Unapologetically Sensitive

Navigating Reconnection after Rupture: Messiness Is a Healthy Part of Relationships   Patricia and Jen discuss the challenges of reconnecting after a rupture in their relationship. They explore the fear of not being able to get back to normal and the desire for rupture and repair in significant relationships. They also discuss the importance of authenticity, setting boundaries, and being clear about needs and expectations. They touch on topics such as OCD, panic attacks, and the process of growth and transformation.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their current emotional states and the challenges they are facing. They explore topics such as discomfort, identity, accuracy in sharing personal experiences, and the process of unmasking. They also touch on the importance of honoring individual processes and the impact of communication and responsiveness in relationships. Patricia shares her experiences with OCD and the need for connection, while Jen reflects on the need for self-care and exploring new directions. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and growth. Takeaways ·         Honor your own process and don't feel pressured to share or show up in a certain way. ·         Recognize the impact of communication and responsiveness in relationships. ·         Embrace self-awareness and explore new directions for personal growth. ·         Practice authenticity and unmasking to find joy and connection. Reconnecting after a rupture in a relationship can be challenging and may require starting over to rebuild the connection. ·         Fear of not being able to get back to normal after a rupture is common, but rupture and repair are a natural part of significant relationships. ·         Authenticity, setting boundaries, and clear communication about needs and expectations are essential for maintaining healthy relationships. ·         It is important to recognize and manage conditions like OCD and panic attacks, and to seek support and self-care when needed. ·         Growth and transformation in relationships require navigating uncertainty and being open to change. Sound Bites ·         "Hey, Patricia, that feels like a trick question these days." ·         "I'm feeling a little uncomfortable." ·         "I get excited that we're willing to talk about some of the things that are difficult." ·         "But it's not like when I reconnect with you, I go oh, we're connected. It's like I lose that and we almost have to start over again for me to get that connection." ·         "The if onlys, right? The if only we do this right, then we're never gonna have to do it again." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Expressing Discomfort 03:02 Navigating Identity and Accuracy in Sharing 07:58 The Impact of Communication and Responsiveness 11:52 Embracing Self-Awareness and Exploring New Directions 23:38 Reconnecting After Rupture 28:22 Authenticity and Setting Boundaries in Relationships 30:15 Managing Conditions like OCD and Panic Attacks 32:20 The Process of Growth and Transformation in Relationships PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS Diane Poole-Heller: https://dianepooleheller.com/   Jen’s Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen’s website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia’s Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

In a heartfelt discussion, personal experiences from a recent trip to Chicago reveal the challenges of navigating family dynamics. Emphasis is placed on the critical need for open communication and expressing feelings to heal attachment injuries. The speaker highlights the importance of taking up space and advocating for personal needs within relationships. Through vulnerability and self-awareness, the journey towards building secure attachments and managing emotional struggles unfolds, showcasing the path to healthier connections.

