
You Need Therapy
Kathryn DeFatta, who has earned her Masters of Education from Vanderbilt University in Human Development Counseling, is inviting you into conversations around what it’s like to live fully in a world where we’ve become accustomed to shut parts of ourselves off. Here you will find a space that welcomes in discomfort, tough questions, and hard truths, all while showing how to find joy through it all.
Latest episodes

Dec 11, 2023 • 47min
Is It Funny or Do I Need Therapy?
The podcast explores the intersection of humor and trauma in therapy, discussing the use of sarcasm and memes on social media. It delves into the role of humor as both a defense mechanism and coping skill, highlighting its importance in therapy and professional settings. The chapter also touches on the themes of purpose, connectivity, and mental health, emphasizing healthy confrontation and the value of connections.

Dec 6, 2023 • 13min
Couch Talks: I’m Struggling to Forgive Myself For Having An Abortion
Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to kathryn@youneedtherapy.com. This week a listener writes in about a difficult decision she recently made after discovering she was pregnant. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 4, 2023 • 33min
Gift Giving Paralysis + Mental Health Minded Gift Guide
Gift giving analysis paralysis is a real thing, and this week, Kat is talking about why the season of giving can be so stressful sometimes. Then, she shares a special mental health minded gift guide to help promote simple gift ideas that anyone can benefit and find joy from! Kat’s Amazon Mental Health Minded Gift Guide Giving Keys Bombas Socks Able Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 29, 2023 • 15min
Couch Talks: I Feel Guilty Leaving My Job
Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to kathryn@youneedtherapy.com. This week, a listener writes to Kat about wanting to leave her current job but feeling stuck because of the guilt she has around what it would mean for her boss and co-workers if she left. Kat shares an impactful conversation she had with her boss when she left her job in 2016 and how it helped her to not take on unnecessary guilt and shame. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 27, 2023 • 23min
The Problem with Playing to Win
In this podcast, Kat talks about the importance of being flexible with plans and the mindset change that has made a big difference in her life. She discusses the brilliance she gathered from Simon Sinek's book, "The Infinite Game," and his viral motivational talks. The hosts also discuss the power of flexibility and adaptability in decision-making. Furthermore, they explore Simon Sinek's explanation of finite games versus infinite games in game theory and how it applies to business and life. They offer suggestions for shifting mindset and share helpful resources and personal updates.

Nov 22, 2023 • 20min
Couch Talks: 5 Things to Remember on Thanksgiving
Couch Talks is the special bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com. This week however, instead of answering a question, Kat offers 5 important reminders to consider before walking into your family Thanksgiving Dinner. You do not need to starve yourself in order to earn a Thanksgiving meal. Just because someone says something it doesn’t mean you have to accept it. If your stomach looks like you ate after you ate- it’s because you ate. If you get overwhelmed you can ask for what you need. Your Mother in laws comments about food/ bodies/ exercise etc are about her not you. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 20, 2023 • 39min
Bachelorette Culture with Amy Brown
This week Kat is bringing Amy Brown to You Need Therapy to talk about bachelorette party culture. It seems like the parties get more extravagant, expensive, and instagram worthy each year and in this episode we are discussing why that might be happening. Together, Kat & Amy reminisce on their own bachelorette parties and how to distinguish what is important when it comes to celebrating both yourself and your friends during these special events. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 15, 2023 • 12min
Couch Talks: I Was Recently Diagnosed with Bi Polar II
This podcast discusses the challenges of diagnosing bipolar II and differentiating it from borderline personality disorder. It provides advice and support for those recently diagnosed. There are also brief mentions of contact information, ads, and booking.com.

Nov 13, 2023 • 42min
Ketamine & Treatment Resistant Depression with Selena Phillips & Rhonda Bartine
This week Kat is talking to the founders of Willows Health and Recovery, Selena Phillips & Rhonda Bartine. During this episode they discuss how Ketamine is now being used to help those who struggle with Treatment Resistant Depression. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 8, 2023 • 22min
Couch Talks: Can Faith & Therapy Co-Exist?
Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions listeners send to kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com. This week a listener writes in with a crisis involving the intersection of therapy and religion. "How do we know if the things going on in our heads are due to the “battle of good and evil” or just a matter of chemical imbalance and how can we both work on our mental health and surrender to a higher power." The good news here is that believing in the power of prayer doesn’t mean you don’t believe in therapy and going to therapy doesn’t mean you can't trust that a God exists. In this episode Kat discusses how both can fit and work together versus against! Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.