help keep us in the sweet, happy spot of life.
Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
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Nov 12, 2021 • 32min
Ethical Seduction #048 - Shyness and Getting What You Want!
There is nothing wrong with being shy, however some people may find they hold themselves back because of it. It often takes a bit of risk to put yourself out there and ask for what you want. Today we offer some suggestions to help make it easier with getting what you want in a relationship, in the bedroom, and in life in general. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
References:
LifeHack - Ten tips for shy people to meet friends.
https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/ten-tips-for-shy-people-meet-friends.html
WikiHow - How to talk to people when you are shy
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wikihow.com/Talk-to-People-when-You%2527re-Shy%3Famp%3D1
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Oct 29, 2021 • 37min
Ethical Seduction #047 - Submission and the Ecstasy of It!
In BDSM, what exactly is submission or “being submissive” and why do people like this? We explore all the positive, strong, and freeing aspects of submission and why it’s so rewarding for so many people. We dispel the myths about submission implying someone is weak and instead find out what’s going on at a deeper level. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
Referenced Links: “9 Different Types of Submission”, article link: https://lovingbdsm.net/2018/07/11/different-types-of-submission/
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Oct 22, 2021 • 3min
Ethical Seduction #046 - Ethical Seduction Update
This episode is intended to give listeners an update on some of the future things we want to focus on, such as potential class ideas in the area of dating, relationships, and sex education. But it's also to let people know that in order to do that we need to change to bi-weekly shows, at least for a little while.

Oct 15, 2021 • 32min
Ethical Seduction #045 - Tips for Reviving a Dry Sex Life
It can be normal to go through a period of time where your sex life is not where you want it to be. Today we are going to give you ideas for spicing things up, bringing back the sexy, AND for connecting or reconnecting with your partner! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com
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