Anger and Attachment: Navigating Different Neurotypes Within a Relationship Patricia and Jen explore the dynamics of attachment injuries, ADHD, and autism within their friendship. They explore the challenges of communication, time orientation, and emotional regulation. They touch on the concept of platonic life partnership and the challenges navigating different attachment styles and the impact of past trauma on present interactions. They discuss the importance of setting expectations, creating safe containers for communication, and validating each other's emotions.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary The conversation delves into the complexities of attachment wounds, communication styles, and emotional regulation within a friendship. Takeaways ·         The impact of attachment injuries, ADHD, and autism on communication and emotional regulation in friendships. ·         The challenges of navigating differences in time orientation and managing expectations within a friendship. ·         The concept of platonic life partnership and its relevance in fostering secure attachments and meaningful connections in friendships. ·         Navigating attachment wounds and communication styles in friendships can be complex and challenging. ·         Understanding the impact of past trauma on present interactions is crucial for building empathy and connection. ·         Setting clear expectations and creating safe containers for communication can help navigate emotional triggers and attachment injuries in friendships. ·         Validating each other's emotions and experiences is essential for building trust and understanding in a friendship. Additional Takeaways: Understanding the importance of having important conversations and finding the right time for them. Exploring vulnerability and the fear of being misunderstood or perceived as angry. Acknowledging feelings of frustration and hopelessness in relationships. Validating the range of human emotions, including anger, and the need to express them fully. Reflecting on personal tendencies and vulnerabilities, such as attachment injuries. Recognizing the impact of dysregulation and expressing anger in a healthy manner. Navigating feelings of anger and the desire for mutual understanding in relationships. Balancing the need for connection with the challenges and pain of relationships. Embracing vulnerability and seeking growth through therapy and self-reflection. Learning to communicate effectively and manage difficult emotions in relationships. Exploring the complexities of attachment styles and their influence on behavior. Cultivating self-awareness and empathy towards oneself and others. Addressing past traumas and their effects on present relationships. Practicing self-care and setting boundaries to maintain emotional well-being. Embracing change and growth through ongoing self-reflection and therapy. Building resilience and coping strategies for navigating challenging emotions. Fostering healthy communication patterns and conflict resolution skills. Recognizing the importance of seeking support and guidance in times of emotional distress. Embracing authenticity and vulnerability as pathways to personal healing and growth. Encouraging listeners to engage in self-discovery and emotional exploration for personal development. Sound Bites "Having these conversations is important." "I'm doing the best I can in my unmedicated, very sloppy way." "Those are gonna be the labels that you're gonna have if you don't want the label." "Navigating attachment wounds and communication styles in friendships can be complex and challenging." "Understanding the impact of past trauma on present interactions is crucial for building empathy and connection." "Setting clear expectations and creating safe containers for communication can help navigate emotional triggers and attachment injuries in friendships." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) Chapters 00:00 Exploring Attachment Injuries and Gremlins in Friendship Dynamics 03:04 Understanding Time Orientation and Emotional Regulation in Relationships 08:20 Navigating Differences in Communication and Expectations 14:02 The Concept of Platonic Life Partnership and Friendship Dynamics 29:19 Understanding the Impact of Past Trauma on Present Interactions 39:22 Creating Safe Containers for Communication in Friendships 43:19 The Importance of Validating Emotions in Friendships PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen’s Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen’s website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia’s Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

PDA & Empowering Autonomy: Navigating Uncertainty and Travel Preparation   Patricia discusses her experiences with attachment injuries, being activated, anxiety, and preparing for travel. She shares insights into managing her emotions and navigating relationships through the lens of autism with a PDA profile. Patricia asserts her need for autonomy, feelings of powerlessness, and the challenges of managing uncertainty. Patricia also explores her experiences with OCD, hypervigilance, and the impact of early childhood trauma on her current behaviors and thought patterns.   HIGHLIGHTS Takeaways ·         Exploring attachment injuries and the impact on relationships ·         Managing anxiety and OCD symptoms ·         Navigating travel preparations and the challenges of change and uncertainty ·         Understanding the impact of early childhood trauma on current behaviors ·         Coping with autism and sensory processing   Ways to reclaim a sense of agency and control when faced with feelings of powerlessness. Acknowledge the lack of control and see if there are ways to be more proactive in daily life. Focus on stepping back into your life and regaining a sense of autonomy. Address attachment injuries and work towards healing and growth. Engage in activities that help manage anxiety, especially in anticipation of upcoming events like travel, or where there’s uncertainty. Utilize skills and coping mechanisms to navigate challenges that can activate your nervous system. Seek comfort in preparedness and organization, such as creating packing lists and to-do lists (IF this brings you comfort). Maintain open communication with family or support systems to process emotions and work through difficulties.   Strategies for travel to increase your sense of autonomy, reduce anxiety, and promote a smoother travel experience. Create a universal packing list to streamline the packing process. Develop a to-do list for tasks related to travel arrangements and pet care, childcare, plant care, etc. Utilize familiar items like a fleece throw for comfort during the trip. Opt for direct flights to minimize the stress of layovers. Communicate openly with family members or travel companions to address concerns and plan activities effectively. Embrace routines and familiar items to provide comfort and stability in new environments. Engage in troubleshooting and forecasting to anticipate potential challenges and mitigate anxiety. Make a plan, but try and have some flexibility for unanticipated changes. Sound Bites "I think probably the easiest place to start is the attachment injuries." "It's just fascinating to watch. It's also really annoying AF." Chapters please allow for the addition of the introduction 00:00 Navigating Attachment Injuries and Emotional Management 13:39 Challenges of Travel Preparations and Coping Strategies PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6 Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

The podcast explores the dynamics of monogamy and polyamory in friendships. It delves into defining communication patterns, navigating attachment wounds, and embracing individual needs in relationships. Additionally, it discusses the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in maintaining connections and understanding the nuances of primary and secondary relationships.

