The Break Up Break Down

Pionaire Podcasting
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Apr 1, 2025 • 1h 20min

When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5Replay

This episode originally aired in season 5-We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!-This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:41): How they met-(13:51): The first major problem in their relationship-(20:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship-(28:56): Possible Grooming Behavior-(35:01): Discovering the affair-(47:11): Confronting her mother and husband-(57:30): The aftermath of the conflict-(01:05:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings-(01:09:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources-(01:13:39): Reflecting/advice-(01:19:32): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 27, 2025 • 17min

Break Down Bonus: When does religion become harmful in your relationship?

Follow the podcast!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 25, 2025 • 46min

When a church prophet influenced her to marry him.... - S7E11

She married him after 'confirmation' from a church prophet who told her it was a divine match, but over time, her marriage turned dangerous. The final straw? An all-consuming fight over a Disney World burger that finally made her realize her life was worth more than a marriage that could leave her dead.-This week we're raising awareness for Family Violence Prevention Services in San Antonio, TX: https://fvps.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:25): How they met-(13:15): The prophet-(17:10): The start of the abuse-(25:27): The burger situation-(29:41): The end of the relationship-(36:43): Reflecting/advice-(49:33): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 20, 2025 • 19min

Break Down Bonus: When your mental health struggles impact your relationship w/ the Personality Hires

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ-Attachment styles with Kat Schneider, LCSW: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d5a44e5000113fcf9f-Attachment styles + healthy conflict: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d5a44e5000113fcfb9-Follow the podcast!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 18, 2025 • 31min

When she said he had a new girl 12 days later.... - S7E10

When this week's guest ended her relationship, she expected to have time to heal, only to discover that her ex moved on with someone new just 12 days after their split. As her suspicion grows, she wonders if his new flame and him got together before the breakup or if he was simply that quick to replace her. We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Hope Center in Pittsburgh: https://akhopecenter.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:05): How they met-(10:24): Red flags-(17:24): The end of the relationship-(20:15): The aftermath -(23:26): Reflecting/advice-(34:02): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 13, 2025 • 12min

Break Down Bonus: Finding out your partner is cheating from a website?! w/ the Personality Hires

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ-Follow the podcast!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 11, 2025 • 23min

When she became 'the other woman' after she was cheated on.... - S7E9

After her divorce, she falls for a charming, attentive man, believing she’s finally found a fresh start. But when she learns he’s married, she’s forced to face the painful irony of becoming what once shattered her. Why did she stay even after finding out about his other relationship? We'll dig into the details when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Safe Space in Stuart, FL: https://safespacefl.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 6, 2025 • 16min

Break Down Bonus: Do men deprioritize friends more or less than women in new relationships?

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ-Follow the podcast!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Mar 4, 2025 • 32min

When she said he sued her when their relationship ended.... - S7E8

She says she endured a breakup so intense that she suffered cardiac arrest twice, barely surviving the emotional and physical toll. As she fights to recover, her ex sues her, completely blindsiding her. What happened within the nearly five years of their relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Care Lodge in Meridian, MS: https://www.carelodge.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 27, 2025 • 22min

Break Down Bonus: Childhood sexual trauma's impact on relationships w/ Claire Horner LPC, LPCC

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-Tune into Claire's podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/claire-and-sadohl/episodes/The-Trauma-Therapy-Network-A-Resource-for-Survivors-and-Therapists-e2k26c6/a-aba0t9h-Follow the podcast!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-[CW: Mention of rape, sexual assault, incest, molestation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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