

Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls
Ruwan Meepagala
Practical philosophy on dating, relationships, fatherhood, purpose, culture, and your hero's journey through life.
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Feb 9, 2024 • 1h 7min
Masculine Health Solutions w/ CJ Rodriguez | 185
CJ Rodriguez from @masculinehealthsolutions podcast comes on to speak on male enhancement, natural bodybuilding, fatherhood, rebelling against modernity, and a male perspective on everything.

Jan 29, 2024 • 36min
How to Overcome the Mother Complex
According to Phub data, interest in "milf" skyrocketed last year. This says something about the male collective conscious via what Jung would call "The Mother Complex"-- material imprinting still affecting an adult man.
00:00 Phub data represents collective male consciousness
01:50 MILF going up to 2nd place (mommy issues?)
03:45 Mother Complex myths and movies
05:50 MILF trope (Mrs. Robinson)
09:20 The Oedipus Complex
16:30 Boy VS Man
18:30 What happens if you don't address the Mother Complex?
20:40 Coping mechanisms: transference, sex & violence
22:30 Madonna-Whore complex + merging the dichotomy
26:10 Coping mechanisms vs Integrating
27:30 Active Imagination exercise (Jung)
30:00 Feminine cleanse
31:16 Mapping complex to your actual mother
33:50 Mother Complex in Western culture
37:14 Coming soon: other psychological tropes

Jan 19, 2024 • 54min
Male Female Power Dynamics in Sexual Relationship w/ Om Rupani and Joseph | 184
How much can women "control" men's emotions? Om and Joseph return to the podcast to discuss an experiment testing this. Also the power dynamics between the genders.

Jan 11, 2024 • 1h 8min
Mystical & Scientific Therapy: Psychedelics and Psychology w/ James Kalupson | 183
James Kalupson is a psychotherapist who facilitates psylocybin retreats in Jamaica. We speak about Jungian vs. shamanic vs. traditional clinical approaches to personal transformation and the psyche.
https://www.jameskalupson.com/
https://mycomeditations.com
X: @jamesfkalupson

Jan 4, 2024 • 1h
Hans Comyn: How To Stay Free In a Relationship | 182
Hans Comyn rejoins the podcast in a different stage of life. He speaks on the Freedom vs. Commitment Dilemma that many men feel when in a relationship. Can one be truly free while in partnership?
If you want to work with Hans, contact him at hanscomyn@gmail.com
https://hanscomyn.com/global-lovestyle-consultation/

Dec 28, 2023 • 16min
Why Narcissists Abuse Randomly (Manipulation Technique)
Why do narcissists inflict random punishments?
And more importantly, why are so many drawn to it?
This video uses my favorite scene from the Sopranos to break down why random abuse works as a manipulation technique.

Dec 21, 2023 • 1h 4min
Steven Kessler: The 5 Personality Patterns | 181
In our first years of life, we each develop methods for feeling safe. These methods eventually shape our personality and how we behave in overwhelm, conflict, and intimacy.
Author of The Five Personality Patterns, psychotherapist Steven Kessler, explains how to recognize your pattern and meet your deeper needs.

Dec 15, 2023 • 23min
Fear of Money is the same as Fear of Women (Overcome Scarcity)
Money and Women are the most primal desires of men (Survival and Replication), and therefore the deepest triggers to self-worth and identity. And psychological blockages around them follow the same principles.
I share a recent story of a man who had a major breakthrough out of lifelong fear/scarcity, and how it applies to all areas of life.

Dec 8, 2023 • 47min
Is Narcissism actually a disorder? feat. Om and Joseph | 180
NPD is a hot topic in the pop psychology world, but is it really a pathology? Might there be an evolutionary purpose. I discuss this with my friends Om Rupani and psychotherapist Joseph Teskey.

Nov 30, 2023 • 15min
Authentic Flirting: How to know what to say and do
Flirting = speaking with the subtext, "I want you."
When authentic (and therefore easy), it comes from your instincts, not your thoughts.
Unleash your instincts: https://www.ruwando.com/archetype