Attachment: Self-Compassion, Recognizing & Healing Unblended Parts   Patricia and Jen discuss their personal experiences with attachment injuries and how it affects their relationship. They explore the challenges of communication and the impact of past traumas. Patricia shares insights from her recovery journey, drawing parallels between her eating disorder and her attachment struggles. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion and understanding in navigating these complex dynamics. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the value of conflict and the importance of welcoming all parts of ourselves.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary Patricia and Jen discuss the experience of being preoccupied with attachment injuries and how it affects their thoughts and behaviors. They explore the concept of being blended with certain parts and the importance of unblending to gain perspective. They also touch on the role of a catalyst in triggering attachment wounds and the process of healing and unblending. They emphasize the need for self-compassion and understanding when going through intense emotions and trauma work Takeaways ·         Attachment injuries can impact relationships and trigger past traumas. ·         Communication can be challenging when attachment wounds are activated. ·         Self-compassion and understanding are crucial in navigating attachment struggles. ·         Recovery from past traumas requires self-reflection and self-awareness. Attachment injuries can lead to preoccupation with thoughts and behaviors related to the relationship. ·         Being blended with certain parts can make it difficult to gain perspective and let go of preoccupations. ·         The presence of a catalyst in triggering attachment wounds can provide an opportunity for healing and growth. ·         Self-compassion and understanding are crucial when going through intense emotions and trauma work. ·         Conflict can be seen as an opportunity for growth and understanding, rather than something negative or bad. Sound Bites "I'm actually doing really well. This is day four of feeling like I'm back to my grounded self." "In the absence of having information and without a secure attachment, I made up a story in my head of like, you didn't even respond to this." "Confidence is such a beautiful attribute sometimes, right? That I have the confidence that you have this." "When I'm in a place where I'm struggling with my attachment injuries, I'm preoccupied about the thoughts that I have about you, where you are, where I am in the relationship." "In IFS terms, we would say blended, right? When you're so completely blended, there's no other perspective." "This preoccupied stuff is, oof, I mean, it can get so intense." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:27 Parenting Challenges and Appreciation 05:10 Navigating Attachment Injuries and Communication Challenges 08:06 The Impact of Past Traumas on Relationships 11:25 Understanding the Complex Dynamics of Attachment 16:14 Articulating Experiences and Symbolic Communication 21:36 Blended Parts and Unblending 25:20 The Role of a Catalyst 29:59 Healing and Unblending 37:47 Conflict as an Opportunity PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen’s Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen’s website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia’s Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

Healing Attachment Wounds: Navigating Tough Conversations with Love   Patricia discusses her ongoing work on attachment wounds and her recent conversation with her mother about her childhood. She emphasizes the privilege of being able to have these conversations and acknowledges that not everyone has that opportunity. Patricia also explores expectations in her relationship with Jen, highlighting the challenges of navigating attachment injuries. She shares an email from a listener expressing gratitude for her vulnerability and relatability. Patricia concludes by affirming the importance of honoring all of your feelings.   HIGHLIGHTS Takeaways ·         Having conversations about attachment wounds with a parent or caregiver can be a healing and transformative experience, but it is a privilege that not everyone has. ·         The healing work can still happen even if you can’t do it with the person where the injuries originally happened. ·         The majority of healing work is done individually, with support from coaches or therapists, and having conversations with a parent or caregiver is just a small part of the process. ·         Navigating attachment and expectations in relationships can be challenging, especially for individuals with attachment injuries. It is important to communicate and share feelings with your partner (when it is safe and appropriate) to create understanding and connection. ·         Sharing vulnerability and authenticity can have a profound impact on others, as it helps them feel seen, heard, and less alone in their own struggles. ·         Embracing sensitivity and honoring all of our feelings, even the challenging ones, is an important part of self-care and self-acceptance. Additional Concepts Covered Embracing Vulnerability: Acknowledging and exploring emotional openness in healing. Cultivating Empathy: Nurturing understanding and compassion in relationships. Navigating Childhood Wounds: Understanding the impact of past experiences on present emotions. Honoring Neurodiversity: Recognizing and respecting diverse cognitive perspectives. Fostering Emotional Resilience: Building strength in facing emotional challenges. Celebrating Individual Differences: Valuing unique ways of processing emotions. Promoting Self-Care Practices: Encouraging personalized well-being routines. Empowering Neurodiverse Voices: Amplifying diverse narratives in healing conversations. Building Emotional Intelligence: Developing awareness and regulation of emotions. Creating Safe Spaces: Establishing supportive environments for emotional expression. Exploring Trauma Healing: Engaging in the process of emotional recovery and growth. Supporting Coping Strategies: Assisting in developing effective ways to manage emotions. Advocating for Inclusivity: Promoting acceptance and understanding in emotional discussions. Navigating Complex Emotions: Understanding and processing intricate feelings. Respecting Personal Boundaries: Honoring individual needs and comfort levels. Amplifying Diverse Narratives: Elevating a range of experiences in emotional healing. Encouraging Self-Reflection: Promoting introspection and self-awareness. Embracing Neurodivergent Perspectives: Valuing unique viewpoints in emotional discussions. Promoting Emotional Wellness: Supporting holistic well-being in emotional journeys. Championing Self-Acceptance: Encouraging self-love and validation in emotional growth Sound Bites "I'm always touched and inspired by your authenticity and depth." "I'm having feelings. Let's look at the feelings. What is the reality and do the work that I need to do." "You have a right to all your feelings. You have a right to be loud. You have a right to be intense. You have a right to take up space." Chapters please allow for the addition of the introduction 00:00 Introduction and Update 02:00 The Healing Work and Reparenting Process 08:03 Challenges and Vulnerability in Conversations 14:06 Self-Care and Managing Attachment Injuries 29:01 Managing Change and Uncertainty 37:48 Gratitude for Vulnerability and Embracing Sensitivity PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you LINKS   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com  

Experienced in stress management and relationship dynamics, Patricia and Jen share insights on stress, burnout, self-compassion, and attachment wounds. They discuss practical self-care activities, navigating challenges in relationships, and promoting well-being. Tips include managing burnout with self-compassion, honoring the need for rest, and the value of open communication in relationships.

Managing Expectations: Showing Up for Yourself During Hard Times   Jen and Patricia discuss attachment wounds in their friendship. They explore the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and managing expectations. They highlight the need for compassion & understanding when dealing with attachment issues & emphasize the ongoing work of healing & growth. In this conversation, Patricia shares her recent experiences with conflict & how she navigated this. She discusses the importance of leaning into difficult emotions and listening to others without defensiveness.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary The conversation revolves around attachment injuries and the impact they have on relationships. Patricia explores the concept of self-care and the need to treat oneself with kindness and nurturing. The conversation highlights the different lenses through which people view relationships and the importance of understanding one's own biases. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the value of curiosity, compassion, and self-empowerment in navigating challenging situations. In Depth Takeaways ·         Attachment injuries can impact relationships and trigger emotional reactions. ·         Self-awareness is crucial in recognizing and understanding attachment wounds. ·         Setting boundaries and managing expectations can help navigate attachment issues. ·         Compassion and understanding are essential in healing and growth. ·         Working on oneself and developing a strong inner relationship is key to managing attachment wounds. Leaning into difficult emotions and situations can lead to personal growth and understanding. ·         Listening without defensiveness allows for better communication and resolution in conflicts. ·         Self-care involves treating oneself with kindness and nurturing one's own needs. ·         Understanding one's own biases and lenses can improve relationships and communication. ·         Curiosity, compassion, and self-empowerment are essential in navigating challenging situations. Additional Takeaways Understanding emotional struggles: Gain insights into navigating complex emotions. Communication strategies: Learn effective ways to express feelings and thoughts. Attachment wounds exploration: Understand how past experiences impact relationships. Self-reflection tools: Discover techniques for introspection and personal growth. Compassion importance: Explore the role of empathy in fostering connections. Relationship navigation: Tips for managing challenges in interpersonal dynamics. Trauma healing techniques: Tools for addressing and healing past traumas. Empathy and connection building: Foster deeper connections with others. Self-care prioritization: Learn to prioritize self-care and well-being. Embracing imperfections: Understand the value of self-acceptance and growth. Emotional intelligence enhancement: Develop skills for understanding and managing emotions. Healthy boundaries cultivation: Establish boundaries for healthier relationships. Validation of experiences: Feel validated in your personal journey and struggles. Self-discovery encouragement: Find inspiration for exploring your true self. Personal growth support: Receive guidance for personal development and transformation. Conflict resolution strategies: Learn techniques for resolving conflicts peacefully. Resilience and strength building: Develop resilience to overcome challenges. Effective listening techniques: Enhance your listening skills for better communication. Vulnerability encouragement: Embrace vulnerability as a path to authenticity. Positive change inspiration: Get motivated to make positive changes in your life. Sound Bites "The theme is attachment injuries." "We all need a secure attachment." "I really have learned to lean into whatever is going on for the moment and knowing that it will last for as long as it lasts." "I was really able to listen instead of going into a place of defensiveness." "This is the first time that I honestly thought I don't want to do relationships anymore because the feelings were so intense." Chapters (please adjust for the addition of the introduction) 00:00 Introduction and Checking In 01:26 Attachment Injuries and Emotional Challenges 09:03 The Importance of Secure Attachment 11:18 Managing Expectations and Setting Boundaries 16:38 Learning to Show Up for Ourselves 18:30 Leaning into Difficult Emotions and Situations 19:40 Listening without Defensiveness in Conflict 24:35 The Importance of Self-Care and Nurturing 26:28 Understanding Biases and Lenses in Relationships 29:17 Curiosity, Compassion, and Self-Empowerment in Challenging Situations PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen’s Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen’s website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia’s Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com 000002BE 000002BE 00003D9C 00003D9C 000FF082 000FF082 00007E86 00007E86 000FEC87 000FEC87

Attachment Wounds: OCD, Projection, Managing Dysregulation   Patricia candidly discusses her experiences with attachment wounds, OCD tendencies, projection and trauma responses with Jen, and how this is showing up in their relationship. Patricia shares what her OCD thoughts tend to look like. Through introspection and vulnerability, Patricia reflects on the impact of past traumas on her emotional well-being. Their dialogue underscores the importance of self-awareness, self-care, and resilience in healing from attachment-related struggles.   CO-HOST Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC   HIGHLIGHTS Summary In this conversation, Patricia and Jen discuss their current emotional states and the challenges they are facing. Patricia shares her struggles with attachment wounds, OCD, and trauma triggers, while Jen offers support and understanding. They explore the concept of projection and how it affects their interactions. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-care and creating space for emotions. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities of relationships and the need for compassion and empathy. Takeaways: Understanding trauma responses and emotional regulation techniques. Exploring the impact of OCD on thought patterns and relationships. Navigating attachment wounds and their influence on behavior. Recognizing the importance of self-awareness in healing from past traumas. Addressing vulnerability and sensitivity in processing emotional challenges. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize self-care in relationships. Embracing authenticity and openness in communication. Coping with uncertainty and distress through emotional expression. Building resilience through self-reflection and self-compassion. Exploring the connection between somatic experiences and emotional well-being. Challenging cognitive distortions and negative self-talk. Cultivating empathy and understanding in interpersonal dynamics. Validating the full range of human emotions and experiences. Practicing mindfulness and conscious decision-making in relationships. Recognizing the role of shame and inner criticism in self-perception. Naming and addressing personal "gremlins" and self-doubt. Modeling emotional authenticity and self-care for others. Finding language for complex emotions and internal struggles. Embracing vulnerability as a pathway to healing and growth. Expressing gratitude for support and shared experiences in the journey towards emotional well-being. Understanding trauma responses and emotional regulation techniques. Exploring the impact of OCD on thought patterns and relationships. Navigating attachment wounds and their influence on behavior. Recognizing the importance of self-awareness in healing from past traumas. Addressing vulnerability and sensitivity in processing emotional challenges. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize self-care in relationships. Embracing authenticity and openness in communication. Coping with uncertainty and distress through emotional expression. Building resilience through self-reflection and self-compassion. Exploring the connection between somatic experiences and emotional well-being. Challenging cognitive distortions and negative self-talk. Cultivating empathy and understanding in interpersonal dynamics. Validating the full range of human emotions and experiences. Practicing mindfulness and conscious decision-making in relationships. Recognizing the role of shame and inner criticism in self-perception. Naming and addressing personal "gremlins" and self-doubt. Modeling emotional authenticity and self-care for others. Finding language for complex emotions and internal struggles. Embracing vulnerability as a pathway to healing and growth. Expressing gratitude for support and shared experiences in the journey towards emotional well-being. Chapters (please allow for addition of introduction)   00:00 Introduction and Emotional States 09:01 Exploring Attachment Wounds and Trauma Triggers 30:00 Building Stronger Relationships through Compassion and Empathy PODCAST HOST Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller.  Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion.  She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges.  Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you   CO-HOST BIO Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.   LINKS   Jen’s Links   Email: Jen@heartfulnessconsulting.com   Jen’s website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/   Patricia’s Links   Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/   Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6   Sign up for the Newsletter-- https://www.subscribepage.com/y0l7d4   To write a review in itunes: click on this link https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-sensitive/id1440433481?mt=2 select “listen on Apple Podcasts” chose “open in itunes” choose “ratings and reviews” click to rate the number of starts click “write a review”   Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/ Closed/Private Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/ Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/ Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber Tik Tok--https://www.tiktok.com/@unapologeticallysensitiv e-mail-- unapologeticallysensitive@gmail.com Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com